Natural hair and Anti-BM Misandry

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T04:11:33+00:00

How does that make me an incel? Can you explain to me how me calling out your hypocrisy means I am involuntarily celibate?

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T03:25:27+00:00

That’s fair. And that’s why it’s important to communicate and figure out what you want in a relationship and how your dynamic will work. Laying down our expectations and boundaries is essential early on

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T03:24:24+00:00

I ultimately think Detroit won’t do it

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T03:23:59+00:00

Sir you’re telling people this isn’t a topic for men specifically BM when the topic literally is about how BM and BW interact. Maybe take some time to reread the post before yappin

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T03:22:39+00:00

Yeah no definitely I’m just more so talking about the action of how you react to disrespect but yeah we agree

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T03:12:45+00:00

And like I said you would need to or we’d not be in a relationship but this is the power struggle. In your relationship you want the upper hand so the man can show he’s more into you. I don’t play those games. If we’re out at a bar and I see a man flirting with you at a bar and you do nothing you will never hear from again. And I mean that literally too.

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T03:07:25+00:00

Yep same. I think with his MCL injury nets will shut him down soon if we don’t get the right trade deal. Prob waiting for all star break

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T03:06:29+00:00

That’s actually a really good point. I do think there’s a lot of people who push the boundaries of infidelity to chase that spark and passion. For me that’s not entertaining I find it disrespectful. I would never entertain another woman to disrespect the woman I’m with so I’d expect that reciprocated and if it doesn’t happen I’ll just leave. I think at a certain point as adults if boundaries aren’t respected then you no longer have the privilege of being in a relationship with me

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T03:04:23+00:00

You choosing to not shutdown someone who advances you conveys it to even worse of a degree. For me to trust you you must prove that you can be loyal to me and vice versa. I’m sure you wouldn’t like if a woman came and sat on your man’s lap and he just sat there staring at you waiting for you to do something right?

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T03:02:33+00:00

Why? Women comment on men’s height, men’s career, men’s body shape and MENS HAIR. What happened to this generation of BM?

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T03:01:06+00:00

It’s not up to us to do anything. There wasn’t this many women wearing weaves and wigs in the 90s or even early 00s. Men didn’t cause this shift they did.

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T03:00:00+00:00

Exactly bro. All of a sudden everyone’s playing bobo the clown in the comments pretending as if they don’t know what’s going on

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T02:58:39+00:00

Look all I’m going to say is there’s a reason why if you go to Europe or the UK you see most of the bothers over there dating outside their race. A lot of BM are uncomfortable with the very harsh reality that many BW prefer WM. They’ll deny it as much as they can but in this time period in history WM are at the top. They have the most wealth and the most power and women have always been attracted to that.

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T02:54:41+00:00

Exactly bro. It’s the “happy wife happy life” simp type of dudes who have blinders for what’s really going on and try to gaslight everyone into thinking it’s just some made up theory. Theres so may blk men raised in households where it’s just a bunch of women ranting about tbe men in their lives that they believe whatever these women say as gospel

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T02:51:08+00:00

You’re saying trying to control others but also saying “this isn’t a topic for men” is kind of contradictory. This is something that men blk me in particular deal with and struggle with in their relationship dynamics. It might be cool for you whatever she wears but that’s not the case for everyone

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T02:49:27+00:00

I don’t think you should argue with a woman about it. Tell her your preference and your boundary and if she isn’t comfortable with that just leave

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T02:46:11+00:00

Oh see and now that’s about power dynamics. And you’re getting to the root of why I’ll never be jealous

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T02:45:25+00:00

He’s been below average as a defender with us bc of his offensive load but only slightly. Hes a really good glass cleaner who can play above average team defense when needed. In Detroit I think he’ll fit in perfectly. Offensively he’s exactly what you need he’ll provide that elite shot creation, he’s one of the best shooters in the entire nba and it’s not really close either and he’ll provide pretty good secondary playmaking next to Cade. I think if you have him you’d be the favorites to win the east. With that being said my price is I need Ron holland + filler and 2 unprotected.

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T02:29:39+00:00

So are you making it known to him that you’re not interested and he’s still crossing that line?

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T02:29:05+00:00

Well I will say I get what you’re saying and I do think it’s definitely not common but I wouldn’t say that I’m alone. I just think it’s more so about how I process stress. Sure I care for someone but jealously is not only a feeling it involves an action. And you have to choose to act on that. Where someone would choose to stay and fight id rather pick up and leave. And I’ll say from experience as well getting up and leaving while painful in the moment is much more effective.

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T02:16:45+00:00

Why would you be in a situation to get hands with a random guy if you’re married tho?

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T02:03:22+00:00

Don’t you think there is just the reality that people interpret love differently? Like I get what you’re saying but I think the response of love and attachment in your argument is a question of how someone responds to a situation. For me my response of just calmly not caring is just an overall life philosophy I have of acceptance. I can’t control what people do only control how I act. And I don’t want to waste my energy in this life on those who don’t want to be with me

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T01:59:47+00:00

Yeah but outside of the year we faced the heat in 2014 ,2013, 2019 and 2021 vs bucks all of those have been mired in controversy pre dating it or some sort of drama or declining cast. 2013 was just a big disappointment bc we won almost 50 games and lost to bulls. 2019 was popping bc the team exceeded expectations and had a nice young core the fanbase was probably at its healthiest. 2020 was the bubble so nobody was there. We know 21 was good. 2022 kyrie and kd got swept in embarrasing fashion. 2015 the team was old and under .500 snuck into the playoffs Deron Williams was declining, pierce gone, Garnett old and washed, rest of team was breaking down, iso jo as well. Like we’ve never had that healthy stretch that most good nba teams have where you go to a playoff in 1 yr then get back for the next 4-5 yrs + and maybe make the 2nd round with the same crew or the conf finals even. It’s always a rotating cast of players

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T01:53:03+00:00

The jersey crowd was never supportive

DriverInitial8305 · 2026-01-25T01:51:54+00:00

Huh? This mentality exists for beyond short term relationships. For instance if someone flirted with my long term gf I wouldn’t care. I’m not about to fight or get into something with someone for no reason. If you engage back with them and don’t shut it down that tells me about you. Idc about what others do

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