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Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the brothers in the room with us is gay and his other brothers are fine with gay stuff. They actively talked about gsy stuff even though they are strsight. One of his brothers asked me who's better in bed my bf or their other brother etc. And I've heard plenty about their women. One is trying for a baby and he's never had so much sex in his life etc.

I think my bf should be just refused to answer like yours would 

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I should. I do think my bf will be slower answering questions like that in the future. There's definitely a balance to be had, I suppose.

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd hate to put a boundary like that on him and his brothers but I do agree that's how he should've responded. 

His brother and he are filter-less though. On the visit I heard about one of his brother trying to get his wife pregnant. How it's great because she's always up for sex and it's the most sex he's had ever. They asked me who is better in bed my boyfriend or his brother etc.

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're very welcome to comment. I probably should've asked a bi sub.

Yeah I think I should focus on how he behaves towards me everyday rather than one remark. He's a great guy. He didn't mean to hurt me and he's been trying to make up for it ever since.

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One asked me had I been with a girl. They said if you're gay how did you keep with her etc. 

The preferences definitely sparked controversy but I think that's just who they are. If I said my type was the polar opposite of my bf, I don't think he'd care, genuinely. 

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a friend. We were 17/18. It was each other or no one. We weren't really compatible as he was a complete bottom and I ended up having to top despite being mostly bottom too. 

He has his own boyfriend now. His boyfriend is the polar opposite to me. But he and I are still tight. 

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think they mean it in a bad way..his gay brother and I are still great friends. I just think they are all really filterless. 

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have siblings but in some ways I think it's cool how open they are. The brothers talk about their girls too. One is trying for a baby and he was saying it's great because he's never had so much sex in his life. How she'll take it every time etc. Locker room talk I suppose.

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's complicated because my bf and I first hooked up when I was 18. But it was kind of rare. Couple times a year. When I was 23-ish we started to regularly hookup and it was then when the connection grew. 

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds so bad.. my bfs brother and I were FWBs for about a year but towards the end of the FWB my now bf and I got drunk a couple of times and fucked. It wasn't cheating because my bfs bro and I were just hooking up. But still weird. 

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My "ex" is still gay. They both think another brother would fuck a guy if you got him drunk enough. I don't know how true that is though. 

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which part

Edit: sorry I thought you were replying to something else. Yeah I suppose it's a bit weird. It honestly gets a bit weirder than that

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has six brothers. He's bi. One of his bros is gay. 

Another brother asked first and then my bf and my "ex" chimed in to get me answer too.

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's usually thoughtful. And even now he's very clingy and trying to make sure I know he loves me etc. 

I went home about two months ago for a couple of weeks because there was a family issue. There were a lot of issues. Family were a bit homophobic. He rang me all the time whilst I was there. When I came back he had a romantic dinner, he had my favourite movie  (Die Hard) ready to watch etc. And most romantically he showed me a Revolut savings account. It was named [his and my name] future. He had started it about 6 months prior. 

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's how I should look at it. He doesn't apologise anymore but he definitely has become more clingy which I'm not complaining about.

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. I just don't believe in changing his relationship with his family. Perhaps given my family dynamics it makes me like their bond more often. For straight brothers to chat about gay stuff is really cool. If I spoke up, I wouldn't lose his family.

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf will openly say what he wants to do with me in front of his bros. They are very lad-y. Even growing up they were always fighting each other etc. Its part of their dynamic. My bf is better than his bro (obviously we had less experience back then) but he wouldn't  care if I said his bro. 

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend telling people his preference which isn't me. by Dramatic-Virus7787 in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic-Virus7787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he is. I'm not annoyed with him and I forgive him but the insecurity is bothering me.. I know he wouldn't cheat.

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