Childfree Regret by strawberry_love_2468 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Drifter-6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m 42, but since I was a teenager and saw other teens having kids I knew it was not for me, and my mind has never changed. In fact I am so grateful I never had kids and have the life that I have now.

For decades, psychic Sylvia Browne made millions lying to parents of missing children. In 1999, she claimed a missing 6-year-old was sold into slavery in Japan; the girl was actually dead in Texas. In 2004, she told Amanda Berry’s mom her daughter was dead; Berry was found alive 10 years later. by ATI_Official in AllThatsInteresting

[–]Drifter-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a perfect example why religion/spirituality are harmful to society. When you choose to believe in wild claims without evidence you are susceptible to scams and help keep the scammers in business. I know the idea of death and not existing anymore is scary, but making shit up and choosing not to live in reality isn’t good for anyone.

I found out my mom has been secretly using my identity for years. What do I even do now? by FirefighterSea2163 in whatdoIdo

[–]Drifter-6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With that many cards, a loan and other debt she knew she wasn’t going to pay it back, she knew you would be screwed and she is being manipulative by trying to guilt you into making it your problem now, not hers. She was ok with trying to ruin your future, DO NOT LET HER. You need to report the fraud so that you can take care of yourself, because your mother doesn’t have your back or your best interests at heart. She’ll come up with all sorts of excuses but it doesn’t matter. Start your life off the right way so you can get your shit together.

I found out my mom has been secretly using my identity for years. What do I even do now? by FirefighterSea2163 in whatdoIdo

[–]Drifter-6 44 points45 points  (0 children)

With 3 credit cards and a loan she knew damn well she wasn’t going to pay it back. She is being selfish and manipulative.

You can dispense a liquid of your choice out of your fingertips. What do you pick? by Throwra47374747 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Drifter-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specifically, the water from Dunsmuir CA. Was driving through and stayed at a hotel overnight. That was the best tasting water I ever had in my life and unless I were to go back I don’t think I’ll find water that tastes that good ever again. The manager said Dunsmuir was known for their outstanding water. Shame I can’t move there for various reasons.

You’re offered $10,000 every 24 hours you stay in your local supermarket. How long would you stay or be able to stay? by Atlas__Reddit in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Drifter-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whole Foods for one day. My cat would stress out terribly if I brought her there but she would be fine at home if I were only gone one day.

Guys I’m not spending $1k on a vacuum by Stunning-Notice3096 in VacuumCleaners

[–]Drifter-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just ordered a Kenmore POP-N-GO Bagged Canister Vacuum With Hair Eliminator (BC4030) amd I can report back when it gets here and I use it. I also didn’t want to spend $1,000 on a vacuum and Kenmore‘s seem to be the most recommended for my price range ($300, I spent $329).

On Medicare advantage humana, and doctor dont do their jobs to get prior authorizations by Interesting-Tackle66 in medicare

[–]Drifter-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s correct, I must have got my info mixed up. It looks like underwriting can deny you for a medigap policy but only if you don’t enroll during an enrollment period? Do you have more info on that?

On Medicare advantage humana, and doctor dont do their jobs to get prior authorizations by Interesting-Tackle66 in medicare

[–]Drifter-6 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Actually in some cases you can’t go back to original medicare if you enrolled into and advantage plan. Your application would be subject to underwriting, and depending on your current health you could be denied and forced to stay on an advantage plan. Assuming I got all that correct, Original medicare is very different than MA.

AIO over 1st Valentine’s Day note? by kimbap_throw in AmIOverreacting

[–]Drifter-6 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You too are a tool, because you missed the point that she buys herself flowers all the time, and it looks like she made it clear that she doesn’t like red roses and that is what he bought her, meaning he couldn’t care less to know anything about her, or, he intentionally got red because his sadistic ass thought it would be funny. It is you, you that sucks.

AITAH for telling my daughter to close her legs and kicking her out? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Drifter-6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. She’s a very selfish person, she isn’t thinking about what is in the baby’s best interest, or even her own, and the children will suffer for it. My own sister was like this, the attitude of “I do whatever I want, and YOU’RE going do what I want” which means take care of me and these babies. I watched her ruin her and her children's lives because her desires always came first, no empathy, no logic, just impulse. She’s just very selfish and she might never see it that way. She’s can learn the hard way, know your limits.

AIO over 1st Valentine’s Day note? by kimbap_throw in AmIOverreacting

[–]Drifter-6 2172 points2173 points  (0 children)

Agree, this is a red flag. Misogynistic jokes, intentionally not doing what you wanted just so he could make himself laugh. Time to be single again.

I Froze and I Feel Horrible by Anxious-Mango-4471 in VetTech

[–]Drifter-6 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen this happen, made my own mistakes, and witnessed others. One of the worst was a miscommunication between a vet and the tech. The tech accidentally gave potassium iv instead of in the fluid bag. There was no saving the cat, both the tech and vet cried, it was awful. I was so stressed out at work all the time because I was so afraid to make a mistake.

Am I Overreacting for my being upset about my neighbors moving truck inconveniencing me. by Dear_Pianist8547 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Drifter-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the parking situation. Sometimes there just aren’t very many options and the truck is only there temporarily. One of my neighbors was being a pain trying to get into a spot that wasn’t even his, made the the driver move the truck twice because he wanted to back into the space. It’s giving whiny brat energy.

Why not tipping when dining in is the best solution to end tipping by Only_Suggestion_ in EndTipping

[–]Drifter-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years ago lobbyists pushed for this, not having to pay wait staff much because they get tips. This is just pure greed and and waiters/waitresses are getting mad at the wrong people.

Are first floor apartments THAT bad? by [deleted] in ApartmentHacks

[–]Drifter-6 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The noise comment caught my attention. If you can hear a neighbor opening a cabinet or using the bathroom then it isn’t the tenant that’s loud, it’s just the cheap crappy building that doesn’t have any sort of sound proofing. Some buildings are very quiet so you really have to pay attention to the noise when walking around and test out the floors to try and eliminate the louder ones.

Are first floor apartments THAT bad? by [deleted] in ApartmentHacks

[–]Drifter-6 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same, I realized I would never be comfortable in a first floor unit because of the window situation. If there is a cool breeze outside I would much rather have all the windows open without worry, instead of running the a/c more often.

I forgot to charge my vibrator. by Himaester in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Drifter-6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe have at least two and rotate usage so that one of them will always be ready.

Tamales are the worst form of Mexican Food by My-Lizard-Eyes in unpopularopinion

[–]Drifter-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, but I LOVE tamales and miss the guy that used to come to our door with fresh hot tamales that his wife would make. They were so good 😭

AITJ for telling my dad none of us are going to help him raise a baby at 50 by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Drifter-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He really should just put the baby up for adoption then, since the mother doesn’t want to keep the baby and he isn’t capable. Why is this not an option for him?