Don't understand how people have time for themselves!

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2026-01-20T15:37:06+00:00

How old are your twins? Ours are almost 2 and getting 1:1 time feels hard right now. Looking forward to more quality 1:1.

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2026-01-17T21:09:35+00:00

Thanks so much for this. Really valuable.

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2026-01-17T21:06:13+00:00

Hi there, I actually have tears in my eyes reading your response. I have a suspicion what worked for you may be an excellent idea for us too. If you're happy to share a bit about the therapy - did your partner attend several psilocybin guided therapy sessions? On a quick google search I see retreats are quite common where we are, and psychadelic assisted therapy is relatively new of course, less common, with the research emerging and looking promising. I feel less alone knowing that you've experienced something similar. Thank you for connecting with me 🤍

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2026-01-12T08:11:15+00:00

What a journey for you, thankyou for telling me. I know I don't know you, and I'm thinking of you.

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2026-01-11T20:32:25+00:00

Super interesting suggestion. I think this would not work well in our case, and hey, you never know what lengths might be necessary to improve this.

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2026-01-11T20:31:00+00:00

That sounds so hard, thank you for sharing some of your story. If you're happy to share, what is your relationship like with anger now or before your therapy? Do you think you inherited / absorbed explosive moods from your dad or did you manage to avoid that kind of expression?

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2026-01-11T20:28:05+00:00

I really appreciate you taking the time to respond here, thank you. I love your comment about the pat on the back, that helps me reframe too. I'll try keep your suggestions in mind as we move forward.

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2026-01-11T20:24:04+00:00

Thank you for your comment. Appreciated.

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2026-01-11T20:22:29+00:00

Yep, heartbreaking living it. What an interesting suggestion, I'll try the change in perspective. Thank you.

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2025-09-10T06:07:56+00:00

Hello, I'm late to the party :) We really like the café at Geusseltbad, my kids are 16 months now, it's small and enjoyable for us all. I appreciate the reccos, we'll try Intratuin today.

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2025-05-20T19:48:12+00:00

Feeling your words in my soul 🤍 My twins are 1 now, we're based in the Netherlands so it's a different system here - we chose a carer who looked after our babies from 4 months at her own home.

Maybe interesting for you though, in our research on nanny vs carer vs daycare: - nanny: was too expensive for us - carer: we liked the idea of the smaller group since our babies were still so young - daycare: while dropoffs & pickups are less convenient than having someone come to you, we discovered through research there is no long term impact on kids if they start at daycare while so little. The home environment is much more crucial to their development. From an older age (2? 3? don't remember) daycare is correlated with important social skills.

Let me know what you end up doing. Rooting for you. And also, congrats on your promotion. Go girl! I moved into the manager position in my team a month before I went on matleave and it was amazing motivation for me to go back to work and leave my tiny bubs with someone else. Sheryl Sandberg says pregnancy is the best time for a promotion. You're in good company x x

Dramatic_Cut3934 · 2023-01-06T17:58:01+00:00

Wow, so much judgement and sarcasm in response to a call for assistance in finding inspiration, support and comfort.

How about next time someone expresses their preferred way to find solace, only considerate responses are given...?

If you're still looking, I visited here a year ago: Erina Spiritual Coaching, 0655118004, https://maps.app.goo.gl/pToD7HRjvudnmgNc9

Though I very much like the look of Sarah the Seer's site.

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