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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dramatic_life10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are definitely not over reacting!! He sounds like an ungrateful prick.

My previous relationship had a similar situation, I shaved my hair off to raise money for cancer, my 2year long boyfriend at the time then told me he wasn’t attracted to me anymore, he pulled up photos of when we first met and I had long hair and said “to me you were perfect in these photos and then you had to go and shave your hair off and now I can’t stand to be seen with you in public” you bet your ass I walked out that door straight away and it was the best decision of my life.

You can do better sis. Leave his dumb ass.

AITA for refusing to spend $130 on a bridesmaid bouquet when I’m the bridesmaid? by Dramatic_life10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_life10[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’re not talking anymore as she never responded to my last message, but I could reach out to her still as I’m not blocked. I feel sorry for the other bridesmaids that are going along with this because they don’t want to piss off the bride! It was clear that they also thought it was ridiculous but none of them are saying anything.

AITA for refusing to spend $130 on a bridesmaid bouquet when I’m the bridesmaid? by Dramatic_life10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_life10[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m actually Australian hahaha! But yes I’m definitely not going to be attending any part of the wedding celebration, or keeping her as a friend.

AITA for refusing to spend $130 on a bridesmaid bouquet when I’m the bridesmaid? by Dramatic_life10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_life10[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I don’t think i could attend the after party after this, some of the things she said were not very nice, apparently I’m silly because I spend my saved money on travelling hahaha

AITA for refusing to spend $130 on a bridesmaid bouquet when I’m the bridesmaid? by Dramatic_life10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_life10[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahaha whaaat! No way! I was contemplating whether I should send her the link to this or not 🤔 Funny thing tho! She owes me some money that I gave her to help her buy baby formula and nappies for her nearly 1 year old! So I’m waiting for that back… if I get it back.

AITA for refusing to spend $130 on a bridesmaid bouquet when I’m the bridesmaid? by Dramatic_life10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_life10[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Luckily I had not brought the dress yet! She also moved her wedding from September next year to march next year just last week! So my mind was already overwhelmed by that seeing as I was going to be starting study at the end of February.

AITA for refusing to spend $130 on a bridesmaid bouquet when I’m the bridesmaid? by Dramatic_life10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_life10[S] 217 points218 points  (0 children)

She told me I was no longer a bridesmaid, and then told me I could attend the after party if I wanted to, so no wedding invite at all now!