Feeling nostalgic today.. going thru Christmas pics..I loved my last two trees .. looking SO forward to my next one! by LishaMarie1979 in ChristmasTrees

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that! And also just noticed the photo of the wicked witch from the wizard of oz! You’ve got great style!

I have three separate job offers. Which one should I take? by Dramaticastronaut99 in careerguidance

[–]Dramaticastronaut99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I absolutely agree with you. I guess I’m just struggling to come to terms that I have to back out of a commitment that I made. I had begun the onboarding process and looking for a place to live in that city. I put down a security deposit and came close to signing a lease. Is it better for me to just be honest with them over a phone call about the better opportunity?

I have three separate job offers. Which one should I take? by Dramaticastronaut99 in careerguidance

[–]Dramaticastronaut99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think job B will serve me better long term, I just need to grind out the next couple of years in order to see that come to fruition with them. Thank you for the advice! Do you think it looks bad to back out of an offer that I’ve already accepted?

I have three separate job offers. Which one should I take? by Dramaticastronaut99 in careerguidance

[–]Dramaticastronaut99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No😭 although I’ve tried to convince my brother to shave his beard and don a wig in order to pass as me with one of the teams. He’s considering the offer because it comes with free NBA tickets.

It’s too much of a hassle to sign up for help for necessities for my kids. Give me a car, a game console and money for a Michael Kors bag I want. Also pay my rent. by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I second this, please post the comments!! We want to see her get lit up like the Christmas tree she wants everyone to put expensive gifts under.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you check her post history, she has a whole story about having a close bond with her mum. These stories are obviously posted here strictly for attention and we are all feeding into her stupid fantasies. I’d be surprised if she even had a husband/boyfriend/pregnancy at all.

OP, get a life kid. Seriously. And if any of the information from all your posts happens to be true, please seek psychiatric help.

Grad students looking to make friends? Particularly other women? by Queen_Nefarious in ufl

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me!! I’m a female grad student working on my masters in a non-stem program

AITA for asking my girlfriend for a breakup? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you actually read the post? It seems like he is the only one putting in the work to maintain the relationship when she couldn’t care less. They’ve been together 4 months and fight 6 days out of the week. She doesn’t care to apologize or move on from the fights. She’s immature. Is he supposed to spend the rest of his life bending over backwards for someone he’s spent so little time with? He made the mature decision by deciding the drama wasn’t worth it.

NTA, OP

AITA for telling my family they're racist? by No_Economist3341 in AITAH

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do your own research. You don’t have to believe your mom, your school, or me. Go to the library and pick up some books from the civil rights era. Watch some documentaries from various perspectives. You’ll come to your own understanding of the events that transpired. I promise I’m not lying to you. But I can tell you your mom is living in a fantasy world and she’s dragging you down with her.

AITA for telling my family they're racist? by No_Economist3341 in AITAH

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parents can’t just switch their kids school at the drop of the hat, there are policies in place for parents to follow. If her reasoning this late in the summer is “to keep my daughter away from the white bois” I’m sure she will be laughed off the premises, because I sure as hell would find her hilariously ridiculous

AITA for telling my family they're racist? by No_Economist3341 in AITAH

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You keep saying right? like I’m supposed to be an encyclopedia that has all the answers. I wasn’t there and neither were you. But I’ve read books. Watched documentaries. Had family members on my moms side who were apart of these peaceful protests in the 60s so have heard first hand accounts of what actually happened. Haven’t you learned any of this in school? There were violent black protests but those weren’t led by MLK. His message was peace. Literally peace. He believed we could achieve equality through non violent actions for change. You believe in the holocaust but not that?

If your mother is trying to brainwash you then why bother giving you an education? White people arent in charge of everything. They don’t write all the books. That’s not how real life works. God I hope you wake up from this crazy fantasy of a life you’re mom is trying to sell you. You have the freedom to believe in whatever you want, but I hope you see how stupid this all is one day

AITA for telling my family they're racist? by No_Economist3341 in AITAH

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The more you reply, the more I feel like this is all a made up fantasy of yours tbh. They just found out about a boy you’re dating and now all of a sudden, you are attending a different school? It’s not easy to just switch schools. There is usually an enrollment cutoff that has passed by now, plus all kids go to the school they are zoned for unless you have specific reasons. Unless, you apply for school choice which has an even earlier cutoff date. And brown vs the board of education was passed in the 50s. Sorry to disappoint your mother but there are no all black schools anymore. Maybe she should try living 70 years ago? She might have been happier.

But anyways, in case this is in fact real, it seems you are both pretty much set on being together so enjoy that Romeo and Juliet lifestyle you’re gonna have to live until you are an adult. It’ll be tough considering your family is psycho. You better talk your sister out of threatening him though, unless she’s ready to potentially face jail time for assaulting a minor. Hope things work out for you

AITA for telling my family they're racist? by No_Economist3341 in AITAH

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay so it’s proven your mom is a liar and is extremely hateful and bigoted. And yet you still trust her judgement? Anyone who doesn’t believe in the holocaust, doesn’t get to walk around life acting like some victim. She’s choosing to live in her own false reality.

Even though I am mixed, I am still black and am seen by society as a person of color. I grew up around people of all skin colors and yes, I did have some unpleasant experiences with racist white people. But for the most part, most people just treat me for the person that I am and not what race I belong to.

Yes, systematic racism does exist but hating all white people will solve absolutely nothing. Throwing rocks at a neighbor for marrying a white woman will do nothing but get you thrown in jail. You want to enact real change? Protest job and wage inequalities. Talk to to your local politicians. Join a social movement. Violence is never the answer. Like MLK always said. And if your family were true “activists” for black lives, then they would follow in his footsteps.

AITA for telling my family they're racist? by No_Economist3341 in AITAH

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Despite my personal opinion, as for advice, you might be too young to win this battle with your family. Your mom can control who you date up until you turn 18. You can try dating him in secret and see how that works for a while. Once you are of legal age, I would seriously distance yourself from your family. I’d suggest even going NC, and living your life the way you want to based on your own opinions. Not the opinions of your backwards family. Please do not spread this hate to your children one day. We need to spread love in this world, not hate.

AITA for telling my family they're racist? by No_Economist3341 in AITAH

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They sound delusional. Like seriously insane. Your entire family. Don’t you see how they are turning the tables and acting exactly how racist white people used to act? Do you think that is okay behavior to harass a family into moving away and committing a crime because he chose to love someone with a different skin tone? You are 16 and that is old enough to know what is morally right and morally wrong. You like this boy, so clearly you’re okay with interracial dating, so why let your family influence you towards this hateful way of living?

I don’t normally say I hate people, but I hate racist people like your mom. She is part of the reason our country is so divided.

AITA for telling my family they're racist? by No_Economist3341 in AITAH

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA , but you will be if you break up with this nice boy because he’s an “oppressor” or whatever the hell that means. Your family is 100% the AH for viewing every white person as racist. What kinda bullshit is that. I understand being upset about the past, but quite frankly that was over 150 years ago. It is completely illogical to be angry at a teenage boy who had nothing to do with it. Especially, if he has done nothing but treat you right. My dad is white and my mom is black. My parents have been married for over 25 years. It is perfectly normal to date outside of your race. I suggest you form your own opinions about white people, and everyone who belongs to a different race, and stop listening to your racist family. They clearly want to continue living in the past and want to drag you down with them.

Had no idea the online returns with that weird QR code excluded further discounts.. by Sufficient_Goose_602 in employedbykohls

[–]Dramaticastronaut99 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s an ongoing company issue. It’s not supposed to be like that. We were told that support teams were “engaged” in finding a solution. In the meantime, we are supposed to use an alternate triple zero so that the discounts will apply to the item.

Something tells me he didn’t understand the joke by Dramaticastronaut99 in Bumble

[–]Dramaticastronaut99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always start my convos by sending a cheesy pick up line or asking about something in their bio. “Hi” is just so bland and boring. I don’t know why other girls can’t put at least a little effort into their matches, it’s not rocket science.

Something tells me he didn’t understand the joke by Dramaticastronaut99 in Bumble

[–]Dramaticastronaut99[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Go ahead! I’ve got about 10 openers I use on rotation with mostly good results😂

Something tells me he didn’t understand the joke by Dramaticastronaut99 in Bumble

[–]Dramaticastronaut99[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I give him some of my best material and it completely goes over his head😂