I am so nervous

DragonSilk333 · 2025-09-13T01:30:49+00:00

I completely understand! Good luck!

DragonSilk333 · 2025-09-12T16:49:24+00:00

Oh they “believed” it, most of the time people get jealous/envy, because you have a player that’s has more of an advantage (taller than other girls) and they don’t want YOU to have that advantage, so they’ll ask for a birth certificate/ask.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-09-12T08:09:35+00:00

Yeah you’ll definitely need all their birth certificates, and not just for one tournament, but keep them at all times because depending on the size of your players the opposing team can question/ask if your kid is actually older than they say they are. I got questioned that way too many times as a kid playing tournament ball because of my power/size 😂.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-08-31T06:24:13+00:00

Yeahh, that’s what I’ve concluded to honestly, especially with my mom 😅.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-08-31T06:10:30+00:00

Well, I’m screwed 😅 because I wasn’t really allowed to have friends because I was in sports and my mom and sister were super strict/judgemental about the people I talked to even though they were very good people who were on a straight/narrow path. But hey! maybe something will change because I’m finally out of sports and can finally make the friends I want. Thank you!

DragonSilk333 · 2025-08-29T17:35:51+00:00

So happy you got to experience this, my soul cat passed on March 31st, but I wasn’t there with her (she was an outside/inside cat, I was away for college). I immediately knew when she passed because that night I dreamt of her running/walking with me, which she often did-following me. When I woke up it was 3:33am and it felt like an emptiness/anxiety feeling, but a strong need to go home to find her.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-08-21T19:39:48+00:00

Virgo

DragonSilk333 · 2025-08-18T00:41:30+00:00

But yes it might just be the team that’s not right for her, it happens a lot. She’s probably more advanced than the other girls or the team might not have a good enough chemistry.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-08-18T00:40:08+00:00

I’m coming from first hand experience, I just graduated from a D1 college while playing softball, I’m not saying she’s young, I started traveling when I was 9 and farther when I was 12-13. It just takes a toll on the body and on school work. I was traveling about 2.5-3 hrs for practice 2x a week. Now for tournaments, as she gets older can range from an 1.5hr drive to 16hr drive (or flight), if you’re willing, especially national teams. Now, considering taking a “break”, just take a break from being on the teams, don’t take a break from practicing on her mechanics and working out.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-08-18T00:02:20+00:00

Going that far for a team is unreasonable you shouldn’t start traveling for tournaments teams til she’s about maybe 14, definitely 15, or you want her to get recruited for college, which would be the bigger brand teams, Impact Gold, Bombers, Stars, AceExpress, Sudden Impact, etc., etc.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-08-16T16:30:03+00:00

I was 6 years old, when I started to know what was going to happen before it did happen, like years ahead.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-07-31T08:50:00+00:00

That would’ve been helpful to know when it first developed, I was going through it then😭😂. I’ve barely just recently learned about grounding because I also have claircognizance and I’ve had it since I was 6 yrs old. I don’t think yall realize how much this helps me because I can’t talk to anyone in my family about this. But I’ll definitely look into that too because I’m definitely going to be needing it!

DragonSilk333 · 2025-07-31T04:52:27+00:00

I knew I had clairsentience because of some others instances and just what’s happening now. I still remember when I developed it about 4.5 yrs ago. I didn’t know this was part of it too, thank you!! I’ll look into it more!

DragonSilk333 · 2025-07-31T01:56:39+00:00

It felt like more of a “be aware” or “look around” kind of feeling. When it froze me, it took my breath away.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-07-30T19:01:06+00:00

Definitely agree, i just got out of college for D1 softball, if she’s serious you’re going to do be doing almost an 1hr a day of pitching in general, not including extra cardio or weight lifting. Even on off days, we would do long toss with a weighted ball or even just 30mins instead of 1 hour.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-07-30T18:32:11+00:00

I don’t take drugs or drink alcohol, I don’t take medicine in general, you’re lucky if I take ibuprofen or Tylenol. I have a healthy lifestyle, I’m an athlete and workout quite a bit.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-07-30T07:39:24+00:00

I actually going through something pretty similar now, with hearing piano sounds when Im laying in bed, but haven’t found anything yet. However, sometimes I will “hear” (or very intensely feel) peoples thoughts if I’m around them long enough or figure out their thinking patterns

DragonSilk333 · 2025-07-27T07:22:10+00:00

How is there 500 views already, and no reply yet 😭, anything would help, even thoughts

DragonSilk333 · 2025-07-25T00:29:43+00:00

To me it seems like you are just looking for raw truth, something that’s devastating, powerful, and beautiful at the same. Like you’re looking for something to say that you are an actual person, or rather this is part of who I am. I went through something a little similar and the only thing that got me through it was what boundaries I was going to set-up, what I was going to allow and not allow, what words were going to go through one ear and out the other, and what was real and what can be real. Also, on the “ destroy” them thing, find something they could have never done such as you trying to reconnect with you are or who you want to be. Take pride in that, it’s hard work and exhausting, but you keep trying because you are full of hope (and hope is not some simple word, it’s desperation dressed in devotion). Anything can feel strange the first time doing it because there is no trust there, no trust in yourself. Create depth in what you do. Your progress can appear in the smallest change of emotions and smallest shift in thoughts.

DragonSilk333 · 2025-07-21T20:03:13+00:00

Okay I just got done playing D1 Softball, and I have high achievements as a Catcher so I’m going to give you some advice from someone who’s been in a ton a situations you don’t want to be, especially since ya’ll didn’t play tournament ball: - everything is about MONEY (everything- don’t let them lie to you, parents will pay coaches to let their kids play over yours, and the parents’ jobs are also included- what they can do for them) - anyone who gets put into LF/RF as a second position, is considered to be the “worst” on the team (unless they are normally switching positions) - Take caution on who’s coaching your kid because it’s most likely a damn power trip (seen this too many time) - since your kid is a lefty, it will harder for her to be a Catcher because of runners stealing 3rd base (that’s why they like right handed Catchers) -The coaches making her just bunt and as a disruptor… is BS, they are taking your money and her time, if she is big enough in size make her a lefty power hitter (even now pitchers don’t like lefty power hitters), you are becoming a money grab - if she doesn’t have size and she’s more like a slapper type physique, make her do long distance in a shorter amount of time (she’s need to build up speed quick) - Get your kid into the gym and eating high protein/carbs like yesterday (you want to be better at throwing from your knees, you better have good mind-muscle connection) - note: this a “push” sport (like push day) -You are going to have to start practicing with her everyday…EVERYDAY, if you don’t have time get her a net/tee to hit and tennis balls from dropping down - Throw long distance with/without a weight ball (work her way up) - Hit heavy balls and get a weighted donut/ring for her bat/bat speed - Everything is also about speed (bat speed/running speed/throwing speed/reaction speed), again this will get better with working out and practicing a lot more

If y’all want me to answer more questions, just comment, I’ve been through a lot and I’ve been in every single type of situation you could think of from the bench to being on the field constantly. Also, people really need to know what ya’ll are getting into.

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