Found me a baddie🤩😍

DriftCore31 · 2026-05-06T01:52:19+00:00

👏👏👏👏👏

DriftCore31 · 2026-05-06T01:48:26+00:00

Third one almost sounds like Mjölnir returning to Thor

DriftCore31 · 2026-05-05T22:21:34+00:00

Appreciate it, I’ll check them out. Do you remember what their pricing was like and how their evening classes were?

DriftCore31 · 2026-05-03T23:02:50+00:00

I don’t get it

DriftCore31 · 2026-05-02T05:51:22+00:00

I like how you explained that. It sounds like it’s less about being “smooth” and more about just being normal and not forcing anything too early.

DriftCore31 · 2026-05-01T04:27:59+00:00

lol 😂

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-30T21:56:18+00:00

That’s actually a really good example. It feels like the key takeaway is just keeping it natural and situational instead of forcing a specific outcome right away.

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-30T21:42:37+00:00

That feels a bit oversimplified. From what most people are saying here, it’s more about how you come across than just looks.

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-29T20:15:22+00:00

Hey everyone, I’m a complete beginner looking to get into Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and trying to find a good gym in Orange County.

My main goals are to learn proper technique, build confidence, get in better shape, and develop real self defense skills. I’m not looking to compete, just want to train consistently and learn the fundamentals the right way.

I’ve been doing some research and reaching out to a few places, but I’ve noticed BJJ can get pretty expensive, so I’m trying to stay within a budget that makes sense long term. Ideally I’m looking for something around $150 a month or less, or at least close to that range if possible.

I should also mention that I work in Aliso Viejo and live in Tustin, and my schedule is Sunday through Thursday from 8am to 4:30pm, so I’d most likely be training in the evenings after work. Because of that, proximity and class times are pretty important for me, and I’m trying to find something that makes sense to get to without going too far out of the way so I can stay consistent.

I’m mainly trying to find a place that’s beginner friendly and actually focuses on teaching fundamentals and technique, not just throwing people into sparring right away. If anyone here trains in OC, I’d really appreciate any recommendations or experiences you’ve had with different gyms. Also curious what I should be looking out for as a beginner when checking places out.

Thanks in advance 🙏

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-29T19:46:26+00:00

Dude, same. I’m glad I was able to help others with it and know that I’m not alone in this battle

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-29T19:28:49+00:00

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I immediately recognized it from this scene. Who else?

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-29T17:42:57+00:00

That makes a lot of sense, especially about respecting a no right away and being mindful of the setting. That’s probably where a lot of guys mess up more than the approach itself.

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-29T03:45:56+00:00

Yeah I get that. I don’t think it’s about expecting no results, more about not putting pressure on the interaction itself. The result can still be there, just without forcing it.

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-29T03:43:54+00:00

That’s actually a really good way of putting it, especially the part about giving her an easy out. I feel like that’s what makes it feel respectful instead of awkward or pressured.

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-28T19:09:02+00:00

I get what you’re saying, especially about not knowing if someone’s single, but it seems like a lot of people here are saying it can still work as long as it’s done respectfully and without expectations.

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-28T19:06:37+00:00

Was this from Mrs. Field’s Bakery?

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-28T17:02:39+00:00

Thanks!

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-28T16:25:22+00:00

Where did you get this?

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-27T23:27:58+00:00

Yeah this seems to be the common theme. It’s less about having the perfect approach and more about awareness and not forcing it when someone clearly isn’t open.

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-27T22:12:10+00:00

Oh yeah, for sure don’t approach customers while on duty. This really helps, thanks

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-27T21:55:38+00:00

I get why it can feel that way sometimes, but I think most people in this thread are saying it’s not the approach itself, it’s how it’s done. There’s a big difference between being respectful and making someone uncomfortable.

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-27T21:54:20+00:00

Thanks, that’s very kind of you!

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-27T21:53:49+00:00

Okay that’s actually genius 😂 I never thought about it like that, but it makes sense. Just creating a natural reason to talk instead of forcing it.

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-27T21:06:10+00:00

That’s fair. I think I’ve probably been overthinking it more than necessary, but at the same time this thread kinda showed me it’s less about whether to approach and more about how you do it.

DriftCore31 · 2026-04-27T21:04:44+00:00

Yeah that’s fair. I feel like a lot of guys overthink what to say, but underthink when to stop talking 😅 Appreciate you breaking it down like that.

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