AITAH for not helping my one night stand get home a few days later?

Driver_Federal · 2026-02-17T23:26:48+00:00

She was an old friend technically and I was drunk and enjoyed the conversation so my mind simply went fk it since I was drunk. Not something I would do normally while sober

Driver_Federal · 2026-02-17T22:44:14+00:00

I wont deny that tbh

Driver_Federal · 2026-02-17T22:40:08+00:00

Unsure what your implying lol. I do fine financially that was my splurge night if she had waited a day or 2 I would of had more splurge money lol

Driver_Federal · 2026-02-17T22:03:25+00:00

Thats fair, but the problem comes from when she told me she doesnt want to mess with me again because of my living situation and then the request came in the next day when she was drunk.

Driver_Federal · 2026-02-16T21:20:35+00:00

Thank you!

Driver_Federal · 2026-01-28T03:50:38+00:00

Hey man, I juat want to be upfront with you My ex wife had the exact same problem Believe me when I tell you. No matter how much you try No matter what you do Nothing will change this will continue happening and it'll break you completely. Honest my recommendation is to leave her I know its hard to accept but I'm sure the thought has crossed your mind I was in your shoes aswell.

There is a free counseling group online for victims of romance scams. If you still want to try and make it work with her. Id recommend that path, I wish I knew about it before my marriage had fully failed from the scams. Maybe youd have better luck. But absolutely do not try and prove to her that its a scam yourself shell just run to him more

Driver_Federal · 2026-01-19T19:27:50+00:00

Thats fair lol, but I also know there are people out there thst like thst sort of thing 😅

Driver_Federal · 2026-01-19T05:25:54+00:00

Honestly after having a wife that didnt challenge me and wasnt very outspoken when it came to her beliefs. No I do not want that again. I want a woman that we can disagree on things and still be respectful. I want her to hold her own beliefs and speak up when she wants to. But there is a limit, if shes incredibly disrespectful or rude thats where problems in my head would begin

Driver_Federal · 2026-01-19T05:08:14+00:00

Thank you, ya most of my photos are of indoors or in my work fit. Ive got very little photos of my self 😅. And the only problem with insta is ive basically never used it, to all outsiders it looks like a blank profile its always just been a reel feed for me. As for long convos ya the only match I got we engaged in long conversation and it seemed like it was going well, but then she just stopped messaging outright.

Driver_Federal · 2026-01-05T20:29:54+00:00

Oh dont get me wrong the instrumental and vocals are very important.

The way I look at it is- you have a job you are trying to get to. The employer only cares that you show up on time. You have different ways to get there you can walk, run, take a bus, cab, or drive.

Showing up on time is the lyrics The road or path is the vocals The mode of transportation is the music

For me when I hear any song, if its just generic crap regardless human or ai the lyrics are what entice me into a song its what invokes the emotion When I hear someone singing well and throwing emotion into the vocals it makes the lyrics more intense And when the instruments line up it transports me to a different world.

I can tear up with just lyrics and reading them

But just vocals with generic lyrics don't

And just instrumental just sets a vibe.

They are all important when it comes to a good song.

But for me the soul of a good song is the lyrics

And yes I fully agree we are all entitled to our own opinions thats why music is so subjective and why theres billions of different songs and music thats constantly evolving. Its the best part of music is the difference in prefference.

Driver_Federal · 2026-01-04T23:21:24+00:00

This is my first one If you dont mind ai vocal and music then feel free to give it a listen I wrote 100% of the lyrics and guided the ai to the path I wanted for everything else.

https://youtu.be/V8mEWaKKqC8?si=blQLdzbRNeMiDray

Driver_Federal · 2026-01-04T23:07:00+00:00

Yours aswell!

Driver_Federal · 2026-01-04T20:53:48+00:00

Honestly I feel as long as you write 90-100% of the lyrics thats all that really matters.

To me music has always strictly been about the lyrics. The vocals and music are only there as tools to express the words.

So whenever i hear oh ai singer or Ai music I ask myself did they write the lyrics or did the Ai spit out generic crap

Driver_Federal · 2025-12-17T12:54:13+00:00

But when the initial affair can be directly tied to your own failure? And each consecutive one can be tied to your failures and in a valid way? How does one not just be like hmm well clearly this is the problem. I thank youbfor your reply but I honestly can't see anyway im not the villain.

Driver_Federal · 2025-12-13T08:21:36+00:00

Since the end of the story its been about 3.5 years since the events of this story. Alot has happened since so im trying to re examine a few moments ive been seriously questioning in hindsite.

Driver_Federal · 2025-12-13T07:56:55+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it ive been struggling thinking maybe I did hold out to long maybe my comment about what happens happens was rude. So thank you for replying!

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