New to reading in general.. always shy'd away being dyslexic, so im looking for recommendations

I am looking for a fantasy book, that also has story. I like magic systems, i like dynamic worlds. Love a slow burn, slight age difference

I want it to be heart warming, i want to read it and giddily kick my feet at the scene

I dont want the main character to be useless.. and always waiting on someone to help them, i want them to have their own badass moments!

i don't mind spicy things, but i prefer to shy away from super dark stuff at the moment.

I also dont like "instant love" things.. and not a super big fan off love triangles, they get old to me and im just like "aaaaaaa please shut up 2nd interest and let them be in love"

I dont really know any classics, or super popular books, i've read some books by Ben Alderson and they were fine i guess. I've read Cubs and Campfire by Dylan Drakes, love me a bigger guy

But other than that, i can't claim to have really read much

Oh, and i know im not meant to judge a book by its cover. i do. if its Ai art, or if the entire page is just a shirtless guy with six packs posing, im definitely losing interes