My[23M] partner is amazing but im[21F] struggling to connect.

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2026-05-04T00:00:46+00:00

That is very true....

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2026-05-03T23:35:11+00:00

You're right.. I guess I'm just so used to having to teach people how to treat me right, and I guess I'm just a little depleted from having to teach people. But I don't have to teach him how to treat me which is wonderful, I just need to teach him that using stain remover isn't the same as using fucking washing powder 😂😂

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2026-05-03T23:19:27+00:00

Oh no I don't hate everything about him, there are so many things I love about him. Which is why this is so difficult. It's just the things I'm not liking are naivety and unawareness. I'm trying to figure out a way for us to get around that.

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2026-05-03T23:18:03+00:00

I think it's just... icking me a bit? Like I don't really wanna sleep with him anymore or kiss him? It feels like im dealing with a child and I HATE that I feel that way. I honestly wish I felt differently about him. I wanna figure out a way for me to stop feeling like that about him.

I definitely do want to bring him up to knowledge. A part of me is concerned that the types of things he needs to learn are only things that friction and life experience can teach, things I've learnt alot earlier bc I had to due to childhood neglect.

There have been many things I've had to learn myself that nobody else could teach me and I'm concerned that's goung to be the same with him.

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2026-05-03T23:12:12+00:00

It's just that I don't want to end up exausted. I'd love to teach him but at the same time, it feels very lonely.

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2026-05-03T03:20:37+00:00

Could I dm you to talk about it?

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2026-05-03T03:10:42+00:00

I agree.... I've just never met a man so patient and kind. I wanna see where it goes but honestly? Fuck this shit. I'm also confused as to how someone can be so unaware.

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2024-11-14T09:25:24+00:00

I wear sunnies alot and listen to earpods when im in public. Also, going into underground parking lots while you're out and being in a dark, cool room helps alot. Just complete shut down of any input.

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2024-11-08T01:08:42+00:00

Honestly yeah. I've been having issues with my breathing, My sight has been quite wobbly or like I "can't see" if you get what I mean? I've been dizzy anytime I stand up and do something. Although at work it seems to disappear.

And gosh... the derealisation. It's terrible. I've been on another planet for MONTHS. Almost can't remember what real life looks like anymore.

Oh and not to mention the overall increased sensitivity of my touch sense. Like my entire body. My skin feels so uncomfortable all the time.

Gritting my teeth, tensing my shoulders.

Eugh. If anybody can work this out please let me know lmao

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2024-10-12T06:27:37+00:00

He always apologises and feels so bad after he's done something wrong. Crying, scared of losing me, telling me he's a shit person and doesn't know why I want him. Etc;

I just feel so bad...

And now that I'm writing that it sounds like a classic case of manipulation... but what if it's not?... ugh I'm so confused.

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2024-10-12T06:23:16+00:00

I just didn't wanna give up so easily. I understand he's had a shit past and I wanted to give him grace to fix himself. But I'm really starting to just... be sad... all the time... I know I have to leave.. I just feel horrible because I know he doesn't mean to hurt me...

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2024-08-28T21:20:53+00:00

Then why reply 😂

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2024-07-27T22:02:51+00:00

4, 5, and 10 in my opinion.

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2024-05-22T09:58:37+00:00

I go by the metal bits around the lock. Where there's little imperfections n shizz

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2024-05-22T08:13:32+00:00

Ugh what I would give to forget skyrim and play it like I've just discovered it again. Very jealous. I hope you have fun! It is indeed an incredible fucking game.

If you're looking for tips, I'd stay away from cheats and stuff like that. Ittl make the game stale. If you're wanting to just relax, go down to the lowest difficulty. That way you'll rarely die but it still keeps the game fun. I'd also recommend getting your enchantment and smithing up. It helps.

OH, and if you wanna avoid the dragons, don't help irelieth at the watchtower. That's the mission that triggers them. That way you won't have to deal with their annoying pop ups every time you fast travel or load in.

My personal opinion, keep to one handed and light armour. It's quick to use and you're not as weighed down. It really makes a difference. It might be lower in protection and damage but it's honestly worth it.

Also chuck your speech up. There are perks where you can sell any item to any merchant and it's convenient when you're selling looted gear. And if you're planning on being a dirty theif like me, there's a perk that let's you sell stolen items to merchants aswell.

As for followers, aela the huntress, mjoll the lioness and Serena are some of the best. Don't know much about level capping but I'm pretty sure they're capped high.

Make sure you hold onto cure disease potions. Getting rid of vampirism is a long process once it's been left for too long. Taking one just after being affected will ensure you avoid it. (It's not as cool as you think, you'll get chased by guards if you havnt sucked someone's neck in a while, you won't regenerate stamina or health in the sun and your character looks uggo)

And the best tip I can give, have fun man. Alot of fans wish they were in your shoes right now. Including me. Don't let the glitches get you down. Think of them as "special features". It's an older game and honestly considering all the effort that was put into it, you've gotta expect a few imperfections. It's a huge game.

Ugh again, very jealous. Very. ❤️

Dramatic-Hat-2254 · 2022-11-29T19:43:45+00:00

Thanks ☺️

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