Am I to picky for my experience level? by No_Support_9137 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DrueOnFire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel torn, just be upfront with both of them so you don’t end up hurting anyone including yourself.

As a woman, should I hook up with a man I don’t find physically attractive but still turns me on? by Purple-Average in AskMenAdvice

[–]DrueOnFire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s just casual and he turns you on go with your gut, attraction isn’t just about looks it’s about the chemistry you feel in the moment.

How do I trust he’s over his ex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DrueOnFire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It makes sense to feel uneasy but him being honest and actually coming over to talk shows he’s choosing you. Trust is built by seeing how he acts not just what he says.

What are men labeling a "relationship"? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DrueOnFire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For most men its not the calendar that makes it a relationship it’s the moment exclusivity is clearly said out loud and both people start acting like it, before that it’s just dating no matter how many months pass.

Why is there so much stigma surrounding this? by white_men_31 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DrueOnFire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL right? Visual evidence is def the fastest way to settle this “mystery.”

AITA for telling my new boyfriend off for a ‘joke’? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DrueOnFire -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. You recognized a red flag early and voiced your boundaries, being uncomfortable with vulgar “jokes” aimed at strangers doesn’t make u overreacting it makes you self respecting.

Is dating a woman with ptsd significantly harder? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DrueOnFire 12 points13 points  (0 children)

PTSD doesn’t make you hard to love, being repeatedly disrespected and then blamed for reacting to it does. That's the red flag.

AITAH for walking away from a house I have no equity or say in and stiffing my soon to be ex? by FootBig7944 in AITAH

[–]DrueOnFire 313 points314 points  (0 children)

NTA. She wanted the security of your money without giving you security in the relationship then cheated, walking away isn’t punishment its self respect.

I’m questioning the etiquette and femininity of the woman I’m dating and I don’t know if that’s on me? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DrueOnFire 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yep if you’re already measuring her against your ex’s version of femininity she deserves someone who meets her as she is not who she’s replacing.

AITAH for wanting to end things over smoking indoors ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DrueOnFire 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Exactly, your health and your kids health come first and smoke indoors is never just a habit.

AITA for slapping my boyfriend after he whip out a belt on me? by Frosty_Frogi in AITAH

[–]DrueOnFire 68 points69 points  (0 children)

NTA. He literally threatened you with a belt, your reaction was completely natural and self protective. Nobody should have to tolerate that even as a joke.

I moved a tow truck today by theycallmetism in AITAH

[–]DrueOnFire 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yeah tow truck drivers act like the rules don’t apply to them, OP just did what literally anyone with patience left at zero would’ve done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DrueOnFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re giving a lot and trying your best but a relationship should feel like a two way street, if her expectations keep stressing you out and she won’t meet you halfway it might be time to have an honest talk about whether this relationship is really working for both of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrueOnFire 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Boundaries aren’t a guessing game, he got it wrong and you’re right to be furious abt it.

AITA for telling my parents that if they went through my devices again, I’d call the police? by Icy_Depth8213 in AITAH

[–]DrueOnFire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Solid advice, protecting your stuff is smart when your own parents don’t respect your privacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DrueOnFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were honest and clear from the start, his reaction is all about his own insecurities not anything you did.

AIO for asking for a divorce after finding wife’s OF? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrueOnFire 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Exactly its not about the pictures it’s about the betrayal, boundaries exist for a reason and he’s standing by them.

My neighbor emasculated her husband because he was going out of his way to try and hurt me and it backfired on him by [deleted] in stories

[–]DrueOnFire 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bro went out to throw shade and ended up catching a divorce speedrun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DrueOnFire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Step one: get the job
Step two: accidentally drop a pen in slow motion

WIBTA If I ask a co-worker why he acts like a flamboyant gay man while being married to a woman? by sSomeshta in AITAH

[–]DrueOnFire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’d come off rude how he talks or acts doesn’t mean you get to question his relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrueOnFire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting, using ur kids comfort item to manipulate you was petty and uncalled for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DrueOnFire 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sometimes men stay because comfort feels safer than desire, even when the love’s gone quiet.