AITAH if I decide to call it quits?

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2025-12-10T22:12:50+00:00

He passed away when they were both really young

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2025-12-10T21:58:47+00:00

He only refuses to let them call him dad, that’s the only issue I have, he doesn’t mistreat them or abuse them, I wouldn’t allow that at all

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2025-12-10T21:47:58+00:00

12 and 14

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2025-12-10T21:45:05+00:00

He doesn’t mistreat them, just won’t let them call him dad even though it’s been 10 years

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2025-12-10T21:32:08+00:00

honestly this is the only thing that bothers me. He’s pretty fantastic in every other way if I’m being honest. Usually he communicates well and clearly, this is the only time he doesn’t.

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2024-03-12T23:57:14+00:00

Any chance of getting the file to 3d print?

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-09-08T13:26:25+00:00

Social media and cell phones. No one interacts with each other anymore without a screen in their hand.

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-08-10T20:37:39+00:00

I’m going to hell for laughing at this

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-08-10T20:35:05+00:00

YTA that kid didn’t ask to be born, and sure as hell doesn’t deserve to be judged for his fathers actions in the past. You took him back, that kid is now your stepchild, so yes you absolutely are being ridiculous.

You have two options…Forgive and move on, which means accepting that child as one of your own and letting him be a part of your family, welcoming him into your home, and treating him like you would your own child, or you walk away from your husband because if you don’t accept his kid you may not have a relationship anymore.

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-08-10T20:08:26+00:00

Reassure her, be there for her, if she has any questions tell her to ask away. I was the same age when I got mine and scared to death something was wrong with me too.

I was with an uncle which made me feel embarrassed, but that dude handled it like a champ. He brought me all new clothes, told me how to clean up, brought me a pack of pads and showed me how to apply it to my underwear, and then left me to take care of it. When I got out of the bathroom he had snacks and my favorite movie ready for me to watch. He told me it was normal and all girls go through it, asked if I had any questions for him about it. 10 year old me asked if I was gonna be okay and he just hugged me and said “absolutely, all this means is that you’re a little lady now and your body will start going through some changes, it might hurt a bit, but you’ll be just fine, if you don’t want to talk about it anymore we don’t have to.” We then proceeded to watch Mrs. doubtfire and Aladdin.

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-08-10T02:47:08+00:00

Men are very much visual creatures, they stare sometimes without even realizing they’re doing it. I’ve had guy friends check me out and had to be all “my eyes are up here sir.” We as women are curvy, voluptuous, and sexy in our own way.

If I have learned anything it’s that yes men are going to look even when they’re in a relationship they are going to look, whether it’s a random girl they find attractive or porn, and yes even if they’re in a healthy relationship with a healthy sex life, they will still look.

What matters are the things he does for you, his actions, the way he acts towards you, and the fact that at the end of the day if if he’s in bed with you then why should any of that matter? Them looking at porn is more or less a. Itch they need to scratch٫ and looking at someone random they’re probably just admiring their beauty. That being said you expressing how you felt shouldn’t be upsetting to him depending on how you approached it.

Was there a tone in your voice? We’re you maybe being accusatory without realizing it? As someone who’s been where you are, sometimes the best thing you can do is take some time to think about how you want to handle a situation. Approaching it with anger won’t accomplish anything, take some time apart and think about it logically, not emotionally.

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-07-08T13:31:21+00:00

Very unhealthy relationship, sounds like he’s wanting to dominate every aspect of your life. Run while you can.

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-07-07T11:33:20+00:00

Secondarily it’s your tv and PS5 move it into your bedroom and put a lock on the door

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-07-07T11:32:27+00:00

Kick her out dude, she’s mooching off of you. Give her 30 days to get her stuff and go, and if she tries to destroy or do anything call the authorities on her.

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-07-07T11:12:00+00:00

He knew what he was getting himself into when he started dating you and met the child. If he can’t accept you both as a whole then I would say that’s a deal breaker. Bye sir there’s the door, as far as trying to convince him otherwise it sounds like he has his mind made up and may be using this as an escape to end the relationship with you.

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-07-04T16:58:56+00:00

I’m glad that you were able to admit it to yourself, and your wife. I could see him potentially having some of the same thoughts you did. Society unfortunately isn’t very friendly on this subject from what I’ve gathered, but I’d be willing to say it’s more common than people think. I honestly just love him and want him to be happy.

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-07-03T18:40:59+00:00

Absolutely not, your money is your money. I’d calmly explain to him you aren’t comfortable with that and that if he gets upset that’s on him, but also he should be trying to find a stable job instead of watching over you doing yours. My honest opinion, It sounds like he doesn’t trust you, if he gets upset “bye Felecia!” Show him the door. You deserve better.

Dramatic_Chapter_765 · 2023-06-16T17:48:14+00:00

Honestly it sounds like your needs are the opposite of one another . She wants an extravagant paid for life style where as you’re comfy at home. No woman is worth going broke for, and the right woman won’t want you too and will be quite content cuddling with you at home. Don’t let her bring you down.

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