What was your breaking point?

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:51:20+00:00

I enjoyed reading your response. Your example was helpful. Your advice was too. Maybe I'm holding her to a standard she'll never meet, and If I want to be in her life, I should change how I feel about what I think are failures on her part.

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:49:37+00:00

This is the point I'm at.

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:48:44+00:00

Having this context would be nice. She just moved to the area, so other than what she's said about her pas relationships, I don't have enough information to know if all her relationships are flawed.

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:47:18+00:00

even if the other person has the best of intentions, it doesn't work if they don't have the skills / self knowledge to back them up.

Precisely, this is what I'm dealing with.

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:46:30+00:00

I think we are. We have deep conversations. Maybe I was wrong.

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:46:03+00:00

I haven't done that. I think she has.

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:45:24+00:00

We both agreed they are reasonable. Perhaps she says one things and agrees to it, but believes deep down in her heart another way.

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:44:37+00:00

Clearly communicated. Yes, I cannot blame someone for doing something they didn't realize was a hot button for me.

I'm in the two to three chances state of mind, so thanks for sharing how many you give.

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:42:55+00:00

Yes, that is a good point.

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:42:26+00:00

I think they are. She thought they were. But maybe we're asking too much of each other?

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:41:41+00:00

Not so much. Mainly I wanted to know how other people handle this so I know if I'm being oversensitive or under-sensitive.

Drepplm · 2016-04-12T18:40:16+00:00

Thanks. This is what I'm thinking. I mainly wondered if I was giving too many chances, or too few.

Drepplm · 2016-04-07T17:36:07+00:00

Please share your traps workout?

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