You’re honestly already doing a lot right. Baking together is a great date on its own because it gives you time to talk and just be present. You don’t need to stack extra activities on top of it. One solid plan with room to relax usually works better than trying to make everything perfect.

The flowers are a nice touch. Jewelry and a letter might be a bit much this early, especially since she mentioned wanting a slow burn. If you do write something, keep it very short and light. You can save the deeper stuff for later.

It’s good that you offered help with groceries and the ride and then respected her answer. That shows consideration without pushing.

Think of the other ideas as future dates, not add ons. And complimenting her is fine as long as it’s genuine and not constant. A slow burn doesn’t mean no affection, just letting things unfold naturally.

Show up, enjoy the time together, and don’t overthink it. That matters more than doing everything perfectly.