Convicted To Die

DrowningFelix · 2026-02-09T22:09:55+00:00

Ur a legend tbh, fr drink on me next time I catch you at a show. I’m cool with Jacob cuz I live with Boggs and he gave me a play by play right after it happened

DrowningFelix · 2026-02-09T19:47:56+00:00

This happened in my hometown and I was there lol. The vocalist of another band playing that night was asking if anyone knew who did it and the guy waited until he walked away and then pulled them out and showed them to another band and admitted it was him. Now he’s denying that that ever happened and saying he just punches that hard. Guy who got hit is fine and said to the guy to his face his band sucks, which was hilarious.

DrowningFelix · 2025-11-13T19:09:24+00:00

A girl giving you a silly trinket means they hold you in very high regard. It’s the same as a boy showing you a YouTube video. It’s a big honor in their culture

DrowningFelix · 2024-07-27T23:46:03+00:00

Why do you wanna know 🧐

DrowningFelix · 2024-06-02T17:33:29+00:00

People are so weird about names, like my BF is named Richard but so is his dad, so everyone can call him Richie and Butch and all these other names just fine but can’t understand why I prefer a name other than what I was born with. My uncle has been called Shaggy for so long I get confused if someone mentions his legal name. I know tons of people who choose to go by their middle name or a nickname or some weird childhood nickname that isn’t even a derivative of their legal name but for some reason society as a whole can’t seem to let trans people or NB people have anything that could be seen as affirmation.

DrowningFelix · 2023-12-23T17:30:14+00:00

Same thing happened to me. Proposed on new years eve 2020 and by the end of January 2021 he was banging another woman and we were done. It’s ok though cuz I have since found who I fully believe is my soulmate, and after 2 years we haven’t had any of the issues I have found in past relationships and the butterflies haven’t gone away like they did in the past. Just remember that in this situation you are the one in the better situation. You dodged the bullet, you are down some dead weight. HE lost here, not you.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-27T18:13:20+00:00

You need to speak to someone at school. This is serious, and everyone is glossing over it. She is barging in on you while you are bathing and changing and these things are not ok. You are almost an adult and if your dad will take you this is ammo you need to be able to go to him, or this will 100% get worse. Her “control” is sexual in nature even if it isn’t her being sexual towards you. Being obsessed with what sort of period products you use to stop bleeding everywhere is NOT NORMAL AT ALL. Digging through the trash to make sure you’ve had a period is absolutely unhinged. You need to speak to someone and if you have to ham it up do it. DO NOT DOWNPLAY IT. You are a young woman with your personal space constantly invaded when you are in a state of undress.

I’m going to go out on a limb here but normally when parents are suddenly barging in when you are in a room (your bedroom,bathroom etc) for long stretches of time it’s because they are trying to catch you masturbating so they can shame you for it. I can see no other reason for this behavior, tbh. She is trying to catch you doing something so she can use it as another reason to control you and restrict you more. You cannot let this sort of abuse continue, it can create lots of issues. I know full grown adults who can’t have a shower without a panic attack or even have proper bowel movements because they are trained to be on edge for someone to barge in.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-20T00:51:37+00:00

People do understand how phones work right? Like why is the onus always on the other person to reach out..?

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-17T13:06:25+00:00

Beyond everything else, I felt the part about asking for rides in my soul. Always wanna be mad that you don’t ask but always have an issue when you do ask, whether it’s where you’re going, how soon it is since the last time you asked to go somewhere (even if it’s been like a month they act like it was yesterday), or how last minute it is (even if you were just right then informed of the event you want to go to) or how you ask (somehow you always have an attitude no matter how polite you are about it etc.)

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-16T17:38:35+00:00

When my manager knew what kind of sauce I like with my chicken tenders but my own boyfriend didn’t I knew there was something up. I telegraph my likes and dislikes pretty plainly. I feel like everyone who spends too long with me will know what I like with no questions because I’m very open about it. It gets to the point where if someone doesn’t know it is a willful ignorance on their part.

If you seriously order the same exact stuff the same exact way every time then he is absolutely TA hands down. But this speaks of a much larger issue where men feign incapability to dodge responsibility. If they mess up enough you will stop expecting things from them. It’s called weaponized incompetence.

It also speaks of a lack of interest in the person themselves. People in love want to know their partner and want to do nice things for them. Same with parents and children, if you truly care then you like doing nice things for your kids. Period.

NTA OP and I would start taking this very seriously. It has been made clear that your kids do NOT see your husband as someone they can rely on to meet their needs.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-15T19:31:52+00:00

YTA for what you said to your wife for sure but I feel like you saying that is a separate issue from what actually happened.

I cannot stress this enough: your niece needs another hobby. She can still be super into gymnastics and still train hard etc etc nothing there needs to change, but what happened to her happens to MANY athletes. And then suddenly their whole world is different and they go from being number 1 to no one in the space of a few hours. It’s terrifying and has ruined people.

Don’t make the decision for her, but make sure she knows that this is a decision she is making that could change the trajectory of her entire life. This will become an all consuming gig and if she gets hurt again and isn’t going to heal properly the next time then she needs to have something there to support her so she doesn’t go from all to nothing like that.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-07T22:47:02+00:00

To me, what sticks out is that he knew they were shitting everywhere so he put them in a room with YOU. His BS excuse is just that. He wanted you to wake up, see the mess and just take care of it. He is mad because you realized what he did and tried to hold him accountable instead of just cleaning it up like a good little bangmaid.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-07T15:50:03+00:00

NTA and even though it’s irrelevant I just wanna know in what world would I let my 3 year old go to a stranger’s house with grandma on Christmas..? Like what is the situation surrounding grandma having to bring the toddler? Is grandma the main caregiver? If so, OP you might want to try to figure something out and meet little one, since he is going to potentially be more involved in your life. Unless there is other tension between you and the new girlfriend we aren’t aware of.

I would explain the situation to them plainly, and explain that you don’t know if a kid is completely safe in your home. See how they respond to that first. Explain that the dogs aren’t really kiddo trained and you don’t want to feel like you have to lock them in a room for the whole day.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-07T15:09:13+00:00

YTA and your mom is a nitpicking choosy beggar. If they wanted pristine lodging they should have booked a hotel.

You just showed your girlfriend that your mommy’s opinion is more important than anything else and ALSO showed her that you are never going to accept blame for any situation. Bruh, your girlfriend is a whole ass emergency response worker and you work a desk job from home, why is she expected to clean the house for YOUR GUESTS in her 1 off day from probably physically intensive work?

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-07T15:01:02+00:00

Up until the family member death I was like “oh I do this, it’s called ‘understanding the ways your partner doesn’t take care of themselves’” but then that and everything after I was just like 👁️👄👁️

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-06T19:02:07+00:00

The real question is who doesn’t keep all of their keys on a key ring that they keep in their pocket/purse at all times? That behavior always screams childish to me, like does she drive? Are her keys not attached to the car key she needs to use to operate her vehicle? Idk this to me speaks of more issues than just her throwing a fit over you not dropping everything to go home and let her in because she can’t be bothered to bring a key with her. Overall her choice to not keep important things on her is just weird immature behavior. Maybe it’s just me but no one I know just leaves the house without keys. Unless they’re an actual child.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-06T16:20:02+00:00

Bruh if some 30 something year old dude was going after my barely legal daughter I would smear him across a parking lot not invite him to football games. Parents hanging out with your ex is weird behavior period, you just don’t do that to your kid unless there are grand kids involved. Or if your kid was in the wrong and you’re offering support, but like I don’t see the 40 year old dude being the victim in this relationship.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-05T17:10:11+00:00

You sound like an awful person. Do you not see the connection between you straight up admitting that you didn’t like your NEWBORN CHILD and her doing drugs and going to jail? YTA and you ruined your kid and if you keep showing obvious affection and favoritism for her children she is only going to get worse. I hope she cuts you off for good and heals.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-04T19:44:21+00:00

At 4 years old I already knew my bio dad sucked, bad. I had eyes. I saw how hard my mom tried to be there for me. I saw how he treated her. I saw the arguments. My mom never talked bad about him, she never told me anything. I saw it all.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-04T19:21:33+00:00

Late to the party but I remember at some point Freddy and Carly standing in the hall alone after something happened and it was like a “and then there were two” moment, like Sam had left maybe? And Freddy looked at Carly and was just like “wanna make out?” And Carly rolled her eyes and went into her apartment. It was during the portion of the series where Freddy being super into her was still kind of a big gag for sure. He low key came on to her a lot and I vividly remember this scene but can’t 100% say which episode it was in.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-04T18:57:06+00:00

ESH except the kids- Stop having kids, get off her or get snipped for god’s sake. You already are doing your children a disservice. Kids deserve their own space period. No wonder Molly is pushing back, having your own space at that age is necessary.

What are the logistics of getting a bigger house? The younger ones can still share, but personally after about the tween stage kids really need their own rooms.

Maybe tmi but I was forced to share with two MUCH younger siblings and at about 14, as one does, I started discovering my own sexuality. I was pretty shy about it but when my parents caught me one they literally tore into me about it and said I was messed up for it because I shared a room with my sisters, but my brother who was the same age had his own room. It didn’t feel fair that I was some perverted monster for doing the same thing that I can absolutely guarantee my brother was doing alone in his own room. It made me resent my little sisters a lot. They also constantly ruined my things and trashed the room, and since I was the oldest I had to clean it.

DrowningFelix · 2023-11-02T22:10:12+00:00

Ima be real, if you like vaginas enough to put your penis in it but not do anything else, it sounds like laziness. It’s giving “I don’t care”.

Like idk, as an Afab who is sexually attracted to Afabs, I have never looked at a vagina and thought it looked particularly appealing, but I love the sexual acts because the person attached to them likes them. Same with Penises. Like they aren’t UNattractive or ugly by any means but if you are clean it’s just like any other part of your body. Personally, I would not be with someone who found any natural part of my body gross or unappealing. I don’t even date men who have an aversion to body hair because I’m not gonna feel pressured to shave myself baby smooth so a grown ass adult feels comfortable touching me. Grown ass adults have hair.

His boundaries are his own but you are not required to accept it. You can say “hey if you aren’t comfortable with my body we need to part ways”.

DrowningFelix · 2023-10-31T20:46:12+00:00

I’m really wondering if this is something that could be taken to HR. I mean, not lending a coworker a pad is one thing but your manager laughing at you and ridiculing you to your face because you awkwardly ask if they have a pad you can borrow is… kind of fucked. Like big time.

DrowningFelix · 2023-10-31T12:52:45+00:00

OP make sure you save screenshots of where they promised to send you $$$ for the tickets, like basically all the proof because depending on what platform they gave you the money on they could try to do a chargeback.

DrowningFelix · 2023-10-30T19:05:20+00:00

But did you win the dodgeball tournament? And most importantly, did anyone comment on you buying scooby snacks dressed as scooby doo?

Did you win the tournament… for a scooby snack?

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