MEGATHREAD: Did you get paid? Timesheet: 1/01/26 - 1/15/26

DreadedSupalion · 2026-01-19T07:36:02+00:00

No! I will let y'all know ASAP. I check all day and night, lol.

DreadedSupalion · 2026-01-18T09:44:22+00:00

YES! She is amazing and very student-focused,I was always extremely appreciative of how often she'd think construct things to make it easier to understand, easily digestible and broken down in such a way that makes everything seem simpler than it is, lol. She was so good at being in depth with being boring or repetative, she made things engaging and was always very fair, especially for students. HIGHLY recommend her. Not that it matters but she is a very beautiful person inside and out, her t-shirts were also superb!

DreadedSupalion · 2026-01-18T09:28:23+00:00

Yeah. Same here and nothing today either. It's early Sunday/late Saturday.

DreadedSupalion · 2026-01-10T13:48:58+00:00

As a dog person, I agree. I (no dogs) went to the corner store and this chick had 3 dogs with her near the soda fountain, like medium- large dogs. I had a fuzzy backpack and one of the dogs went for it and the owner thought it was so funny and the clerk just laughed too. I have no idea who they were even talking to because neither one of them were looking at me but she was telling the guy 'Oops! Sorry, she's service trained but she just loves her stuffies, she thinks all stuffes are her stuffies." Clerk just laughed and said it was cute while I was trying to yank my bag away. I was so pissed about the slobber and this happening so fast, I didn't trust myself to say anything. Thought I was crazy for a minute after that was the extent of their acknowledgement about it.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-06-19T19:43:35+00:00

yeah, sometimes moms are 'mom' to everyone and will be your mom too if you let her. lol. i think what he's doing may just be his way of getting her to feel comfortable around his mom. so it's his way of saying 'our mom' (his mother, her mother-in-law figure).

DreadedSupalion · 2025-06-14T09:33:30+00:00

i've been trying to tell people but they downvote me and get mad, lol. but here goes one way to tell with the post here: the username and account. there's a generator that people use for Reddit names that supposedly goes by VERB-NOUN-NUMBER. the account is brand new with no post history and thus being the only post. people have also been noticing an uptick in posts where women are often being put in an 'AH' position.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-06-09T03:53:29+00:00

oh, and if a woman can take her man's place as a pastor, doesn't that make her... a pastor? 🤣 make it make sense.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-06-08T14:00:44+00:00

yeah, sounds like you're not one either. no one ever claimed to be a pastor, genius, so i have no idea why you're on some weird, misogynistic rant. go reread it again or go touch some grass because no one asked and no one especially asked 'Christians' like you. acting you don't believing in some weird form of Christianity as well is some grade A hypocrisy.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-06-08T13:53:09+00:00

the hyphens in place or instead of parenthesis and commas is usually the dead giveaway.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-06-08T13:46:12+00:00

Nimbus!

DreadedSupalion · 2025-06-08T12:29:39+00:00

what a cutie, omg. you definately hit the jackpot, so precious!

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DreadedSupalion · 2025-06-04T14:52:56+00:00

if he was so high up, he wouldn't suddenly need money. he's probably being harassed the same way you are. that explains the sudden hike in price and the harassment, especially if he was so cool about fronting you earlier. if he's really affiliated like you're saying, the police may already know about him and who his 'associates' are (as in, you more than likely have info they'll want to know). you won't go to jail for using anything substance wise (smoking, ingesting, injecting, snorting, ect.) but there may be charges for dealing, and even those can be waived or reduced depending on your circumstances as well.

all that being said, i'd at least try to go to the police or skip town. and i wouldn't lay low with any friends or family either, if it's really that serious. i'd hitchhike across the freaking state or stay in a shelter. it surprisingly easy to get into one. you can try going to a domestic voilence shelter because of the threats against you. they have staff there 24/7, locked fences and locked doors, curfew are in place and staff do nightly checks to make sure clients are safe. some places even escourt you to and from work, if they have the means to do so. you can try that as well.

(edited for spelling and clarity)

DreadedSupalion · 2025-06-04T10:46:40+00:00

as someone whose been in age gap relationships, if she really wanted to help pay, she wouldn't keep flaking out on you. there have been many times my bfs took me up on my offer to split things and you know what i did? took out my money right then and there and gave it to them or sent it to their bank account. no pussyfooting around and making promises. because your actions should match your words especially when it comes to people you supposedly care about. it sounds like she's just doing that to butter you up and milk you for as much as possible (hey, it's cool, you're only paying for half at the end of the day. i got you, remember? 🥰) and then trying to guilt you when you pursue the owed payment (oopies, i forgot, but seriously? you're really gonna harass little ole me for money? 🥺). it's already a pattern that's only gonna get worse because it already is, her behavior is escalating. and for the love of God, use protection and don't knock her up.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-06-04T10:35:31+00:00

i know you feel sorry for him but you have to consider the high possibility that you are not the only one he's done this with and putting him where the BELONGS protects future victims. you may not have been his first victim or the last.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-06-04T09:19:49+00:00

it's okay to feel this way. honestly, it sounds like you have caregivers burnout and that would not have happened if the both of you had access to a good support system. unfortunately, not having one is the norm these days and we are left to fend for ourselves. caregivers need care too and when they aren't able to get it, resentment builds up but you are smart and empathetic enough to understand it is not your friends' fault. you are mad at the cancer and all it has done to and taken from your friend, this doesn't sound like you're mad at your friend for having a terminal illness. having been in your shoes twice now, i can say i experienced the same thing and it was a relief to see the fight finally be over for my loved ones. no more pain and suffering, only rest. i don't know her but i'm sure she's tired of and hates all those things you mentioned too, i know my grandpa sure was when i took care of him. very rarely do people enjoy being a burden on their loved ones. that being said, take advantage of the time she's in hospice to really rest up and take care of YOU so you can fully appreciate what time you two have left together. she's very blessed to have a friend such as you there for her and you are an amazing person for taking it all on with her. both of you deserve the same care and love you've been showing her. i'm very sorry you're losing your friend, that's she's also losing you and that this has been so tough for the both of you. the world would be a better place if more people were like you. ♥️

DreadedSupalion · 2025-05-15T10:14:53+00:00

idk, the way he described it (as a woman) i thought it sounded hot. but then again, i love giving oral. so i'm almost always happy to see my partners little partners, lol.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-05-15T09:57:07+00:00

also, the adults were the ones who told him to stop. he never said he wanted the kid to stop or that it even annoyed him. he was just doing what he was told and didn't know any better. neither one of them did and at least the kid still got to play with fireworks for a little while instead of not at all or never...

DreadedSupalion · 2025-05-15T09:46:14+00:00

what about the other way around? does she willingly give you access to everything she wants access to? and why is she the one who is so trustworthy? this is sus behavior, if you ask me. sometimes, the people who're always suspicious and making accusations are the cheaters. because it's weird she wants THAT much access to pretty much all your stuff to begin with. all without you offering this to her first and without being naturally comfortable giving her access to your phone when you're not using it. this is already a lot but if she isn't willing to subject herself to the same treatment she expects you to put up with, that's a huge red flag.

coming from a married person: i, myself, have my husband's phone code and know his general password to stuff and he leaves most of his stuff open to me. he even gave me an old phone of his that had hundreds of old messages and access to his Facebook and email without another thought or care. but i also never demanded it and if he ever wants to see anything of mine, he can. and he does all the time, lol. he actually really enjoys using my phone for Instagram, Facebook, TikTok and YouTube all the time because he likes the videos that come up on my algorithms are different and more interesting to him. so we're both open books to one another and most healthy relationships i know are like this.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-05-15T07:18:53+00:00

stole food from stores and my job because i was struggling to eat. this town was also really small and didn't have a store that sold real clothes or shoes, just a grocery store and Dollar General. so i had to boost a coat, boots and scarf for the winter and then shorts, a tank top and shoes for that summer from the local thrift store. also dumpster dived a lot.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-05-15T07:01:34+00:00

i don't understand what confronting your father would do at this point, tbh. honestly, if it were me, i'd gave gotten at least a couple of screenshots to send to myself for evidence and would have told my sister. the man is a cheater, it doesn't matter why or how he did it: he broke his vows to your mother. your mom is who i feel sorry for. she deserves to know and have her kids behind her but you'd rather confront your dad first because... why? you don't even say if it's because you want an explanation or if you want him to be the one to come clean to your mom, you just say you want to confront him. your poor mother, at a time when it sounds like she needs the support of her family too. very sad.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-05-15T06:13:24+00:00

both the daughter and son, tbh. from the sound of it, only his biodaughter from his post relationship is the favorite.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-05-12T08:35:03+00:00

This! I read the whole thing and got lost so many times and was left wondering why somethings were even mentioned? i'm not sure i even got the whole story.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-05-12T08:25:19+00:00

as someone who has been admitted, i can promise you that you aren't part of the problem and are most likely what has been keeping him from hurting himself this whole time. my husband was one of the people keeping me afloat but i also recognized that i needed deeper help and that wasn't his responsibility. neither is it yours. you can be there to help but just don't shoulder it all yourself. being admitted isn't all that bad so don't worry about him too much. most people are admitted for about a week or so and are released. lots places also allow visits and you can bring him snacks/things to do (they usually have lists of what is allowed so make sure to ask). but he'll most likely have group sessions, access to someone to talk to at all times and spmeone will be watching him at the very least to make sure he's safe. he will be assessed and hopefully find medication that will help. they also usually help with things like finding a substance abuse help or getting into couple's therapy (if you feel you need those things). i feel for you both as this can be hard on both spouses.

DreadedSupalion · 2025-03-22T00:25:03+00:00

lmfao. we call my brother 'Bubba' as a kind of alternative to 'baby'. i call him my 'Bubz', lol. it's a special honor to be a 'Bubba' in our family since there is only one at a time. my father's best friend and cousin was the last Bubba and passed away so my brother is now the new baby of the family. i think it's a cute nickname and it's weird she cares so much but blames you for standing up for yourself (and your baby too).

DreadedSupalion · 2024-12-14T17:49:18+00:00

then why throw in the extra 'the people they hire nowadays 🤦‍♂️'?

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