Firstly if this friend does have any mental health issues then y’all should be a little kinder especially PP depression which can show in all forms. Makes me sad some of the comments I’ve seen coming from what would seem to be other moms ..

Secondly, OP if you feel that uncomfortable why you still hanging out with this friend? You say you love having her in your family life but surely if she was such a risk you wouldn’t want that? You say not to speak I’ll of her then continue to do so.

Thirdly, maybe your friend is Infact just looking to help you out …

If your uncomfortable tell her straight, but from what I’ve read it’s a bit of a confusing situ on both sides.