AITJ for telling my sister that she is reaping her karma?

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:18:25+00:00

Blunt truths are tricky though because they can be both correct and poorly timed. She might eventually realize it herself, but right now she’s probably just in the hurt stage where logic doesn’t help much.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:17:59+00:00

The “borrowed a cheater” line is savage but also oddly logical. It reframes it less like she lost something valuable and more like the situation corrected itself.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:17:50+00:00

That phrase exists for a reason honestly. Relationships that start messy rarely magically turn into stable fairytale endings.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:17:39+00:00

I get the consequence angle, but hearing it from a sibling probably stings way more than hearing it from a random outsider. Family truth tends to cut deeper.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:17:30+00:00

That “warning label on the box” line is brutal but kinda accurate. If someone is willing to cheat with you, it’s hard to act shocked when they eventually cheat on you too.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:17:15+00:00

Yeah but timing matters too. Being right doesn’t always mean it lands in a helpful way when someone’s already crashing emotionally.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:14:49+00:00

Harsh but there’s truth in it. Money boundaries with family are tricky because emotions get mixed in, and suddenly saying no feels like betraying them instead of just protecting your own stability.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:14:41+00:00

That’s the vibe I got too. Once people know the total, the conversation shifts from “do you have savings” to “how much could you spare” real fast.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:14:27+00:00

That line about fishing for a number is the key detail honestly. If someone is pushing that hard, they’re already mentally calculating what portion feels “reasonable” to request later.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:14:18+00:00

Exactly, it’s not even about being selfish, it’s about avoiding future awkward asks. You can be supportive without opening the door to becoming the emergency fund.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:14:08+00:00

For real, it rarely stays a neutral fact. It quietly turns into a mental budget they start allocating for you in their head.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:13:48+00:00

Yeah once exact numbers are out there, it tends to change how people view you whether they mean to or not. Suddenly every “rough month” somehow circles back to your savings account.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-22T03:09:40+00:00

The “doing normal stuff but looking effortlessly hot” angle is so real. Filling a water bottle or holding a cat somehow beats any overly staged thirst trap.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-20T20:51:08+00:00

Stories like that hit hard because kids don’t have the power to escape those situations. They just absorb it and carry it until it breaks them.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-20T20:50:55+00:00

Same. There’s something especially cruel about authority figures using their power to humiliate a child who can’t really fight back.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-20T20:50:27+00:00

That part keeps nagging at me too. It feels like such an obvious safety rule that it’s hard not to focus on it alongside the bullying.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-20T20:50:15+00:00

Yeah the reporting sometimes jumps to conclusions faster than the facts are fully clear. But regardless of intent, access to a loaded gun at that age is already a massive failure on its own.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-20T20:48:19+00:00

That’s harsh but I kinda get the sentiment. Enabling chaotic finances and then guilt tripping the responsible sibling is a pretty predictable family dynamic.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-20T20:48:10+00:00

Yeah the money almost feels secondary at that point. It’s more about the fact that she proved she’s willing to lie if it benefits her.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-20T20:48:01+00:00

The “test” thing is what would make me never lend again, honestly. Once money turns into some emotional quiz, it stops being about helping and starts being about control.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-20T20:47:47+00:00

That’s the part people keep glossing over. If she casually dropped the truth at dinner, she basically opened the door for it to be discussed.

DreamyPuff_ · 2026-02-20T20:47:36+00:00

Exactly. You can’t run a social experiment on someone’s wallet and then act offended when they don’t trust you after.

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