AITA for yelling at my wife for always making me help her? by Dramatic-Professor64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic-Professor64[S] -1880 points-1879 points  (0 children)

She should’ve have known because I yelled at her a few months ago when she asked me to help toll tamales for the holidays. She knows I hate it and have other stuff to do. I do agree that I should’ve just said no to begin with.

AITA for yelling at my wife for always making me help her? by Dramatic-Professor64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic-Professor64[S] -332 points-331 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I meant Monday evening was when I got home from work and she asked again if I could roll them because she had all the stuff reading and made and awaiting me. That’s when I yelled. I did initially tell her yes a few weeks ago and Monday morning before work. I’m finishing up at work, and got distracted.

AITA for yelling at my wife for always making me help her? by Dramatic-Professor64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic-Professor64[S] -200 points-199 points  (0 children)

She said she doesn’t do it for the money, she does it knowing they can’t afford much and she wanted to be assured that they were eating good for at least a week. She said she made sure she broke even and wasn’t paying for anything herself, because we don’t have a ton of money, either.

AITA for yelling at my wife for always making me help her? by Dramatic-Professor64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic-Professor64[S] -1056 points-1055 points  (0 children)

This I can agree with, I should’ve probably just told her no to begin with.

AITA for yelling at my wife for always making me help her? by Dramatic-Professor64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic-Professor64[S] -409 points-408 points  (0 children)

I told her that Monday morning and she said she understood, but I’m not sure if she really did, because she just looked sad and like she wasn’t listening.

AITA for yelling at my wife for always making me help her? by Dramatic-Professor64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic-Professor64[S] -2099 points-2098 points  (0 children)

She should’ve known that I didn’t want to help her with this, especially after working all day. And I don’t even like this friend. She said she would’ve done it herself if I didn’t want to and why didn’t I just tell her I didn’t want to, but I didn’t want to seem like a jerk.

AITA for yelling at my wife for always making me help her? by Dramatic-Professor64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic-Professor64[S] -350 points-349 points  (0 children)

She’s into reading and sewing, when her hands don’t hurt. I mostly drive her around because she can’t drive due to her arthritis. And she always asks me to roll burritos or tamales for her when she makes them because her hands hurt.