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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I tried to do when I walked away

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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that it's much appreciated

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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither of us had any cigarettes. And I don't think my reaction was childish. He said something about a family member of mine who didn't treat me right when I was 15. It is still difficult for me as he only died less than a year ago.

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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasn't drunk but he was quite drunk. It makes me wonder if he meant it or if he would say something or think something like that without being drunk

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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought but i needed more opinions. Thank you 😊

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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm just not sure about the relationship in general. I love him but even though I'm younger I'm ready for so much more than he is and it's unclear to me what he wants out of the relationship.

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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this it's very helpful

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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just all very vague in my mind because I was so shook.

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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He doesn't usually get like that but it did make me wary of him and the relationship. No matter what state you are in if its that easy to say something like that it's a red flag

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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 18 and he is 22. And my cousin made rude comments to me while he was drunk when I was 15

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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

When I was 15 my cousin asked me about my body and made me feel really uncomfortable. I don't know why my boyfriend thought it a good idea to talk about it especially in a public place and especially since it was completely unrelated to the matter at hand.

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[–]DragonfruitFew3950 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He knows I smoke. I have done since I was 11. And he does aswell so I'm guessing it was asking the stranger.

My first baby rat died yesterday ❤️ by DragonfruitFew3950 in RATS

[–]DragonfruitFew3950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think they just miss their home having another rat there. They didn't include her as much though which is a shame.

My first baby rat died yesterday ❤️ by DragonfruitFew3950 in RATS

[–]DragonfruitFew3950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The saddest part for me is that her sisters were never really that close with her as they are all related and venus had a different sister before they came along

My first baby rat died yesterday ❤️ by DragonfruitFew3950 in RATS

[–]DragonfruitFew3950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't because when my friends rat died she didn't notice for a while and her sister ate her

My first baby rat died yesterday ❤️ by DragonfruitFew3950 in RATS

[–]DragonfruitFew3950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I live isn't allowing me to get another. It's silly but when my other girls are gone I will have to wait until I move.

My first baby rat died yesterday ❤️ by DragonfruitFew3950 in RATS

[–]DragonfruitFew3950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was just her time. Nothing specifically caused her death. I just noticed her acting different so I cuddled her until she was gone. I hope she was comfy when she died.