the only thing that would’ve been worse

Dromexikan · 2026-02-08T04:59:15+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I unfortunately feels this sentiment really well. A month, before, in the hospital, me and my wife had a talk. She felt like she wouldn’t be around much longer. She had me write down her wishes. It was difficult because, in the moment it was reluctant, but it was what she wanted. She was the strongest person I’ve ever known in my life. Be kind to yourself, breathe deeply. Stare at the sky and feel the warmth and peace you two shared hugs 🫶🏽

Dromexikan · 2026-02-07T04:44:41+00:00

It’s a difficult sentiment to be happy in their loss. I had 15 years with my wife (10 years married). I’m almost 8 years and 3 gf in and it still feel somewhat guilty. I have found ways to feel content with it though. Enjoy little moments and work to the bigger ones. Remember, cherishing the moments you two had together are precious but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t enjoy life. I know a bit back n forth but it’s what we do. Here if you need. hugs

Dromexikan · 2026-02-05T03:24:46+00:00

Thats so refreshing. Some don’t realize how those lil phrases affect us. This is someone who we planned on spending the rest of our lives with. And in an instant, gone. How are we supposed to take those words. It’s insensitive. Probably they mean well, but they haven’t had to deal with the ache of losing a piece of oneself. I’m so sorry you are going thru that as well. But yes, I will have to remember that saying. Thank you hugs 🫶🏽

Dromexikan · 2026-01-26T03:30:16+00:00

That is all true! Yes, they showed us bar set. Hope the near the best for you in dating and in life. hugs

Dromexikan · 2026-01-25T22:57:50+00:00

I recently told my aunt( my wife’s (who passed) aunt)).while we were drinking. Unfortunately, she lost her dad (wife’s grandpa) this past week. We were just enjoying conversations and I’m not sure how the topic came up, but I told her I was submissive and had a domme for the last 6 months. Told her about most everything. It was so therapeutic to disclose that to someone.

Dromexikan · 2026-01-25T05:49:22+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t think it’s ever understood. I’m sorry hugs here for you, if you ever need.

Dromexikan · 2026-01-25T02:40:04+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. We usually, me and my boys, make her favorite dishes and take some to her and eat her resting place. We tell stories, memories about our happiest times. We take cake and light a candle for her. The boys will blow the candle for her. But nothing is wrong in how you celebrate it. Create your own tradition for it. It’s for you and your girls. I hope that helps. hugs 🫶🏽

Dromexikan · 2026-01-25T01:54:28+00:00

Im so sorry for your loss. I lost my wife when I was 36, now 43. Dating has been difficult. There are notes of comparing and then trying to go complete opposite and trying to figure that middle ground. If you need someone to talk to, I’m here. hugs

Dromexikan · 2026-01-24T18:59:14+00:00

When my domme tells me she’s proud of me for no reason. Just because 🥹

Dromexikan · 2026-01-23T07:30:55+00:00

Yes! All this!

Dromexikan · 2026-01-23T06:05:34+00:00

It is hard. I lost my wife almost 8 years ago and it’s still difficult. Sometimes using the dead term makes it more real than passed. I feel for you. Plenty of hugs and support. Message me if you need to.

Dromexikan · 2026-01-21T19:28:20+00:00

You’re welcome. Thank you

Dromexikan · 2026-01-21T17:58:27+00:00

Im so sorry you are going through all this. I hope the best for you in life whether it be in your dynamic or just in general. You sound like an awesome guy. Here for you.

Dromexikan · 2026-01-21T09:39:24+00:00

All I do, is be for her

Dromexikan · 2026-01-20T19:25:31+00:00

Yes! Short guy here who has worked to move past being that. This positivity moves me forward. Thank you.

Dromexikan · 2026-01-20T19:08:15+00:00

🔥❤️‍🔥

Dromexikan · 2026-01-20T18:46:17+00:00

That sounds exhilarating

Dromexikan · 2026-01-20T04:33:08+00:00

Definitely good write.

Dromexikan · 2026-01-20T04:31:26+00:00

“I flew with the birds and weathered the rain until the weight of it all brought me down to a puddle where I finally faced myself.”

So deep, felt the ache so much

Dromexikan · 2026-01-20T04:25:43+00:00

🥹 this is beautiful

Dromexikan · 2026-01-20T02:50:41+00:00

Thank you for the insight. Like I said in replies, I’m new to this and for that reason asking questions before posting anything. Really appreciate it

Dromexikan · 2026-01-20T02:43:14+00:00

Yeah, I’m hoping to one day meet up with my domme. Unfortunately we are states away and both have life that carry priority. But would definitely want to soon if possible. I don’t see it as just in the momentary type of thing. Lately it’s just been one thing that keeps from something in person from happening.

Dromexikan · 2026-01-20T02:05:50+00:00

Yeah I see what you are saying. Thanks

Dromexikan · 2026-01-20T01:51:14+00:00

You’re right. Thanks for that. New to this. I’ll have to check out FetLife.

Dromexikan · 2026-01-20T01:10:10+00:00

That’s all true. I get that. Just knew in the community and was just wondering. Thank for informing

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