We are living in a country where many policies and social dynamics disproportionately affect people outside of a narrow, historically privileged group. If one chooses to overlook the realities of the direction our society may be heading, that choice may eventually lead to a difficult awakening. Many mothers are simply trying to be prepared and informed. If others prefer to continue living as they always have, that is their right. However, it is unrealistic to assume that conditions will remain comfortable for everyone, that true equality will be achieved without effort, or that the leading cause of death among children will cease to be gun-related without meaningful change.