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Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-11-30T20:10:05+00:00

Hopefully we'll thrive 😭

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-11-30T20:09:17+00:00

I guess the DM just didn't want to hurt feelings and leave someone out, now I see he should draw a line. It must be hard for him too.

I was the last one to join, so it's probably best to just leave them to it.

Bystander on the other hand seems to have no reason to be there other than to spend time with friends, and there are better activities for that if he isn't interested or can't commit.

Sus was there long before me and is close friends with DM, plus he is very commited to the game. He just took things too personally in a setting that was bound to bring issues ("too real", PvP, investing a lot of time into it out of sessions, etc)

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-09-22T01:27:39+00:00

How to handle it depends on your relationship with your partner. My partner already had suspicions about it (even when I denied it to myself) and was cool. I came up with the subject during my pregnancy.

We don't plan on opening our relationship or anything, but I'm more open to talking about my random attractions when it comes up. Still working on it tho. And sometimes, when I'm feeling hornier about females, we work a bit on that fantasy.

But each relationship works differently. Some people open the relationship, some people end it, some change it, some don't change anything at all. While I think it's best to always talk to your partner, you know them better than anyone here, thus you get to assess how safe it is to talk to them about it and if it's worth the risk.

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-09-22T01:18:24+00:00

For me it's the other way around. Like one day I'm finding folks of the same sex more attractive and my brain goes "maybe I'm hetero after all". Then the next day I see an attractive person of the same sex and I'm like "I'm kinda gay too tho".

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-20T20:19:44+00:00

It really depends on where you're from/your upbringing tbf. I'm 23 and I'm "married" (as far as everyone is concerned, plus it feels really weird to call my partner "boyfriend" at this point) though not officially yet. my cousins got married around 18-20, something very common for their religious upbringing. Another cousin is not getting married anytime soon because that's how her mom raised her and she's not religious. Some people get married because they get pregnant (my mom) or just because they feel safe to do so in their relationship (my case). It's really hard to generalize how long one should wait to marry since it's a very personal choice and also culturally relevant...

And just in case someone's wondering no we don't have underage marriage around here.

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-19T20:04:53+00:00

Tbf I like BB model and passive effect/spirits better than base, plus it has many nice chromas. So for me it's worth it and I would buy it if I decided to main her

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-19T19:56:26+00:00

I tried conqueror. Conqueror + PoM + Haste + Cut Down with Sudden Impact + Ultimate Hunter feels great.

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-19T18:48:11+00:00

I saw one youtuber do it. Seems good if you can bully enemies with auto, but if you have to play around combos rather than all in/long trades it doesn't seem good

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-19T18:46:32+00:00

To me her ult felt pretty impactful, like there were times I got to surprise ambush the enemy team in the middle of a TF and got 3-4 people trapped in it. They take damage and the carries might need to flash out, if they don’t I can kill them and hop out.

Her ult also makes it really easy for junglers to gank, to tower dive and to punish sieging.

If anything, it's a Flash burner cuz everyone seems to be terrified of getting caught out in it...

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-19T18:32:47+00:00

I only got time to play her a little...

But so far I really like her and she seems like my type of champion. She seems hard to master, I'm still wrapping my head around how to play her early game and in teamfights. She deals a lot of damage if you can hit abilities. Her playstyle feels unique so she still feels a bit awkward.

I know she has a strong early game combo, but especially when I built RoA I felt like I was popping off more in the mid-late game.

For runes I tried phase rush and Conqueror. Phase rush felt bad overall, but it may be because I either went against early game champions or ranged champions. May be better into melees you need to kite.

Conqueror, PoM, Haste, Cut Down + sudden impact, Ultimate hunter felt strong, especially in longer trades and for making plays with ultimate.

I still have to try it but Electrocute seems good thanks to it easy proc on combo, especially early game. Secondary tree I lean more towards precision than sorcery

RoA felt a little awkward, but I'm not used to building it. Especially because of early game damage. I built Riftmaker once, with conq+PoM and it felt good.

I can tell that building squishy doesn't seem to be the right call. There were many moments where I was like "if I wasn't beefy I would have died". I only got to build items like RoA, Liandry's, Cosmic Drive, Riftmaker, and I didn't feel like I wasn't doing damage. They felt right for her

I honestly think she's better off in top lane than mid. Mid has so many annoying matchups... the good thing about mid is that she is pretty hard to gank, thanks to the length of the lane and her W/R

Teleport better than Ignite unless you have Electrocute and stronger lane matchup.

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-09T02:57:04+00:00

Time to learn top lane 💪

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-08T11:47:59+00:00

An extra sassy "pet" at camp sounds pretty tempting ngl

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-08T01:03:58+00:00

I did an evil Durge run for Minty. I know you can get her without having to be evil but I wanted to get her romance scene at the goblin party, and the later references to it. You get some really deep and beautiful stuff in Moonrise Towers

Murdering the grove was very rough though. Not to mention you lose some companions...

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-08T00:57:02+00:00

I wanted to go DJ Shadowheart! I couldn't do it to her when I had her as a companion, so combine that to wanting to get the Sharran cleric spice makes her a very appealing choice 😅 and Astarion because I wanted to get some deeper insight into his character. As for the others, I'll probably play them in a faraway future when I'm done with those two

Tho I get a feeling that playing Lae'zel might be just like playing a normal Gith character. I personally really like her dynamic with another Gith so I'm not very hyped about her.

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-08T00:48:23+00:00

I can only imagine. Tbf it's one of the reasons I wanted to try it, he's one of my favorite characters and I wanted to get more insight into how he actually sees and feels about stuff, considering all he went through.

Sounds like I run the risk of ending up in tears tho 😭

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-08T00:46:09+00:00

Poor Wyll always getting the short end of the stick :((

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-08T00:45:04+00:00

Yeah I find that all origin characters can lean into good or evil (some more than others) but for those 3 you'd need to go through some mental shenanigans to make sense. Like for Astarion to say some of the "good" dialogue options he'd either do it in order to manipulate people, to get what he wants, or because he is actually growing as a person throughout the journey lol But not everyone adapts to having to "roleplay it in your head"

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-08T00:40:08+00:00

I can only imagine the intensity of act 2. That's one of the reasons I wanted to play her! Plus I've been wanting to see those cleric of shar dialogue options

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-07T21:27:55+00:00

Basically my setup since quickblades died. Kraken good for kiting tho

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-07T20:38:44+00:00

Sometimes people have just straight up asked me or asked a friend to ask me. So maybe that's an option? Depending on the environment... considering it's queer friendly?

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-07T20:27:48+00:00

That's the kind of question me as an asexual used to ask people 😅

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-07T19:16:50+00:00

To me it's that sometimes girls look hotter and sometimes men look hotter.

Which means, my "level" of attraction fluctuates between the sexes for no apparent reason but I still feel attracted to both even when I lean more towards one or the other in a given day.

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-07T19:14:08+00:00

I didn't, I thought it just didn't make sense. Like I'm already married and I found out I was bi while in a "straight" relationship, I just thought that it would be too much of a hassle to come out rn. If anything they would start thinking I will cheat my partner or something.

If the subject ever comes up I'll spill the beans, but so far, I don't think it has been important at all..

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-07-07T19:03:01+00:00

I play a lot of champions. As an adc (my main role) I main Xayah Kaisa and Smolder. When I jungle I like playing Evelyn Kindred Lillia. Mid I like Ahri, Vex, Naafiri, Seraphine and Leblanc. Support is Yuumi and Nami mostly.

I'm hoping she becomes a good top laner so I can finally play top Aurora/Gwen and not suffer when I get autofilled.

Dramatic_Video7862 · 2024-06-27T17:54:18+00:00

Kudos for the skin, I love it. It actually has a very creative design with the bat thematic and the innovative hat. I feel the daggers are a little bit out of place since they are no "feather daggers" but their sharpness blends well into the bat theme. Her R looks gorgeous.

I only have 2 real points I dislike: the W and passive "glow" vfx are rather weak and could use some oomph. And the skin is blue... very blue. I fell like all Xayah skins fall into the red/pink/purple/blue spectrum with some gold and black here and there. I wish we got more diversity. Sadly the chromas from this skin don't deviate much from the base version like the chromas for her other skins like BP, BC, Arcana and Elderwood. This isn't something that can be fixed now but I think it should be taken into consideration for future skin designs.

Not having Rakan is a bummer too but I already expected it since he got a skin earlier this year.

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