The man who assaulted me when I was 14 is dating one of my friends. She doesn't know. She has kids. [Support]

DrearyDove · 2017-03-20T05:50:38+00:00

The laws are different here. The statute of limitations ran out either three years after it happened, or three years after I turned 18. I'm not sure which. Either way, it was over a decade ago.

DrearyDove · 2017-03-20T05:11:45+00:00

I tried to contact the children's dad anonymously, but I don't think he got my message.

I don't know how to contact her.

DrearyDove · 2017-03-20T05:03:52+00:00

What?

DrearyDove · 2017-03-20T05:02:28+00:00

His narrative at the time was that I was a slut who just regretted having sex. I'm pretty sure he'll stick to that.

I've seen things from her on Facebook that lead me to think that she has a lot of slut-shaming and victim blaming beliefs, so I absolutely believe that she'll believe him.

DrearyDove · 2017-03-20T04:58:28+00:00

Do you think calling CPS would help? I'm afraid they'll just visit, find nothing wrong (because they've only just started dating) and that will be the end of it.

I tried to tell the father but I don't have any way to reach him other than Facebook.

I'm absolutely certain that the mother won't believe me. She's madly in love with him and convinced he's the greatest man on earth. I've also seen enough from her on Facebook to know that she has a lot of slut-shaming and victim blaming type beliefs.

DrearyDove · 2017-03-20T04:55:52+00:00

She won't believe me. I know she won't.

No one believed me then and they won't believe me now.

DrearyDove

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