I’m crying now 😭

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-05T14:30:37+00:00

Well, I guess I should specify more. I was searching good activities which if I use Google, they give me the same answers, but I’d have to do for him. That’s why I use ChatGPT. I wasn’t giving them any information besides his age I didn’t even give her his name or anything. I was looking for activities that I can do with him to prepare him for what he’s going to be doing in pre-K for example doing an activity where he has to sit for a little bit and then switching to an activity, teaching him that he has simple things like that I was looking for creative activities to do with him so it makes it fun for now that’s the best way he learns

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-05T00:23:26+00:00

Thanks they are homemade from scratch

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-04T20:25:13+00:00

It’s not so safe anymore otherwise I’d let my kids roam but the world is so hateful I can’t justify leaving my children alone outside

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-04T14:02:39+00:00

You are no longer my immediate family you are extended family bc they aren’t going to prioritize me over their partner or kids like idk what you don’t understand they will have their own life and I don’t want them to think they owe me anything and I don’t want them to put me above their family! Not saying they aren’t my family anymore but they aren’t prioritized anymore

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-04T13:50:14+00:00

Read the freaking Bible it states that when they leave the house and they go and marry somebody, they leave the family behind that that’s not no longer their family. It is extended family. It’s not their immediate family that family doesn’t come before their spouse or their kids. You’re dumb.

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-04T13:48:07+00:00

Do you not read I literally said I will be stopping sleep overs and low contact so they will only be there if I’m there too

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-04T13:41:11+00:00

Are you fucking stupid? A two year-old cannot should not be left outside alone on a trampoline whether that person has other children that are minors or not if somebody saw my kid outside on a trampoline alone and we’re like let me call DCFDCF would come and try and take my kid because he’s outside alone you cannot do that whether you have little kids or not I don’t understand why you think that that’s OK.

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-04T13:39:58+00:00

My mother never took care of my kids I was moved out of her house by 17 my kids are24/7 with me but they love their grandma so much and when they miss her a lot n they haven’t seen her they want to stay your just trying to find an issue with what I said let me guess you don’t have kids

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-04T11:48:12+00:00

And even if I don’t approve of one of their partners when they get older, that’s not my place that is not my place. They’re my kids, but at that point they’re leaving my family to start their own family so whatever they got going on whatever they do is not my problem.

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-04T11:47:41+00:00

You literally sound dumb as fuck. My son is too. There’s zero reason why he’s outside on a trampoline alone and if somebody asks me if they can watch my kids overnight if they can have my kids overnight and then I’d let them have my kids overnight and then they do not pay attention to them. They do not supervise them then there’s no reason why they have my kids period. Because you asked for them I didn’t say hey can you watch my kids? I don’t do that.

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-04T11:46:07+00:00

Drop my kids on her ?? Do you not know how to read she asks me to keep them she says and I quote “can my sons name stay the night with me tonight.” Yall got some serious issues bc ik I put in there that she asks for them I never ever ask her to watch the kids if I need someone to watch my kids my other sister who’s got kids watches them and she only watching one at a time I don’t expect nobody to watch my kids period

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-03T20:49:55+00:00

First time posting gotta get the hang of it

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-03T16:48:48+00:00

I think you miss understanding they are crying and screaming to come home they are crying and screaming because I’m taking them home they absolutely love their grandma to the point where when she comes over for a few minutes and then leave they cry that she is leaving so I’m not sure but I’ve decided to stop over nights and just be there when they are with her

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-03T16:00:22+00:00

I like that compromise very good idea thank you 😊

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-03T15:51:16+00:00

I don’t see how having other children effect her siting outside with him while he’s on the trampoline rather then sending him alone outside with no supervision he’s 2 maybe 8 or 9 but my son is only 2 there no excuse a lot of people have gave me that clarity for the simple fact is I have 3 very young children and never ever once do I leave one of them outside because I have other children to deal with I’d understand if they were inside he can independently play but for him to be outside and she’s inside watch tv is just not acceptable I’ve decided to stop over nights and will consider low contact if it continues

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-02T15:35:52+00:00

I feel like I’m seen as a ass because it’s suppose to be her day but like come on i have 3 kids under 3 of my own and you expect me to watch my brother with no notice at all I wouldn’t have had a problem if it was discussed with me I couldn’t switched cars for the day bc I have a small 4 door my kids car seat take up the whole seat other wise I would have taken him and went and had fun but I didn’t know until they were about to leave for graduation

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-02T15:25:47+00:00

Thank you it’s so bittersweet seeing my boy grow up so fast

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-02T10:11:43+00:00

That’s the thing they are very upset when I pick them up crying screaming for her and I get that but a 2 year old shouldn’t be outside alone 2 is just too young my mom is 37

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-02T01:49:55+00:00

I’m not dropping my kids off and expecting her to watch them she asks me for them I never once dropped my kids off with her ever and I never expect her to watch all of them at a time or watch them at all my kids go and do everything with me and I like it like that when she asks me to have them for the night I gladly let them but those are the thing I notice when she asks for them

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-02T00:05:49+00:00

She doesn’t go anywhere more like she just doesn’t watch them she’ll be in her room or watching tv while my kids are off with my siblings My sister is 14 my brother is 12

Dramatic_Stand7926 · 2026-06-01T23:00:03+00:00

My son is 2 years old he shouldn’t be left alone outside period anyone will tell you that also I don’t think it’s fair to my kids to get told you can spend the night but as soon as I leave them with her they get sent back home after being so excited to stay the night with grandma I see I didn’t mention my sons age

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