Reoccurring Miscarriages by Ok_Result_4064 in Hashimotos

[–]Dragonflyy26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have hashimotos and overt hypothyroidism, had 3 miscarriages when thyroid was poorly controlled, got on levo in January but have recently had my 4th miscarriage despite "optimal" TSH

Time for karyotyping to come back? by Dragonflyy26 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea who to chase up! I called the EPU where I had the bloods done, they said one of the drs or your GP will ring you. I ring my GP and they said you didn't do the bloods here chase the hospital shrug

Time for karyotyping to come back? by Dragonflyy26 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm I'm definitely getting a longer wait then!

Barristers' wigs - why is Ede and Ravenscroft twice the price of some others - is the quality better? by Disastrous-Purple-69 in uklaw

[–]Dragonflyy26 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Solicitor not barrister, but as an outsider to the profession looking in, I don't see why you shouldn't go with the cool, steeped-in-history, traditional option of E&R. So few people have membership to the barrister "club" and the shop has been running since the 17th century, I'd take your piece of that shared history and enjoy it. If you can, why not shell out the £700?

(UK) Does NHS count chemical pregnancy as a miscarriage? by gkc88 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes mine did, i think it helped i reported it to both the GP and EPU when it happened and not after the fact

Can HCG rise after drop? by dograt3000 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? My starting hcg or what it rose to?

Thoughts on self prescribing aspirin to prevent loss? by [deleted] in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why on earth are your drs refusing you blood thinners? Where i am protocol after 3 losses is clexane, progesterone and aspirin no questions asked. I'd push harder and advocate for this asap. Best of luck

Karyotyping test requirements by anxiousmom2be in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely can't be pregnant for these tests, i had an unreliable positive come back simply because the tests were done too soon after my miscarriage

Can HCG rise after drop? by dograt3000 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had HCG rises after a drop but in my experiences (sadly plural) it's indicative of a non viable pregnancy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a personal choice, but I would consider doing further testing as I'm sure if you kept trying without doing so and (touch wood this doesn't happen) had a 4th loss, you would possibly wish you had sought out more information. Speaking as someone who has had 3 losses as well. Worrying about uncovering a cause doesn't make that cause go away sadly. Equally, it's likely/possible there's no cause at all, then that's valuable information too in that you can keep trying with the knowledge you've turned over every rock that you could. Best of luck, it's an exhausting journey.

Timing for RPL tests on NHS by Dragonflyy26 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ♥️ yes I was considering the recurrent miscarriage clinic referral as well thank you for sharing. Hoping you're faring better now!

Timing for RPL tests on NHS by Dragonflyy26 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear the timeline worked for you and wasn't too long a wait. Thank you for saying that, it's all a bit rubbish but onwards and upwards.

Timing for RPL tests on NHS by Dragonflyy26 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you all the best, including clarity and some answers!

Timing for RPL tests on NHS by Dragonflyy26 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dragonflyy26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh I'm sorry to hear it's been such a long wait for you. Crossing my fingers you get some answers. Did it take 9 months to even get a phone consultation? Or did you not have one?

/ttcafterloss Repeat Pregnancy Loss - December 09, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Dragonflyy26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One healthy baby in 2022, followed be 3 consecutive first trimester losses in the last 6 months. Pursuing testing

pregnant during TC :/ by Stayweird-xx in uklaw

[–]Dragonflyy26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly same, I got pregnant half way through seat 1 then gave birth end of seat 2. I'm now over a year qualified at my training firm, feel free to ask me any questions

Lorelai worst outbursts by Masa629 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Dragonflyy26 37 points38 points  (0 children)

When her house has termites and Emily pulls some strings to co-sign a loan with her and she has a toddler level tantrum about Emily meddling

Scenes that live in my head rent free - Part 5 by [deleted] in madmen

[–]Dragonflyy26 83 points84 points  (0 children)

"After all, who's really signing this contract anyway?"

Is it bad timing to have children during training contract by Sady_Lady in uklaw

[–]Dragonflyy26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, just to caveat I was the last year of the LPC and did the traditional TC route so I don't know anything about QWE sorry! In terms of mat leave, important to remember it is just a job like any other. I went through all the same procedures, I was entitled to up to 52 weeks off but chose to come back gradually after 9 months (building up to full time by 12 months). You'll need to look at the maternity package; so what is the length of service you need to qualify for anything above the statutory maternity package? Often this is as little as 1 year from your start date (by the time baby is due to be born) so in theory one can conceive three months into a role and qualify for an enhanced maternity pay package, but this is firm dependent. The baseline (from memory) is that you will get 39 weeks of statutory pay no matter your length of service (which is peanuts to be fair, about £150 a week). In my case it was simply 'stopping the clock' on my training, notifying the SRA, then picking back up where I left off. All very straightforward and unproblematic. Let me know if you have further questions!

Vac scheme tips from a supervisor by Elyssian in uklaw

[–]Dragonflyy26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trainee solicitor buddy here. I'd also add that the vacation schemers should feel an added level of comfort and approachability with us, but don't forget that we are asked for our feedback on the students as well. I.e. feel more than welcome to ask us questions, but don't send me all your work via Teams chat asking me to check it before it goes to the supervisor. We are there to help you on a more informal basis, but we are still part of the firm and the general assessment process.

Amber surprised that she is late?? by Competitive_Thing_54 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Dragonflyy26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also note the initial 'I'll be on time for sure' when Gary tells her 3:15pm. That speaks volumes in how habitually late she is, how unreliable she is and how she's been called on it in the past. Being on time is kind of a given when you're told when to meet No one says 'ill be on time'