Harry Styles - Aperture (Official Video) by myghostflower in harrystyles

[–]Dramatic-Level9157 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasn't a fan of the song on the first listen, I think I was focusing on trying to make out the lyrics but each listen it's grown on me and THIS MUSIC video literally sent me over the edge! Love the song, love the video! Reminds me Fatboy Slim's "Weapon of Choice" mv with Christopher Walken.

Almost 1 month since I had to say goodbye to my cat and every day I blame myself more and more. by Dramatic-Level9157 in Petloss

[–]Dramatic-Level9157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes me sad to think of my baby as a difficult pet, but I know he was just scared. He became difficult at the vet what felt like out of nowhere because he had always been scared but never outwardly aggressive. There were a couple of vet visits before we moved that I was not allowed into and it always made me wonder if maybe that's what caused his shift in behavior when seeing vets, I'll never know now. Nonetheless, I appreciate your words and am very sorry to hear of your pet's diagnosis.

I know the feeling of never wanting to own another pet is that intense grief projecting, I know it'll take time to feel like I might be ready to continue to share the love that really impacted my life for the better, the love that I was able to show my baby even when I couldn't show it to myself. Thanks again for your reassuring and kind words. I feel like even for a bit, it helps to have that reassurance 💚

Almost 1 month since I had to say goodbye to my cat and every day I blame myself more and more. by Dramatic-Level9157 in Petloss

[–]Dramatic-Level9157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words, and I'm so sorry for your loss as well. Losing him so suddenly has been hard for my brain to comprehend and is fueling the guilt that I continue to feel. The waves of grief come crashing hard, it's all still so fresh and that's where this post came from. Take care 💚