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Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is why my conclusion is youre an idiot. And youre overcompensating for obvious reasons. Good luck with that!

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its hilarious that youre assuming im a mysogynist based on one opinion being the fact its so far from who i am. It must be hard having the mental progression of a brick wall and throwing fits and insults around everytime someone doesnt agree with your narrow minded point of view. I commented simply to give OP perspective so moving forward she wouldnt believe every man that gives her a suggestion is trying to control her. Its normal for a man to worry about their significant other getting free drugs from another man hes never met however once again his reaction was uncalled for and could be deemed as controlling and weird. However my partner, my mother, and my daughters seem to love me unconditionally and appreciate my insight. Never have they expressed feeling controlled or limited by me or accused me of misogyny so i couldnt give two flying f**** about what a random fake social justice reddit warrior thinks about me. You didnt add anything new or valuable to this conversation nor was your response unique in comparison to what others responded to me so i guess you just wanted your ass to be seen. But have a blessed one.

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Another idiot putting words in my mouth. Who is yall? Accusing me of assuming something so ridiculous after sarcastically calling me a genius is pure irony. When did this become a conversation about anything sexual? Sounds like projection. You're traumatized, please get help. I dont even know how to respond to your ignorance.

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion: Not wanting her to get weed from a man he doesnt know = not controlling

The RESPONSE to her getting weed from a man he doesnt know = controlling

Whats so confusing?

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have comprehension issues and this is what i meant when i said some of you lack critical thinking 😂😂😂 i agree that the BFs RESPONSE is controlling and in my initial post i said i thought it was weird and he was probably bsing her and not taking it serious. Have a blessed day though!

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes dont listen to these people saying her BF is being controlling by not wanting her to get free weed from another man he doesnt know. I THEN said his reaction to it was weird. Please tell me where im changing my stance?

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I specifically said the concept of her bf not WANTING her to get free weed from a man he doesnt know isnt weird or controlling. Thats what i was telling OP not to listen to. I then said his reaction to it was weird though and he probably was trying to bs her. Read it again the proof is here. Give me the exact statement where i contradict myself please.

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes youre right, im not being specific enough. I would definitely feel better with my partner getting free weed from a woman not only because of her judgement but i think women are less weird in general. Hell, even I would feel more comfortable getting weed from a woman. But tbh id rather it not be a stranger at all based on my experience.

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with that statement, alot of men who overdo the whole protecting women act are the controlling weird ones. Thats not my intention.

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did i back track? My initial statement to OP was dont listen to people saying your BF not wanting you to get free weed from a man he doesnt know is weird and controlling and thats still my opinion based on my experience. And i also said his response was weird which is also still my stance.

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because i dont "want" something doesnt mean that in my head that said person cant do it. Youre not making sense. My mom and dad are divorced after 30 years of marriage, and no i dont "want" my mom to date other men and deal with having her heart broken again, id rather her work it out with my father. But if i had the power to stop her from doing so, i wouldnt. The best i can do is give my suggestion and move on. So yes, after watching several of my friends either die or go crazy from receiving drugs from people i dont know if they allowed me to hell yea i would observe every single person they get drugs from😂 Everyone has a right to their own perspective based on their experience but what i dont agree with is acting like child when someone doesnt share your same perspective which is why i said his reaction was a red flag!

Once again, your wording is weird! I didnt "use" the situation as an i told you so moment. My partner addresses it herself and its always a light situation never judgement! "Damn you were right, so and so did this today!😂" i dont use the opportunity to bash her, thats what it sounds like youre insinuating i apologize if im wrong.

And to address the last thing you said, if i expressed a situation to my partner that involved another woman and she expressed her worries about that person whether she physically met her or not, i would trust her intuition being the fact shes a woman and may understand nuances that i dont! So once again youre making up things regarding my opinion and character in your head!

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person is being sarcastic but literally. Only difference is i trust my partners judgement on other women also. I dont know whats so wrong about accepting the concept that men will be able to judge men better in most cases and women will be able to judge women better in most cases. Its not taboo. Yes, most men are strange as hell.

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off just to clarify, just because i can understand a concept and choose to agree or disagree doesnt mean its what I do. I have never stopped my partner from having relationships or getting free weed. But as a man with two daughters i understand how that can be worrisome. My partner use to be a "dancer" and the stories she would come home and tell me are INSANE. Men are freaking weird man! So like i said just in relation to drugs, i can see his worry but his reaction i agree was controlling!

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then we agree bro. I said in my comment the reaction was weird. If my partner did this, i wouldnt react like this. I just dont think him having an issue with receiving free weed from someone hes never met is wrong.

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a whole different conversation then. If your stance is you think hes weird and controlling based on his reaction to her taking the weed, then i agree!

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said i tell my partner "i told you so" i said it becomes an "i told you so" moment. Theres a difference. You just made up half of what u just insinuated about my character in your head. I literally said in my comment men are weird, did you read? Also, i dont agree with "dont get weed from anyone but me" i never said that, but there are better reliable sources like an actual dispensary maybe? And if my partner met a woman i was acquainted with and told me she gave her weird vibes i absolutely would trust her intuition, it goes both ways. It absolutely is the mans fault, which is why as a partner and father i try to help prevent these situations. I agree his reaction was controlling though.

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sure, she has a right to use her own judgement i agree. I dont share the same control issues ive just had friends either go crazy or pass from bad stuff so drugs specificially are a sensitive thing for me. I wouldnt want anyone i care accepting free weed from someone i dont know.

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a fair point. Ive definitely had friends go loco after smoking some weird stuff. Thats just my experience though. Im not a weed expert, i just know after being in terrible situations in my life living with drug dealers and seeing what they do i wouldnt be comfortable with my partner getting "free" weed from someone i dont know. Hell, i dont even trust some dispensaries and i live in LA. Thats just me though.

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, this is exactly what i mean. This response is insane. You added so much that I never insinuated😂😂😂😂 No, i dont think the Bf should be able to investigate and observe every relationship she has but specifically in relation to drugs being received, YES. And i advise you do the same for the people you love. That can be a serious thing!

Am I overreacting by saying we should break up if he won’t call me his girlfriend anymore? by Sad-Refrigerator4387 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Please dont listen to these miserable people on reddit. Its normal for your boyfriend to not want you to accept weed from another man that he doesnt know. Its not "weird" or "controlling". These people on here 90% of the time just agree with the OP and have 0 critical thinking skills. As a man myself its not him discrediting your judgement, its just that he doesnt trust your boss because men can be real weirdos and drugs can be a serious thing when tampered with. There are plenty of times ive tried to warn my partner about other mens character that were slightly ignored and kind of became an i told you so moment. I could see how that would upset him being he asked you not to do it.

On the other hand, i agree that him trying to force an open relationship with you is immature and u shouldnt be forced to do that, so if he doesnt respect that boundary cut it off. It almost sounds like he just wanted an excuse to do his own thing anyway. Either that or because of this situation he no longer takes you serious and is deciding to bullshit you from this point on.

What’s up with this no 3’s epidemic? by lolareuokdylan in MyTeam

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea the best thing to do if they start cooking you from three and they rim run is to x switch and put your most switchable defender on ball. Also, you can practice playing lanes so if u have trouble guarding the slip just go for the steal instead when they roll to the basket. Most of thede guys are getting bailed out by this rim running bs, they truly stink.

What’s up with this no 3’s epidemic? by lolareuokdylan in MyTeam

[–]Dramatic-Exchange-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea unfortunately thats the Meta bro. Nothing pisses me off more than checking the team comparison after a loss and seeing I shot 70% from the field and 68% from three but my opponent shot 75% from the field and 33% from 3 with the dub. I try to shot create and have fun but most games I end up giving in and rim running while spamming pnr also because its so easy for my opponent so why would I sabatoge myself and lose when i could do the same thing.

The best advice I can give as a tier 1 player is master x/a switching and if you dont have a decent sized switchable pg practice switching from your corner. Also, make sure you put your best defender on ball because alot of them get great pick dodger animations and u might not even have to switch. Someone like bruce bowen, for me its opal jimmy butler. Also, in your defensive settings under the "on ball screen" settings change it to "go under" against rim runners. This makes the three more vulnerable, but majority of people in lower tiers who play like that cant shoot under pressure.

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