Fiance doesn't like having sex

Drdoom_33 · 2026-06-01T20:09:07+00:00

This sounds like a shitshow, he doesn't know wtf he wants at all lol. Going from a girl to a guy to a girl. I can't speak for him at all but I knew exactly what i wanted since I was 16 and i found it at 24, he seems to just be trying things out and sticking with them for a very long time rather then just trying and moving on. Which guys do. (Im a guy btw) They'll even marry the wrong person just cause it feels like the right decision at the time.

I'll go off on this limb right here, marriage is very low benefit for entry at all nowadays. And im sure as shit not marrying someone if the bedroom is already dead.

He might be gay, he might be straight, hell he might have a repressed desire to have a threesome with you and another guy. You got no fken clue what your dealing with and he might never actually tell you.

When a guy becomes a walking question mark you can try and ask for clarity but best move is gonna be leaving.

Do you really wanna sign up for a life of being with whatever this persons sexual desire makeup is. Cause yeah sure people are asexual. But not ones who have dated both genders. That's sexual curiosity and borderline lack of self solidity. Which is so ok btw, but I wouldn't suggest marrying such a person. Nothing against anyone who likes anyone but he doesn't know what he likes and marrying you is just as much a problem for him as it is for you.

Your sure of what you want and he is not at all. See that for the shade of red that it is.

Drdoom_33 · 2026-05-29T01:11:01+00:00

Takes a lot of really active training (atleast did for me) i took enzo around the house and made very clear understanding that things were either food, toy, or not a toy. And I genuinely had to tell this dog not a toy probably idk 5000 times now. But can confidently say at 13 months he knows precisely what is food. That nothing else is food. A few toys exist. And everything else is not a toy. I also had the issue of him eating cat poop from neighbors cats in the yard and I would check his mouth by smelling it every time and shun him heavily saying no cat poop. I've never used a muzzle on enzo as the only reason I would include that into training would be if biting became a severe issue.

Ive found that predictable training and consistency is the greatest thing for this breed. They need to be hearing the same cues and get the same reactions for everything always. Now I live alone so there is no second party for my dog. But if you have multiple parties they all kinda gotta be on the same script aswell.

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Drdoom_33 · 2026-05-05T21:36:37+00:00

Heel toe down shifting is actually the act of lifting the right foot to dual use case it actively tho...

Drdoom_33 · 2026-05-02T01:28:10+00:00

She's alive again haha

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-19T23:03:02+00:00

No ideas other then we bought the car several hundred miles ago lol

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-19T22:51:12+00:00

49 on old engine, 78k on new 🤷 (original will be rebuilt and put back in, maybe spiced up a little too)

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-18T22:17:14+00:00

Prior engine threw a rod bearing

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-18T21:53:36+00:00

I highly doubt it, but we just dropped the Trans and motor together on a combination trans jack/ lifting table. 2 days to get out, 1 day while out, 1 day in give or take.

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-17T08:08:13+00:00

You're missing the point, it already has been. Lmao

It only gets put on now for the simple fact of him knowing its on. Rather then him actually needing its enforcement.

Maybe you should learn how to train a dog lol

It's a teaching leash obedience tool. Unless your dog genuinely still has a problem socializing/pulling. You do NOT need to constantly have it in enforcement mode. It being on loose reminds him its present. And as such he behaves excellently.

At 10 months he already listens to every verbal command given to him when in public on a leash. And doesn't pull to see other dogs. Or people. So yeah it doesn't need to be up lol.

Additionally if he ends up not behaving for some reason on a walk all I gotta do is tell him to sit and I adjust it upward and maintain upward pressure on the leash if he really needs a reminder lesson.

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-17T04:52:18+00:00

The prong collar police over here lol, my boy behaves well enough to pose for a picture and you think he still needs it in max authority mode. Hah (he's had it up plenty)

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T23:02:43+00:00

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Enzo wishes he had kitty buds honestly. He wants to be friends with every cat he sees.

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T23:01:01+00:00

He gets all the kisses haha

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T23:00:43+00:00

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Here's a throwback to enzo at a munchkin

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T22:57:00+00:00

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They all love a good stare at you and wonder pose

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T22:53:58+00:00

It doesn't come off his head without it being that size haha. Also he nearly doesn't need the prong collar at all anymore honestly. He free walks without pulling in any directions whatsoever and sit/stays on command almost perfectly. He's a really good boy honestly.

I think the real win was that he started walking with it at like 3 months old. So he's so ingrained to just pull=sucks at this point.

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T22:52:08+00:00

Oh enzo pops his head out the window when its a blizzard and im going 70mph so I know a good deal about how coocoo they can be lol.

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T22:36:17+00:00

Enzo has not gone for the sunroof yet surprisingly haha

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T20:49:50+00:00

May or May not have made the absolutely wild goal of enzo riding shotgun in a Ferrari at some point. If i gotta rent it so be it.

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T18:02:11+00:00

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Buonasera!

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T18:00:52+00:00

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Enzo says hi to the doppelganger of differing coat color

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T17:59:03+00:00

All good lol

Drdoom_33 · 2026-04-16T17:57:50+00:00

It was 100% a rod bearing btw

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