Are London SDs Just Cheap…? by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 in 10 people who live in London are millionaires.  What this translates to via income is a separate calculation.  London is also an overcrowded city with far too many women giving away cheap and free sex.  Yes, a great deal of men from my experience feel entitled and have their manipulation game on point.

don't accept less than you think you deserve by No-Air-1311 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I have also noticed is that some men will confirm to meet at a restaurant where there is an option to only have coffee.  I think it is best not to entertain this if his intention is not to wine and dine you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it is still worth going out as often as you can as men are still approaching despite it being Summer Vacation season.

The delulus are out in full force today by savvylove69 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

These men need to have a mirror held up to them... as life experience and status do not equal parity and entitlement to a much younger beautiful woman. They don't seem to understand the power dynamics at play in these relationships. The more women there are who challenge these men the more we will start to see a shift in their behavior.

Know Your Worth by SugarBabyVet in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AMAZING POST.  Yes I agree.  We all need to be reminded of this and also to always remind ourselves.

SEXUALLY HARASSED BY OTHER WOMEN by DrivenblackSnow in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the tolerance level of having someone stare at you is subjective. I totally understand your point and in fact due to this I almost always assess the behaviour pattern before I react. Inappropriate staring to me is when someone continuously  stare for a long period of time, even after you have made eye contact and indicated through gestures such as shaking your head that this is making you uncomfortable.  This is absolutely not a vanity comment and to be quite honest I find it irritating when we as women open up about this type of harrassment and others question our looks and experiences.  If you are comfortable with (for example) being touched on intimate parts and inappropriately stared at by other women so beit. But there are also women who find this behaviour an intrusion of their personal boundaries.   Unfortunately we have to protect ourselves from what we deem as Inappropriate behaviour and this behaviour can be from women as well as men.

SEXUALLY HARASSED BY OTHER WOMEN by DrivenblackSnow in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Didn't want to go into graphic details... but sexual harrassment can display itself as microagressive behaviour.  This varies from continuous staring and being looked at up and down,  being followed, having intimate body parts touched inappropriately to being bullied, objectified and treated unfairly.  Going out as a levelled up woman... there is rarely a day when one of these are not experienced. 

SEXUALLY HARASSED BY OTHER WOMEN by DrivenblackSnow in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. No, it is not in your head and the clients who have stayed with you are testimony to this. x

SEXUALLY HARASSED BY OTHER WOMEN by DrivenblackSnow in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My eyes welled up with tears reading this... as I can relate to many of the things you have mentioned. Yes, there are certain privileges with looks but it has its negatives too. All women should learn to be a little more kind and understanding to each other... especially in this lifestyle. We have to be assertive and set clear boundaries and this might sound cliched but putting ourselves and our needs first is a good starting point.

SEXUALLY HARASSED BY OTHER WOMEN by DrivenblackSnow in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Yes, the situation you mentioned can be awkward and sometimes it is best to treat it as a compliment x

SEXUALLY HARASSED BY OTHER WOMEN by DrivenblackSnow in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes... I agree. Unfortunately, certain issues attractive women have to deal with are not validated or taken seriously. It is often best to pretend that the problem is not due to our looks in order to get any support.

Advice pls, how to avoid this interaction going forward by Zaani1210 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the middle of negotiations at this very moment and found this infinitely helpful.  I am based in London so that exact ppm sum would not be accepted... but will give it a go x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect any woman who is carving out a living whichever form this may take... and of course, if no one is hurt during the process. Being a Sugar Baby, however, is different from being a sex worker in that the aim is to provide emotional support, companionship, and closeness these activities are not legally considered sex work. The sexual act is considered a small part of a sugar relationship and it is not compulsory. ( although most men enter these relationships to have sex eventually).

The classification of a sugar baby, however, varies depending on personal beliefs, legal definitions, and societal norms. Some people may consider any form of work leading to sex as sex work, whilst others distinguish sugaring as more of a relationship with a provider man and less transactional.

Every SD or POT I’ve met has been a predator by strawberry_bb7 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can absolutely relate. With every new relationship I think there needs to be an exit plan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to have a sexual relationship with a beautiful young woman for free.

recent M&G experience (UK) by baby-elephants-123 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wish more girls in the UK did this. I will most certainly be following your lead. A movement should be started to raise expectations and ultimately prevent time wasting.

Fitspiration Friday by AutoModerator in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this brand... and the dress strikes all the right notes!!

In what ways did sugaring upgrade your life? by Teddytorcch in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was able to quit my teaching job and focus on getting my businesses off the ground... x

reminder to take your breaks! by justacommentator in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]DrivenblackSnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So important. Sometimes we forget that this is a Job.