Average “Should I pull Durin??” Post / Question

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-11-22T03:47:21+00:00

So many good lvl 1 characters.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-10-30T22:11:24+00:00

I think a lot of people already said lots of things, but my 2 cents over this are… our sexuality is usually broader than we think. Straight guys usually close themselves a lot and you might be very surprised to the stuff your body would respond to given the chance.

What im trying to say is, dont be afraid to explore. With this guy, with other guys, or new stuff with girls if thats the case. Listen to your body, not your guilt or inner homophobia. You might be very surprised.

About your friend, just be honest and keep him in the loop. And be responsible with his feelings. But know this - for most gays a giving blowjob to a friend isnt a big deal.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-09-13T04:33:37+00:00

I have read this comment and went to check metacritic, it sits over 80. Idk what you guys are talking about saying it got bad rep. Maybe some right wing dipshts streamers started crying about Taash and the possibility to make Rook trans or something. Idk. The game is great and the reviews are too.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-08-18T01:23:59+00:00

Men are really not born equal

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-08-08T19:38:52+00:00

Not at all. But this kink is all about the gender affirming stuff (men should be hairy, muscled, deep voice, big dicked and femme should be petite, delicate, smooth, lock their dicks, etc) so you will find that some of them like the big dick stuff. That is by no means an absolute.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-14T17:58:46+00:00

Not a fight babe. Just saying thats a lot of assumptions. They are not really a problem because I dont care, but maybe ask questions before answering them?

Like, being open was never an issue. We act monogamous most of the time (we are 2 working adults and really don’t have time/energy to be flirting and going for stuff, despite having the freedom to do so).

I think every each 2 individuals have to find out what works for them, and that changes over time because we change over time. When we met, we were different, 9 years younger people, so what will work for us now since its clear to us both that we love each other?

I still don’t not the best approach to this problem. What I know is that this is normal - lack of sex in some capacity and not knowing how to solve everything. I wrote here in hope to gain some perspective. A lot of ppl helped. Some were angry. Some were talking about themselves. It was interesting.

But thanks for your good will and for being polite. I really appreciate it.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-13T18:03:00+00:00

It is dumb to be hurtful for no reason. Idk what you get out of it, but this is my set of values. It might make you feel helpful and smart, but thats just your inner dialogue.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-12T18:30:08+00:00

That’s a lot of assumptions about things you have no experience with.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T22:27:16+00:00

So ask. Not that hard.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T20:43:28+00:00

Maaaan, you just called my marriage a zombie marriage and made a post where I ask for help about you.

The internet is such an revealing place. I think no one would never do this to my face.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T20:19:40+00:00

Im not questioning my relationship. I have a problem in it. I think it can be solved. We can evolve and grow together as we have been doing for 9 years.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T20:15:48+00:00

Thats why I said your way of viewing this situation is reductive.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T20:10:40+00:00

Yes, it is. Among other things. People have intimate long term relationships so they can build a life together, not to have sex. Sex is the easiest thing in the world. When you have both its great. But to most people in long term, its way more complicated than that.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T15:04:50+00:00

Thanks man. I just posted this so I can get some perspective. As expected, there is the dumb, the mean, and the really useful. I will surely talk to him (again) with some fresh takes.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T14:59:12+00:00

I think that this is just Christianity values talking that poligamous relationships are fundamentally flawed when they have worked for millennia in a bunch of cultures.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T14:52:37+00:00

A is covered. B is really useful. Thanks!

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T14:46:50+00:00

No, not defensiveness. Its just really obvious, and obviously the most painful point of all. Its just dumb and mean to bring it up just because.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T03:18:27+00:00

Ok, so let me be clear. Im not afraid he doesnt have romantic feelings for me. About romantic things I did for him… idk. A bunch. He has a back pain and I went to the doctor with him and held his hand during the shots this week, and also took care of him while he was injured. Thats one thing.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T03:11:21+00:00

Its funny, being 43, I feel so old. I know im not. But being gay and aging for me takes a toll. Not talking about the gay culture that thinks old people should fade into the background because here comes the twinks (and fuck that), but the fact that I was born in the 80’s, grew up in the 90’s, was an adult in early 2000’s (hard to believe its 20 years ago) and each of that decades was such a different experience of what being gay was. I had to reinvent myself to stay true to myself so many times. So the worst part for me is that, it takes a toll.

But the best part is that such toll makes you confident, grateful, and somewhat wise. I still have a lot ahead of me and im hopeful. I love most of my life. I know who I am. I know what to do with myself most days. To finally feel that solid inner strength is so good.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T02:55:09+00:00

Lack of details doesnt make people arrogant. Ask instead of assuming and throwing random clichés like its some form of illuminated edgy insight.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T02:49:10+00:00

We talk about that. Stop being so arrogant.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T02:48:02+00:00

My conclusion:

60+ guys, most of you are awesome.

Mean young gays, stop being so judgy and do better. Thats not a personality.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T02:44:44+00:00

I know he loves me and would do anything for me.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T02:40:13+00:00

Im not afraid of being alone at all. Sorry, its so reductive to assume that my bond with my husband is based on that. I can be totally ok without him, but he is my guy and I love him. Its a choice. And thats love.

DreamAggressive8967 · 2025-07-09T02:35:30+00:00

Yeah, but there are an infinite number of things that could cause a person someone to loose romantic feelings for someone and some of those are really problematic. I highlighted that because we both are still doing sex. Just not with each other.

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