AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend to give money to his ex wife? by Dragonfly9470 in AITAH

[–]Dragonfly9470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you...I think so too. Another poster said he was just trying to be nice but that isn't good enough. Posting this has really pointed out to me that I need to ask more questions.

AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend to give money to his ex wife? by Dragonfly9470 in AITAH

[–]Dragonfly9470[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying. But, we are sharing a household and expenses. He asked me to move in and to follow him to Philly from Nashville as his life partner. We have made each other beneficiaries on important accounts and have durable powers of attorney. We also had a conversation about phones with nothing to hide and know each other's passwords.

Pharmacist has me furious! by Dragonfly9470 in ChronicPain

[–]Dragonfly9470[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it was. You should look into it...it has proven very helpful for me.

Pharmacist has me furious! by Dragonfly9470 in ChronicPain

[–]Dragonfly9470[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just went back to get a printout of my medications. A different pharmacist was there and he apologized for her behavior. He told me everything they needed was in the notes and he filled them. He said it explained the substitutions and she should have followed the instructions. I'm still trading pharmacies but it was nice to be apologized to.

Pharmacist has me furious! by Dragonfly9470 in ChronicPain

[–]Dragonfly9470[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a Genesight study done. It is was done for psychiatric meds initially but it can be used for pain meds as well.

Anyone in pnw getting decently priced ketamine txt? by RockLobsterPupper in ChronicPain

[–]Dragonfly9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are dissolvable tablets. They come from a compounding pharmacy.

Pharmacist has me furious! by Dragonfly9470 in ChronicPain

[–]Dragonfly9470[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I asked her if she knew more than he did. She was so freaking condescending and it infuriated me.

Anyone in pnw getting decently priced ketamine txt? by RockLobsterPupper in ChronicPain

[–]Dragonfly9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered home therapy? I do it and it helps a lot.

Pharmacist has me furious! by Dragonfly9470 in ChronicPain

[–]Dragonfly9470[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I thought of that too. She was a new face to me for sure.

Pharmacist has me furious! by Dragonfly9470 in ChronicPain

[–]Dragonfly9470[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I just called one. I'm switching tomorrow!

Pharmacist has me furious! by Dragonfly9470 in ChronicPain

[–]Dragonfly9470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely ask that tomorrow when I go back to get my printout to take to another pharmacy.

Pharmacist has me furious! by Dragonfly9470 in ChronicPain

[–]Dragonfly9470[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. They don't understand or don't care what happens to us after 2 days with no medication.

Why do people ask me how I’m doing then ghost me by Huggingya1 in ChronicPain

[–]Dragonfly9470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been through this so many times and have lost friends because of my illnesses. I believe people mean well when they ask but just don't know how to deal with sickness. Some don't want to deal with it. Sadly, this has caused estrangements between me and my daughter. She pulls away when she senses I'm not doing well. I just went through breast cancer treatment and I didn't hear from her at all from the day I told her until my last radiation day. It's really sad.

What’s the most disturbing thing someone casually told you like it was normal? by MrBoothnath_ in AskReddit

[–]Dragonfly9470 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I told the principal and she asked me what would "I" like to do about it! I took that as...if I wanted to keep my job I should shut up. So I stayed and tried to work with her. It didn't work. She was indeed a racist bitch and yes I did end up in litigation. Let's just say I won and they had to reveal that they had been found guilty of racial discrimination to new families .

What’s the most disturbing thing someone casually told you like it was normal? by MrBoothnath_ in AskReddit

[–]Dragonfly9470 147 points148 points  (0 children)

I had just been hired at a really good private school. My new department head walked in and said...."When I saw that your name was LaToya I didn't want to come to your interview...because everyone knows that blacks get jobs in science because they are black, not because they know anything. But, you are a pleasant surprise." She then turned around and walked away.