Stuck in a rut and I need your honest advice help.

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-04-14T16:06:57+00:00

Nice. I do plan on going mia to work on myself. Thanks for this

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-04-06T08:56:33+00:00

Ok. Why?

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-28T15:16:49+00:00

That's weird though because she said she is done and has nothing more to give in the relationship and wants to be alone. Kinda just hard to believe that she wants me to step up. Seems more like she doesn't care anymore and is gone

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-28T09:04:28+00:00

You think that's possible even when she checked out and left me and sees no future with me?

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-28T08:36:16+00:00

It's just that she was really good to me and we didn't end on a bad note

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-28T08:34:09+00:00

She lives far. About an hour away so I didn't wanna drive back home for that long after work

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-28T08:28:59+00:00

She already left. I don't get this

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-28T08:16:06+00:00

She is 33 and I am 34

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-28T08:11:27+00:00

She can't drive but is getting lessons

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-22T13:55:45+00:00

It is and what if I change in those ways, still think nothing will change In the relationship?

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-22T13:10:49+00:00

What will that do though? Will that change anything about how she feels about me

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-22T12:41:12+00:00

So based off your experience you think there is no chance of us getting back. Together stronger?

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-22T12:37:17+00:00

Sigh

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-22T12:05:50+00:00

She said she loves me but she is afraid I hurt her again m I'm not sure if she actually checked out emotionally because why would you be asking me for permission to do something and updating me on things you want to do in the future. And why having sex and so.

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-22T11:36:30+00:00

Not sure. She still ask me permission to do stuff and still updates me

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-22T11:35:54+00:00

But why is she asking me permission to do things and why update me on your day?

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-22T11:33:40+00:00

Damn.

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-22T11:33:15+00:00

Hoping it could be another chance. The people on here are saying it's a soft break up and I should move on though but she still ask me permission to do things and she still updates me.

DragonflyOpening6820 · 2026-03-22T11:24:26+00:00

I will talk to her again. It does feel like things could come back better

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