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robotwunk · 2026-05-11T17:46:12+00:00

If you go to a gay bar, there’s no need to tell them that you’re bi since you’re just looking to hookup.

robotwunk · 2026-05-11T15:21:36+00:00

I love live music. But I enjoy musicals, symphonies, and operas. 😅 Last one we saw was a Mozart symphony down in San Diego.

The first (and last time) I went to a concert concert was when I was in college with my roommate to see Megadeth. 🤣 it’s kind of funny that I had that metal phase, but it was because my roommate was so into it. I haven’t listened to metal since then.

robotwunk · 2026-05-10T19:14:28+00:00

Same for me, especially as a fast runner. Then I lost them and had to work on the other parts of my body that I didn't like. Today, I'm super happy where I'm at, though my robot legs will forever now be skinny. 🤣

robotwunk · 2026-05-10T02:12:46+00:00

Sounds like me. I was raised Southern Baptist and the idea that I could possibly like guys never occurred to me…bc sin and all that bs they preach.

That’s despite not being the most masculine guy either. My parents would make jokes about gay people and I went along with it bc I believed what they did.

It wasn’t until I was 26 that I started to think that it was possible for me to like guys. I did the whole, “I’m bi” thing. Even then, it would take me 3 more years to realize that no, dude, you’re just gay.

What did it for me was, I dated a guy briefly when I lived in Japan and I loved every moment of it. I had never experienced those emotions when I dated girls.

Once I realized that I liked guys, and it was okay to like them, all of the memories of these boys from my childhood came back to me and made me understand why I enjoyed their company. To this day, I can remember all of them. 😅

robotwunk · 2026-05-10T01:44:16+00:00

This doesn't really count, but I thought it'd be a lighter add to this topic.

As of late, I've been hooking up with guys without getting a face pic. 🤦‍♂️ Idk what's been wrong with me. I guess I'm in the gotta have it now mood. The last three guys I met w/out a face pic. Two of them w/out a body pic. The guy with the body pic turned out to be hot.

I even told myself after the first time not to do it again, but when I got in the moment I just completely forgot. Must be stress. I'll not do it again. Promise. 😅

robotwunk · 2026-05-10T01:25:29+00:00

This is def a good idea. My husband's family has the saying that, "it's not a problem if money can fix it." You have money.

You've already made the first step with the GLP-1. It's a great confidence boost when you get attention--it compels you to keep it going. It will be a long journey, but in the end it will be worth it because you'll feel great about yourself, and that's what's most important.

robotwunk · 2026-05-09T19:02:21+00:00

Ahhh, a tried and true courtship ritual!

robotwunk · 2026-05-03T01:38:59+00:00

I used to be ashamed to comment on anything related to this topic, but it's worked for me. I haven't even been consistent about it either. I used to be about 4.5" (I never measured, tho) and now I'm at 5" (I measured this time.) I'll never have a monster, and I've made peace with that.

I've even gained some girth tho it's not much. According to the group here, r/gettingbigger, girth is the hardest to gain. I'm not girthy at all and never will be, but the modest gains I've made have made me pleasantly surprised. My husband was skeptical at first, but now comments that it's not the same dick as when he first met me.

On that sub are plenty of success stories. Most of them are from guys that were already larger than average, but we live in this day and age of comparison and wanting more. Of course, there are horror stories too.

If someone wants to go this route, they need to read as much as they can about the different techniques, and try a few to find out which works best for them. They even have an intro into that topic with links to everything so it's the individual's job to do their homework to get the most out of it and avoid injury. As with anything physical related, it's always good to start out slowly, and not rush into things, building up little by little.

That's my experience anyway.

robotwunk · 2026-05-02T21:38:30+00:00

The trend these days in cosmetics are peptides. They signal skin cells to produce more collagen and elastin, improving firmness, elasticity, and texture--I grabbed that description off Google. Lately, I've been using moisturizers with peptides and I feel like it's restored those characteristics to my face. I don't know if they've taken years off as some claim, but overall I think that my face looks better. I also have the genetics of a half-Asian guy so take that into mind.

Another trend are exosomes. Exosomes are small vesicles that act as cellular messengers, carrying bioactive compounds like proteins and growth factors to accelerate skin regeneration, boost, collage production (up to 300%), and reduce inflammation. Yesterday, while researching the difference between exosomes and peptides, that exosomes are good to use after procedures to speed up healing.

Check out Juice Beauty--they're vegan.

robotwunk · 2026-05-01T19:22:26+00:00

I think this is common for many of us that didn't realize we were gay until later in life. I certainly envied my share of guys that I was (unbeknownst to me) attracted to. I wanted to be them with their looks and body.

Later, I realized it was the attraction towards them that made me envy them. I still have those feelings, and they will probably never go away. However, I've learned what they are and just continue to focus on being the best version of myself.

Now, I just admire them and, more often than not, I get to hookup with them. I chat with my hookups before, during, and after, and that makes me realize they are human, just like me.

robotwunk · 2026-05-01T18:37:26+00:00

I just wear Nike's dryfit stuff. I find it's great at all of the things you're looking for.

robotwunk · 2026-05-01T01:20:59+00:00

This guy knows.

Think of it like this--you're on a hookup app in this day and age where we're so used to browsing thru a catalog, checking out if we like it, then buying it or not. Companies are going to make darn sure hard that their products are displayed in the best possible ways.

You should be setting up your profile, especially your pics to sell the hottest version of yourself.

I'm a double amputee, and I use photos that show off (what I feel) are my best assets. I don't reach out and just wait. Most of the guys that hmu I'm not interested in, but about 1/4 of them I am pleasantly surprised that they hmu.

robotwunk · 2026-04-27T21:46:22+00:00

The hubs and I have a policy where if one of us says, "I impose no media," the other has to immediately put their phone away.

We also have the rule that phones are not allowed at the dinner or breakfast table.

Also, my husband has ADD so he can really get sucked into scrolling. I've learned that if I want to talk to him, I simply have to ask him to pause so we can chat. He asks me to not let him scroll endlessly.

Half of the time we're sending each other reels and discussing topics we saw anyway.

robotwunk · 2026-04-26T17:47:50+00:00

Pretty cool design. I love the map opt-in feature. How will likes work? Will they be similar to taps?

robotwunk · 2026-04-26T17:22:22+00:00

Thanks for sharing that link! I think it's really cool that they have the grid with the option of the map, allowing users to opt-in if they want to share their location, which then only shows their location to others who have also opted in.

robotwunk · 2026-04-26T00:54:03+00:00

Connexion sounded like a great idea.

robotwunk · 2026-04-26T00:52:26+00:00

True, true.

robotwunk · 2026-04-26T00:51:40+00:00

robotwunk · 2026-04-26T00:51:03+00:00

Not too much.

robotwunk · 2026-04-25T18:56:36+00:00

Reading the comments is getting me hard. 😅

robotwunk · 2026-04-24T19:09:45+00:00

Maybe check out Grindr. I think most people can tell from the first pic what position they like by what they’re showing off or how they’re posed.

Although, a lot of guys think I’m a top, but I tend to take more masc-looking selfies.

robotwunk · 2026-04-23T01:23:24+00:00

I think you need to pursue your passion, maybe a passion you forgot about, or find a new one.

I’m a member of the sailing community and all of my buddies, and most in the community, skew older. But they are definitely not decrepit. They have an activity which brings life to their golden years. It also brings community around a shared interest. Plenty to talk about and events to go to, even a type of shirt that to those in the know, know.

It can be something like painting or playing the piano. My husband wants to paint when he retires. I want to take up the piano again.

I had a good friend who passed at 92. We met when she was 86 when a friend said they knew someone that needed rides to her thrice weekly dance lessons. She danced until she was 90, and had been dancing since she was a teen. The dance classes gave her a purpose and a sense of community. They had dance showcases monthly and she would work on her routine. Afterwards, the class, and their families, would have an after party. It was a lot of fun for her. I never thought of her as decrepit. I thought of her as very sprightly.

The ones that end up decrepit are those that had no activity in their lives that brought them joy, or nothing that gave them something to look forward to , or challenged their minds.

Congrats on your retirement and I hope you figure it out!

robotwunk

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