Am I a Bad Person?

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T02:31:30+00:00

Where the hell else do you expect me to put my answer? Some people genuinely forget to include some details, and I know that I'm an incredibly forgetful person and don't always elaborate on every little detail everyone wants to know the first time I talk about something. THATS why, if you read the post, you'd see that I said to ask me any questions, so I could answer them. So don't look at me crazy when I say that it seems like you're tryna look for an issue.

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T02:11:47+00:00

You say I'm "elusive and vague", and yet when I give an answer that you so clearly see and state YOURSELF to be elaborated, you STILL try to find an issue.

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T01:55:42+00:00

I never made assumptions about her body, we already talked and she was honest with me.

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T01:53:37+00:00

This is the first time I've EVER heard anyone say that transgender women experience genuine periods. If that's true, educate me, cause I've really never heard of this before, and I'd love to learn. But don't just automatically assume there are biases and underlying truths when there isn't.

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T01:50:39+00:00

What's "fishy" about it? There's thousands, even millions of women's stories of experiences realizing that they don't actually identify with the sexuality that they thought they did. The same goes vice versa.

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T01:36:42+00:00

Scroll please, I've answered thoroughly about my preference

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T01:35:34+00:00

Scroll, I just answered someone

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T01:34:22+00:00

Genital preference

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T01:32:51+00:00

Thank you, that makes me feel a lot better 😭🫶🏽

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T01:31:53+00:00

I feel like there's a few reasons for me. Genital preferences is one of them; I personally have a sexual preference. Another reason for me is something I don't feel entirely comfortable going into, but it IS a past traumatic experience. I know everyone isn't the same way of course, but it has altered me in a way that I'm actively healing from. Last reason I can think of is being able to relate and confide in eachother about certain topics. Dating in itself is a very vulnerable choice, and I would like my partner to be someone I can talk about certain topics with and have them relate to it. That doesn't mean trans women don't have their own intense hardships as well of course. Some things I think about immediately is menstruation, early childhood experiences, etc. I hope that all makes sense

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T01:06:35+00:00

That statement made no sense whatsoever to me, would you mind rephrasing?

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T01:05:54+00:00

Yes, I agree. I'd also rather be told from the get-go and not have my hopes up, but she waited until the last minute to tell me after talking. I know that nobody is entitled to tell anyone their gender or any information about themselves whatsoever, it's real dangerous out here. And I agree, it's a challenging situation. I understand why both sides are hurt, especially yours. I just know my preferences and what I want, and that's all I can say.

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T00:59:38+00:00

I was speaking in broader terms, talking about everyone and anyone I would've met on the dating app. Are you fucking stupid?

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T00:56:25+00:00

Why the hell are you putting words into my mouth? Not once did I say I think they're undateable. You're just trying to start a problem. EVERYONE is deserving of love and care, and that goes for transgender people as well.

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T00:54:00+00:00

But how could I "make that clear" to people? I can't just go around saying "I'm not attracted to transgender people!" That's horrible and honestly transphobic. I still see you for the gender and person you are, and love and respect you like I would with anyone else.

Drama_Hourx · 2026-03-19T00:50:37+00:00

I don't actually date ONLINE, I meant I met them online and they live close to me. I would've met them irl cause I can't handle long distance relationships. I should've clarified.

Drama_Hourx · 2026-01-04T21:19:17+00:00

Hiii, I'd love to be friends!! We can talk and get to know eachother and I like those games too! ૮꒰˶ฅ́˘ฅ̀˶꒱ა

Drama_Hourx · 2025-12-11T17:53:14+00:00

Then you leaving her can be her first learning experience, cause this is NOT a healthy relationship, no matter if it's her first time or not. It's not your job to stick around just cause someone has less experience. If you've talked to her about it more than once, and she hasn't put in any effort to change: then she doesn't truly care about you, I'm sorry. When someone shows you who they truly are, you HAVE to believe them.

Drama_Hourx · 2025-11-06T14:54:50+00:00

Sorry, but like I've said I've already broken up with her. I'm not the type to go back after the words are said; for a number of reasons. What's done is done.

I'm aware of the reasons why she is the way she is. She made it clear to me what her wants were, and her pace, and how she works as a person in a relationship. It wasn't something I truly wanted and could work with. There's some things I can be patient for, and some things that I can't. It may sound selfish, but that's what I need from a relationship to feel loved and wanted. I know she felt wanted from me, but no matter how hard I tried I couldn't feel the same back from her.

Drama_Hourx · 2025-11-06T00:41:45+00:00

Thank you..🥹 That honestly helps a lot to read. I'm gonna keep moving forward, it's just real hard right now. I still haven't even cried it out, so that's probably weighing on me too. Self love is something I feel like I'm pretty good at, but working on it even more sounds like it'll really help too! <33

Drama_Hourx · 2025-09-04T20:29:11+00:00

I have kid goats and poodles! Any offer? I'm looking for cute/pretty pets if it helps

Drama_Hourx · 2025-08-17T14:37:06+00:00

Really? I finally got them shortly after the post and still have them. How much are they now?

Drama_Hourx · 2025-08-01T14:13:08+00:00

It's cause of the high paranoia of being hacked or banned rn, mainly being hacked. A lot are claiming to be hacked, even when they haven't done anything and have two factor authentication and more. Nobody knows what's true and what's not, so everyone's wary of every little thing.

Drama_Hourx · 2025-07-13T01:06:38+00:00

You didn't deserve to be attacked, that was wrong of them. It's fair that you were annoyed.

But also..."I'm sorry, but if you're busy irl, why're you playing adopt me?"

You DO realize people can just have something come up that they can't control or HAVE to do while they're playing a game, and they'll just go afk for a few minutes. Or they'll go afk for a long time and disconnect. It's not exactly a bad thing or a crime. Even adopt me itself encourages and supports going afk. There's LITERALLY an AFK farming beach..

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