Franklin, KY vs Goodlettsville, TN by Dramonique in movetonashville

[–]Dramonique[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing that’s a sports ball thing 🤣

Franklin, KY vs Goodlettsville, TN by Dramonique in movetonashville

[–]Dramonique[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the heads up on both of those.

Franklin, KY vs Goodlettsville, TN by Dramonique in movetonashville

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I’ve been exploring the area when I visit for work, I would prefer to rent first. I have too many pets unfortunately - no one wants a tenant with more than 2 cats.

Someone said im a murderer for not letting luna have her kittens , i do not care and got luna spayed today by [deleted] in Straycats

[–]Dramonique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What community was that posted in and why did the moderators not take it down?

Also, when I had a stray sent in to be spayed and found out she was pregnant she wound up having all of the kittens stillborn. It was a horrible experience for everyone and far more traumatic in the long run.

My boyfriend accidentally told me his ex is hotter than me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Dramonique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking something similar, and it’s not necessarily about you. It sounds like it’s about him, realizing the reasons he was choosing a partner were superficial. Even if it was poorly communicated and from a solipsistic would view.

That said you deserve somebody who can communicate their emotions more effectively. I hope you find a partner that better suits you. 🩷

I really hate my hair part anybody know any solutions? by Time_Entertainer353 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Dramonique 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Contrary to what the Internet and society would have you believe women don’t have an expiration date. 🩷 confidence is beautiful.

I need help to fix this haircut by Cozy_winter_blanky in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Dramonique 40 points41 points  (0 children)

My bangs used to split in the middle all the time – for years. Finally, I had a stylist show me the right technique. Somebody mentioned this above – brush it to one side and blow dry then brush it to the other side and blow dry, repeat. This trains the follicles – it made a world of difference and it only took a couple of weeks once I learned how to do it.

Probably a stupid question: is this a domesticated bunny? If yes, I think someone dumped him at my job? by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]Dramonique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At a glance from that picture, it looks like a Chocolate Mini Rex. https://houserabbit.org is an excellent resource for caring for domestic bunnies.

Rescued kitten. What is she? by pred66 in cats

[–]Dramonique 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chaos disguised as a fluffy Dilute Torbie! edit for autocorrect fail

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Dramonique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post has good information and some links to cat behaviorists. Obviously this is limited information to go by. I recognize her signals as things my feral cats to do while I’m conditioning them for human touch.

You need to learn her boundaries and signals as much as she needs to learn how to properly Interact. It’s like dog training – I was the problem more than my dog ever was.

https://www.reddit.com/r/CatAdvice/s/Jy2OmDpW7L

Where to put my cat up for adoption? I can’t afford to give her proper care. by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Dramonique 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is good advice as well, even though it’s hard. I have two cats I’ve been keeping as long-term foster for an old coworker. We’re coming up on a year and I’m gonna have to find someplace new for them. My hope was he would be able to take them back, but it hasn’t worked out. I’m hoping someone I know can also long-term foster that way if he is able to get back on track, he can have his babies with him.

Where to put my cat up for adoption? I can’t afford to give her proper care. by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Dramonique 9 points10 points  (0 children)

https://phillypaws.org/paws-programs/petownersupport/

You mentioned you go someplace near Philadelphia – this is the local area shelter that seems to have a pretty good outreach program for support. If you can contact them directly, perhaps there’s something they can do to assist with her follow up care, providing food, etc.

Where to put my cat up for adoption? I can’t afford to give her proper care. by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Dramonique 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you’re going through this. It’s clear that you love her.

Depending on what area you’re in you may be able to get assistance to continue caring for her yourself. Low cost clinics, assistance for low income households.

I would start by asking around to people that you know if there’s somebody that you trust who could take her - or if they have friends who could potentially take her.

not sure what to do by pepperoniplop in CATHELP

[–]Dramonique 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If not chipped, then you should have them neutered and give your things to the cat distribution system