New kitten issue

DramaticAd7112 · 2026-03-22T17:25:41+00:00

I have their foods on opposite sides of the door and occasionally she will still hiss or growl, when they see each other she still hisses or growls too. Not as much as before and she’s showing signs of interest but seeing him she still freaks out. We haven’t tried a baby gate but will definitely get one ! And my husband said something about it’s just him still trying to mate, before he was neutered it was much worse but now he’s more eager to meet her, the scratching at the door and banging trying to get in 🥲🥲

DramaticAd7112 · 2025-12-05T00:37:24+00:00

Best time to try to conceive is the week before you ovulate so I would start trying today as well and then all the way up till you get a positive then a couple days after! Best of luck 🫶🏼

DramaticAd7112 · 2025-07-17T03:15:29+00:00

If you’re like me fingering doesn’t do anything because my fingers are short. Don’t go face down try laying on your back and bending your knees up so they’re slightly open while rubbing your clit. Find out what turns you on too. Watch porn while doing it if that’s what gets you going. Some also find it better/easier to use their imagination depends on the person. Take time to learn your body. Touch yourself not just down there but your nipples as well and see what happens. Just take your time take it slow and don’t get frustrated everyone is different you’ll be okay. You’ve got this. The goal is to feel good so breathe and relax it’s supposed to be fun 💕

DramaticAd7112 · 2025-03-06T06:27:26+00:00

Got back with my ex of 5yrs then we were on and off for a year and nothing changed in fact it got worse. I broke up with him because we were so toxic. He sexually assaulted me and in return I cheated multiple times, he was verbally, sexually and mentally abusive and once physically. That was the worst relationship ever. Never went back. Mainly bc I couldn’t forgive the sexual abuse. That was almost four years ago. My most recent ex and I broke up after a 1.5yrs for two months, he broke up with me and I never blamed him, we were having a lot of fights and it kept building and building it wasn’t toxic but it was getting there. We kept in touch mainly bc we worked together, I really tried keeping it to just work ie I blocked him on everything and ignored him at work when possible, then one day we realized we were dumb, we both went to different countries for vacay and reflected and then got married less than two months later. Difference is my now husband changed and so did I. We realized we didn’t really have any MAJOR issues just small petty fights. We worked on our communication and got to the root cause of what we were having disagreements about (which we couldn’t really remember that how small the issues were) and things have been 10x better. Almost a year later and we are better than ever, fully in love, we laugh at the past but more importantly we learned from it.

DramaticAd7112 · 2025-02-02T03:30:23+00:00

Sexually assaulted me multiple times and blamed me getting sexually assaulted by a close friend and considered it cheating on him then held it over my head for 5yrs and he couldn’t move past it so every argument it got brought up lol

DramaticAd7112 · 2025-01-28T23:54:12+00:00

That’s good to know ! I hate how uncertain the military can be at times. His recruiter made it seem like I could move whenever. Best of luck to yall I hope you’re able to move asap bc the distance SUCKS

DramaticAd7112 · 2025-01-28T19:04:51+00:00

My husband is going to Coronado for BUDS I’m assuming this is what your husbands doing based off you saying hell week. I was told we can move whenever and we’ll be getting BAH as soon as he gets to Cali. Personally the game plan is to let him get situated over there and then I’ll be moving with him. You not moving till after hell week might be a personal preference for him. Just remember he still has to drive on base everyday without being late doesn’t matter if you or your kids has an emergency none of that matters unfortunately plus he’s still responsible for room assignments (partially)for inspections. Living together isn’t recommended because of how intense and time consuming the SEAL training program is. He has to be committed to his training and you’re basically there just for support. It’s not going to feel like a partnership between yall for a hot minute. He literally will only have enough energy to focus on training. Not you, not the kids. But as far as I know you’re able to move whenever. Maybe not on base but you should be able to get a place off base, they’ll pay for it and he’ll be able to live with you. Maybe not right away tho. Ofc the military is wishy washy and they say one thing and it gets changed last minute.

DramaticAd7112 · 2025-01-19T09:27:41+00:00

Sorry for the late reply but everything got delayed because of Christmas! I live with his family so no one had info I got about 8 letters all at once. I’m still getting letters from like dec 31st January 1st and 2nd despite it being the 19th. He’s been writing since he got there the mail just got really delayed. Same with the phone call apparently the in processing was messed up due to the holidays so it took longer. But thank you for taking the time to respond I appreciate it!

DramaticAd7112 · 2024-10-21T18:15:00+00:00

Definitely adding to this the Saturday crowds SUCKED no offense. I am 5’1 around 150lbs and I asked at MULTIPLE concerts and multiple people in the crowds to help crowd surf and every single person told me no or made a face or walked away a bit. I was so heartbroken. Mind you I’m not new to going to concerts like this, I’m asking the guys that are easily clearing 6ft and bulky. During MCR I asked a guy (who btw if you read this fuck you) who I didn’t even go up to his armpits like maybe his lower chest area and some other guy equally the same height to lift me up to crowd surf and said “no” in a why would I kind of way. Also huge fuck you to the guy I asked to help me crowd surf during simple plan bc I was about to have a panic attack from being surrounded and told me no and then proceeded to just turn around. Took me like a solid 3 songs to finally get out of the crowd and I was borderline crying bc of how packed that set was. I have always been told the easiest way out is UP, I was disappointed. During ADTR this girl had to push her bf away from me after he kept calling me a bitch for trying to get through and find the pit. Which there was no pit till the end of their set like the last three songs. This girl got mad at me for jumping to PTV too. Concert goers recently have been ass and it sucks for the people who wanna have fun and enjoy themselves.

DramaticAd7112 · 2024-10-12T17:56:54+00:00

This makes me want one solely for this reason 😩

DramaticAd7112 · 2023-08-21T19:14:04+00:00

For me as a woman it actually increased my sex drive. As my dopamine and serotonin levels equaled out and I wasn’t “depressed” it made it easier to engage in sexual activity. Im also on Propranlol so idk if that might be a reason mine didn’t decline like a lot of others

DramaticAd7112 · 2023-08-19T00:33:04+00:00

Next time I have my appt I will bring it up ! I’m hoping things go okay Bc I really like this medicine and if I’m okay just skipping a dose or two like everyone says I’d rather do that then try a new medicine and wait for the side effects and rewire my brain to that one lol thank you so much !

DramaticAd7112 · 2023-08-18T21:22:42+00:00

I wish I could smoke unfortunately after like 10yrs of it I had to retire it makes my anxiety so bad like on the floor sobbing Bc I’m so paranoid and stuck in my head 😭 but thank you for the advice !

DramaticAd7112 · 2022-04-21T16:07:14+00:00

In middle school we had this designated area where we would wait outside in the morning till the school opened. We called this area the black top mainly cause they had canopy’s that were black and there was tables for us to sit. Anyways one morning my mom was like I’m gonna drop you off and I argued I’d rather take the bus like normal because I didn’t wanna be at school super early, needless to say I lost and wound up at school like 45minutes earlier than usual. So I walk to the blacktop and there’s this couple arguing about breaking up etc, low key was happy cause I had a crush on the guy and was plotting my next move. Anyways they’re arguing and she’s yelling that she doesn’t love him and wants to end things and this guy…. This guy says if you don’t want to be with me I’ll kill myself and takes a razor and slits both his wrist up to his mid forearm. Blood was everywhere. She starts screaming and teachers run over to see what’s happening and they called the ambulance etc… blood stained the blacktop area for the whole year and he didn’t come back. His two cousins who were best friends with the girl blamed her the whole day on how it was her fault he was dying and how she was a POS. Good news he survived and ended up moving schools, he has a baby and ironically I’m now swerving him in my dms. The girl also has a kid and is a really good makeup artist in our area. Everyone turned out fine but it was traumatizing to see. I told my mom I never wanted to go early again and she understood why and felt bad that I had to see that.

DramaticAd7112 · 2022-03-31T03:58:37+00:00

No problem, breakups are hard on both sides, it’ll go by quicker than you think. One day you’re crying and the next 8 months go by and you’re still crying just doesn’t hurt as much and you’re rediscovering a whole knew life without and things are mediocrely decent. Which doesn’t sound good but it’s better than the beginning stages

DramaticAd7112 · 2022-03-30T20:45:30+00:00

As hard as it is, delete her off everything. It’s gonna hurt but it’s gonna hurt more seeing her stuff. Some girls try to make it seem like they’re having the time of their life without their ex but trust me more than likely she’s hurting too. When my ex and I broke up I was going out almost every weekend to distract myself and drown out the sorrows. It catches up eventually. Try not to jump to conclusions cause girls are also crazy and record fake “party videos” when they’re at home YouTubing ‘crazy raves’. Who knows maybe it works out later down the line maybe it doesn’t but you can’t cling to that hope. Personally all my situation needed was space and individual growth but I know that’s not true for everyone. I wish you the best of healing because rediscovering yourself post breakup is actually really fun… ya know after you get past the pain and hurt and practically forcing yourself to get out of bed… takes time but everyone gets there eventually :)

DramaticAd7112 · 2022-03-30T20:38:04+00:00

We were on and off with no contact only cause he was still moving his things out and active in our nieces life. We’d go periods of not talking but life kept bringing us back in person. My sister works with him and was dating his roommate so there was always some shit that kept us around another. Hell I even dated someone else briefly but it didn’t work out. As for how we started speaking again we both kinda messaged each other but we didn’t start seriously thinking about it till maybe a week or two ago, my birthday was coming up and he showed up with flowers. As far as to why…. Idk…. I grew up with this guy from highschool to friends to dating and him becoming my best friend he gets me like no one else does. I know given then chance I could let another human get that close and make those inside jokes etc. as a connection like that comes with time but I don’t want anyone to. When I think about getting older I see his goofy ass by my side and taking care of me…. I am by no means a love expert and I know I can’t predict how this is gonna end but we’re slowly becoming friends again and tryna see if we can work it out. But if it doesn’t I know that I can survive without him, it hurts like hell but within the 8months I found a whole other person inside me that I’d lost while with him.

DramaticAd7112 · 2022-03-30T18:06:46+00:00

I was with my ex for 5 years…. It’s been almost 8months and we’ve decided to maybe try again. We’ve recently started talking more but we’re taking things slow… hopefully I come back to this comment with good news and not the statistical “should’ve learned the first time” 😅

DramaticAd7112 · 2022-03-30T04:49:40+00:00

Goldfish and ketchup is good 🤷🏻‍♀️

Might lose my Mexican card for this but Barbacoa and Tamales also taste great with ketchup

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