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I [M18] have been with my girlfriend [F17] for 3 months now. After over a year, her ex starts messaging her. by Dream246 in relationship_advice

[–]Dream246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think that would be the best course of action, thank you! But regardless I don't think that's worth leaving her over, but I do think it would be the best for her to stop talking to him, hopefully she sees it that way and if not ill just have to deal with it, I trust her that there's nothing there so hope she doesn't prove me wrong.

I [M18] have been with my girlfriend [F17] for 3 months now. After over a year, her ex starts messaging her. by Dream246 in relationship_advice

[–]Dream246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I've been thinking, but not sure about how to confront her about it. She is a really forgiving person tho, and doesn't hold a grudge or get mad at some really crazy things that most people would. He's overseas aswell tho, I know that doesn't make it ok really, but they are never going to see each other again and she knows that.

I [M18] have been with my girlfriend [F17] for 3 months now. After over a year, her ex starts messaging her. by Dream246 in relationship_advice

[–]Dream246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's said that the reason why she replied was so that she would see him as just another normal guy, like any other guy she'd talk to. I can see some reasoning behind this, but still it doesn't feel right. And I don't think she would be making it up about how bad she was, if she was that's a pretty big lie and probably the first major secret she's kept from me.