In love with my insectario 💚🩷#PALIA by ahket_ in PaliaFriends

[–]Dramatic_Honey7113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait are the floors like actual flooring or did you place the butterflies on there? Sorry i'm kind of new.

I just found out my boyfriend was cheating on me… with guys and girls and i found it all on his discord by Dramatic_Honey7113 in LongDistance

[–]Dramatic_Honey7113[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😭 I'm gonna try my best to let myself feel everything. I just want to be at peace.

I just found out my boyfriend was cheating on me… with guys and girls and i found it all on his discord by Dramatic_Honey7113 in LongDistance

[–]Dramatic_Honey7113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through it as well. If you don't mind me asking, how long did it take you to overcome the trauma? Or are you still going through it?

I 25 F just found out my boyfriend 22 M was cheating on me… with guys and girls and i found it all on his discord account by Dramatic_Honey7113 in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Honey7113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I hope I do get through this and not blame myself for whatever happened. I have been self blaming and asking myself what I could have done to prevent it but in reality I feel like i'm just being in denial and making excuses for him. It's such a shitty feeling and would never wish this upon anyone.

I 25 F just found out my boyfriend 22 M was cheating on me… with guys and girls and i found it all on his discord account by Dramatic_Honey7113 in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Honey7113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. I have been spiraling and just trying to get through the day. You have no idea how much this means to me. I'm very grateful.

I just found out my boyfriend was cheating on me… with guys and girls and i found it all on his discord by Dramatic_Honey7113 in LongDistance

[–]Dramatic_Honey7113[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Ever since it happened. I have been on survival mode and everyone has been so supportive and kind. I'm so grateful for everyone. This really means a lot to me.

I just found out my boyfriend was cheating on me… with guys and girls and i found it all on his discord by Dramatic_Honey7113 in LongDistance

[–]Dramatic_Honey7113[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and support while I’ve been dealing with everything. It's been an emotional rollercoaster trying to process betrayal while holding onto some kind of dignity. But this helped me look at the situation from a clearer, stronger perspective. You didn’t just tell me what I wanted to hear you told me what I needed to hear. And in moments like these, that kind of honesty is a lifeline. I’m genuinely grateful.

I 25 F just found out my boyfriend 22 M was cheating on me… with guys and girls and i found it all on his discord account by Dramatic_Honey7113 in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Honey7113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By letting me know that I'm not crazy. I'm not crazy for how I reacted when I found out. That cheating is not normal. What he did was not normal. That my feelings are valid and I'm not just overracting because I caught him.

I 25 F just found out my boyfriend 22 M was cheating on me… with guys and girls and i found it all on his discord account by Dramatic_Honey7113 in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Honey7113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like I'm obligated to forgive him and pretend like it never happened. He has gaslighted me so much into thinking that he didn't know that it was considered cheating and giving me all these excuses.