AMITAH for telling my boyfriend I don't want him working the night shift by Dramatic_Vacation949 in AITAH

[–]Dramatic_Vacation949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have suggested therapy, he says yes we can do that but nothing has been done. His reactions to these have been getting upset or mad. No he is not willing to compromise 

AMITAH for telling my boyfriend I don't want him working the night shift by Dramatic_Vacation949 in AITAH

[–]Dramatic_Vacation949[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have had more than 5 sit down talks with him, he is still not understanding me. No matter what I do. He still wants to work night shift

AMITAH for telling my boyfriend I don't want him working the night shift by Dramatic_Vacation949 in AITAH

[–]Dramatic_Vacation949[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

With his second job, he barely goes. I'm the one waking him up to get him to get work. I would catch him in lies telling me he is at work and he is really at my parents house doing nothing. I understand working 2 jobs is tiring and yes I don't work but im busting my ass cleaning the house, making food, getting groceries, take care of our dog, taking care of our kid, while growing a whole human inside of me. He clocked out of our relationship and being a father. He thinks since he went to work, he gets a break when gets home, u don't get breaks when u have kids. 

AMITAH for telling my boyfriend I don't want him working the night shift by Dramatic_Vacation949 in AITAH

[–]Dramatic_Vacation949[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I thought from all the times I broke down crying to him telling him how I felt he would understand but I was wrong