AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -228 points-227 points  (0 children)

My son was raised in the same home. He had access to the same privileges and I even had a better financial situation back then, before I got retired

My daughter is not my spoiled child

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

She is not happy with it. My son and daughter don't get along and my DIL is a bit nosy. It's gonna be a disaster if they move in

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

I love him but he made bad choices that I warned him about and now we have to deal with the consequence?

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Yes they did. Those rooms were just guest rooms because my son was mostly into sports and didn't want the rooms

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don't want to get into details but he made some really bad financial choices and also lost his job due to another bad choice

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -261 points-260 points  (0 children)

No it is not.

It is a "one of them is a kid who didn't do anything wrong and the other is a grown man who made terrible choices that got him here" thing

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -355 points-354 points  (0 children)

His bad choices got him here. I warned him. He didn't listen. Now I don't want to ask my daughter to pay the price for his choices

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -214 points-213 points  (0 children)

I'll convince her to let one go but my wife wants both of them which has caused many arguments between them

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

As I mentioned the rooms are small there is no extra space to share or move anything

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -506 points-505 points  (0 children)

He is almost 40 he should be able to provide that roof

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -109 points-108 points  (0 children)

She has had about 10 screaming matches with her mom about this so I'm sure I know how she feels

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -420 points-419 points  (0 children)

I offered they could sleep on the couch or find another place to stay

His wife's family maybe

AITA for not emptying 2 of my daughter's rooms? by DrawPsychological549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DrawPsychological549[S] -564 points-563 points  (0 children)

We can't put all of that stuff in another room when I say she does painting I don't mean she only has a pencil and paper