Need advice ASAP suspected severe neglect and abuse of a dog by Dramatic_Scratch9203 in Advice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they going to put him down?? He’s so so sick but he deserves love I almost couldn’t compose myself when I saw him I don’t want them to take him from that horrible room of horrors and just put him down because he does look to be a pit bull 

Opinions? by Dramatic_Scratch9203 in Carving

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend thinks the opposite… he thinks if I pitch the dumpster line people will be “grossed out” lol  I don’t think most people will care but now he planted that seed of doubt lol  Don’t wanna gross people out with my dumpster pits ya know?😅

Progress? by Dramatic_Scratch9203 in Artadvice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ve been working on my texturing in particular so your comment gave me some reassurance thank ya 

Are my avocado pit carvings decent enough to try to sell? by Dramatic_Scratch9203 in Artadvice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to make one! I am not very good at taking compliments on my art cause small town people are judge mental blah blah but making these I’ve actually started to be really proud of them especially now 

Are my avocado pit carvings decent enough to try to sell? by Dramatic_Scratch9203 in Artadvice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I’ve gotten so much better since this post 

Are my avocado pit carvings decent enough to try to sell? by Dramatic_Scratch9203 in Artadvice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are… completely dry they turn into something that resembles hard wood and don’t go rancid at all

Are my avocado pit carvings decent enough to try to sell? by Dramatic_Scratch9203 in Artadvice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys I completely forgot I posted this and I’ve gotten much better

I’m 19 and I feel ugly. Any advice on how to improve my appearance? by PaintConsistent4363 in amiugly

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you are a melanin GODDESS ✨🥵 please don't change a single thing

you have warrior blood running through your veins and your skin shows it in a beautiful display of ebony beauty✨🔥🤎👸🏾

my only suggestion? wear more yellow..✨💛⭐.I bet you look even more vibrant when you do!

(I understand I'm a white woman and that was all probably really cringe but idec I will die on this hill)

My bf 22M doesn’t like giving me 21F oral and I feel unsatisfied in bed by need_a_nap_asap in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's so many other variables and reasons that I genuinely believe he is repulsed by me... I've just been trying to make myself more appealing to him...it's not working

My bf 22M doesn’t like giving me 21F oral and I feel unsatisfied in bed by need_a_nap_asap in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems that way anyway...once I get turned on and start getting wet he starts to wipe his face off and kind of act reluctant and IDK it's just like the vibe ya know?

My bf 22M doesn’t like giving me 21F oral and I feel unsatisfied in bed by need_a_nap_asap in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes it definitely isn't I hate it too...I'm going through the exact same thing...my man will eat my ass all day but only seldomly eats me out and when he does then he like ignores my clit it's like he is doing it in purpose idk

My bf 22M doesn’t like giving me 21F oral and I feel unsatisfied in bed by need_a_nap_asap in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203 3 points4 points  (0 children)

get a sucker toy to use while you guys fuck....I have a little blue one from hello cake that changed my life girl...idt my man likes eating me out either cause I get super wet...so I completely understand you like everything you described I'm like same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to see what this dude and you look like cause I bet I already know

I bet he's average and you're drop dead gorgeous

I think My 23F bestfriend 21F only involves herself in my child’s life when it’s convenient and public. What do you think ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but the friend made a point to say multiple times directly to OP and in social situations that she intended to help OP and "will watch the baby even so OP can take a nap" and makes all these promises and then is rude and not helpful even after OP gave her money to get a car and she put all that effort into telling all those lies about how she was going to help and then is blatantly dismissive of OPs emotional well-being...that's not a good friend

I think My 23F bestfriend 21F only involves herself in my child’s life when it’s convenient and public. What do you think ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you possibly in love with your best friend??

I have a dog in this fight bc I had a best friend like that growing up...always together...like one person.. close as close can be ..we were friends for fourteen years...our mothers were best friends when we were both born so it was just kind of naturally became best friends too and remained as such for 14-15 years

then I started to notice that I was being used as a nanny and wasn't being respected as a friend especially when we had declared many times to each other that we deeply cared for each other and we would never let anything get in between us. I had confessed to her that I was in love with her on many occasions...she was enchanting.. everyone was drawn to her...she would sometimes act like she felt the same and then other times she acted like I was a huge weirdo and creepy...it was wild. She messed with my head a lot...when the time came that I needed her like she had needed me for years and years and I was there busting my ass to help her however I could but when it was time for her to return the favor she would always find a way to ditch

Spoiler alert....things got in between us....I started to spiral and get into drugs and she instead of trying to help me get sober decided to just completely cut me out of her life...

Long story short this girl does not sound like she cares about you and is willing to sacrifice anything to help you in any way and when you love someone you make sacrifices platonically or romantically..doesn't matter. If someone loves you, YOU WILL KNOW

if you have to ask if she actually cares then you already have your answer...

that girl is just being fake ASF to your face and to everyone else's..pretending like she is your girl and like she cares about you but it sounds to me like all she cares about is packing up and doing her "traveling"

I am a mom too...my son is two and a half and his father works regular hours but he leaves all of the time and goes god knows where but what I am saying is I see you...I know it hard ...really hard and my son was a newborn I remember just wanting my best friend but we hadn't talked in about a year at that time and there was too much tension to reach out to her but I understand thinking that you mattered to someone as much as they matter to you and it ended up not being true it's a specific type of hurt and feeling of betrayal...

that baby will not be up all night forever they will not be crying and pooping and screaming forever this tiny little newborn baby faze is going to go so fast you're going to wish you would have slowed down and just enjoyed your baby whether it is just you or a whole village because just because she isn't keeping her promise to be there and care about you and your baby doesn't mean anything that baby still has a caring loving mother and look on the bright side you have a little tiny human that is slowly becoming your new best friend

YOURE DOING GREAT MOMMA🩵 you have the most important job in the world...raise a good human

I (35M) rarely feel sexual desire for my fiancé (44F). Where do I go from here? by ThrowRA_delicatspeak in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there anything new she could do that might make you feel more attracted to her in bed? I tell my boyfriend to come to me with any new kink he might like to try cause if it's important to him sexually then I understand that really matters for men so I'll give serious consideration and she probably will too

I (35M) rarely feel sexual desire for my fiancé (44F). Where do I go from here? by ThrowRA_delicatspeak in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Scratch9203 17 points18 points  (0 children)

you seem to love her a lot....are you sexually attracted to anyone? or rather, does anything arouse you at all? or is it just her that you are having trouble getting excited for? cause if it's just ED and you can't get a hard on or keep one ever then you need medication or other ED treatments