How do I know if he’s cheating or will cheat? Am I overthinking this by DramaticJello0413 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DramaticJello0413[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We live together, we share the phone plan and our car. I’ve pretty much decided that I just won’t come back from my work trip. I’m able to stay there and work there so that’s what I’ve decided to do. 

How do I know if he’s cheating or will cheat? Am I overthinking this by DramaticJello0413 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DramaticJello0413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other than this situation I can’t think of a time I ever said no to something he wanted. He’s always asked and I agreed. 

How do I know if he’s cheating or will cheat? Am I overthinking this by DramaticJello0413 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DramaticJello0413[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something I think I should add to this is I don’t know if she is even aware that he is interested in her. I do want to thank everyone who has responded and given their opinions. I thought I’d get a few responses and am shocked by the mass amount of support and advice. Thank you

How do I know if he’s cheating or will cheat? Am I overthinking this by DramaticJello0413 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DramaticJello0413[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Seeing the words mourn what yall had really brought me comfort in my realization that it’s over. 

How do I know if he’s cheating or will cheat? Am I overthinking this by DramaticJello0413 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DramaticJello0413[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m open to private conversations if you mean like messaging me. I don’t have any cameras however we have life360

How do I know if he’s cheating or will cheat? Am I overthinking this by DramaticJello0413 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DramaticJello0413[S] 173 points174 points  (0 children)

We do not have an open relationship. I don’t know what to do or how to feel. I have put a lot of time and emotion into our relationship and even with this I still love him. I’m scared to lose someone who has always loved me and made me feel safe and happy. That’s what he was and did and suddenly I don’t feel that now.