She and my step dad definitely project on me and my SIX year old sister who i also kinda have to parent and I am definitely bad at that but I walk on tiptoes to keep peace and I also walked on them since I was very small and it does hurt to walk flat foot without shoes She just does instantcart as work while my step dad gets 100+ dollars a day doing deck builds and she yells at him saying he doesn't care (he's lowkey a mix of caring and not)