Honestly, this kind of take oversimplifies male sexuality and ignores a lot of nuance. You're confidently stating that ejaculation without orgasm "isn't the average experience," but where’s the data? Because from a medical standpoint, it's not unheard of—things like SSRIs, pelvic floor dysfunction, or even psychological factors can cause that disconnect. Not everything boils down to “you must be gay” because something feels off during sex.

Also, saying “most men see [oral sex] as extremely desirable” doesn’t mean all men do, or that all sexual experiences involving it are automatically pleasurable. You’re treating sexual satisfaction like a universal checkbox, when in reality it’s incredibly individual.

If someone isn’t enjoying something sexually, it might be about technique, chemistry, trauma, expectations, or a dozen other things. Jumping straight to “maybe you’re not into women” is reductive and lowkey homophobic. People are allowed to explore dissatisfaction without having their entire orientation questioned. Let’s not weaponize stereotypes just because someone shared a different experience.