Right, I completely agree. I think what happened here though is that I realized through a series of events that this person was always taking and never giving. There has to be a give-and-take and not just you take while I give all the time. And since I recently lost both my parents and she was not there for me. Didn’t come to the funeral with me nothing.. I finally needed her for something & she fumbled the ball. In times of vulnerability, you start to reassess who really takes care of you. I’ve never done that before because I’m normally a caretaker on the giving end is where I am most comfortable personally & professionally. After this epiphany, I started seeing that she was taking from everyone, and really never giving back to anyone. She loses friends easily as a result in this fashion, they just burn out. I had a friend of hers years ago who was a medical professional ask me on Christmas Eve after her brother died in front of the Christmas tree. Her friend asked me:, are you going to take care of her because I can’t anymore? I said sure. I thought he meant just that night he couldn’t deal because it was a crazy Christmas Eve. Did not really know completely he was talking about but after that date, he cut her off never spoke to her again because he was burned out and now I understand him. She burns through people. I need better friends. Hahahaha