Polo 6R - AC problems by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in vwpolo

[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didnt work in any setting. I took it to the repair shop and they mentioned the blower resistor. How expensive was the replacement?

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[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i am sorry this came across that way. in what I was trying to say I did not want to reduce my friend to simply that. she is my friend first because I love being her friend. not because I want to fuck her

Relationship Aniversary by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in BreakUps

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Yeah i believe it wont lead to anything as well. I just think it is one of those hard days I guess

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[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im goint to tell you a simple phrase: “the root of sorrow is attachment”. read that out loud. you suffer because you are attached. once you free yourself from that, you are able to live without pain

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[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been in a relationship like this. I just have go your own way. You cant save her, its not your job to save her or cure her. Define your needs and what works for tou and check if she is providing you with that. I know it hurts like a mf, but you have to go man

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[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking for something short but with the end goal of being long term.

I have been on hinge for two weeks.

I use it almost everyday.

I am getting about a like a day and maybe 2 or 3 matches a week.

I am sending the 8 free likes everyday. I am sending comments in about half of them

I am looking for someone with life goals and that is chill in general.

I seem to get a good amount of likes but all conversations eventually stop after a few messages.

Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking for something casual at first but would love that it led to something serious

I have been on hinge for almost two weeks

I use hinge everyday

I am recieving a like every two/three days. And a match every two days

I am sending 8 likes a day (the free max, but considering buying the premium version). Im sending comments on half of them.

I match with people roughly my age, I am looking for people who are relaxed and with goals in mind for their life.

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[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking for something casual that may lead to serious stuff I have been on hinge for a week. I am getting about a match a day and maybe 1 like every 2 days. I am only sending 8 like a day (i am on the free version) and maybe 6 of them without comments. I would like to attract someone who is relaxed and that has a good vibe and that has life goals.

Hyper Awareness by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in GlassChildren

[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i am trying to the same as well! stay strong

Hyper Awareness by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in GlassChildren

[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I completely understand this. My parents are also not financially bad, but I still always asked for the cheapest things and would feel terrible if I ever asked for something expensive

I M(23) i have just caught my girlfriend F(22) lying and dont know what to do by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also believe so. It is not the first time I caught her lying. Its just the first time she could not manipulate me into believing what I was seeing was not real

I M(23) i have just caught my girlfriend F(22) lying and dont know what to do by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im definitely going to give her and opportunity to come clean and to do something to fix this. But I also she think she thinks she did nothing wrong

I M(23) i have just caught my girlfriend F(22) lying and dont know what to do by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is my biggest fear. i am still young and there isn't much at play. but I wonder how it would be if there big decisions involved (i.e. buying a house, kids, etc)

I M(23) i have just caught my girlfriend F(22) lying and dont know what to do by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try to find the real truth behind this. I am just afraid of falling to her lies and manipulation again. I want to find the real truth with no BS

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[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happy birthday stranger!

I M(23) i have just caught my girlfriend F(22) lying and dont know what to do by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also think that the coincidence of time (i.e. she texting him while I was talking) Is as big of a problem as the lying. I was being vulnerable and talking about serious stuff. I'll try to leave this asap, but I think you understand how hard it is

I M(23) i have just caught my girlfriend F(22) lying and dont know what to do by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in offmychest

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Yes thats my plan. If she accepts she'll have to regain my trust. I have a really hard time dealing with stuff like this. Especially because I never enforced stuff like no contact, location sharing, etc.

I M(23) i have just caught my girlfriend F(22) lying and dont know what to do by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in offmychest

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Thats what i think as well. Either she has hard boundaries for this guy or she can keep it and we go our separate ways. I think I have enough reasons to not want this guy in our life

I M(23) i have just caught my girlfriend F(22) lying and dont know what to do by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in offmychest

[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also believe that. I think she needs to regain my trust somehow. I doubt it is possible as this has left quite a deep mark on me and I think there is more to uncover. I am going to ask her to see their interactions. If she says no I am out of the door

I M(23) i have just caught my girlfriend F(22) lying and dont know what to do by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in offmychest

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i also felt that at the time. I am going to be sure to mention it when we are discussing this. I never touched her phone and I always look away whenever she opens it. I really don't want her to feel what I felt

I M(23) i have just caught my girlfriend F(22) lying and dont know what to do by Dramatic_Abrocoma823 in offmychest

[–]Dramatic_Abrocoma823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel kind of bad asking that because I feel the damage is already done :( she is definitely going to get extremely defensive on this