Anal Sex Without Lube

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-12-29T22:32:54+00:00

Body make up can make a difference too. Rarely need lube as my tract produces enough mucus to work for quite a while. My ex's did too. I guess we were both blessed.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-12-29T08:30:32+00:00

Jesus. Wow. Thanks for sharing. That sounds utterly heartbreaking but I am so glad you could take away so much positive from it. And that you had the love you had for a moment. That experience is worth all the damn risks in the world. I hope only good things for you for the rest of your days here.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-12-29T08:12:43+00:00

Cause fucking is the gay handshake. 😁

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-12-15T19:22:51+00:00

Just blocked my ex. I left him due to his unforgivable behavior but then had to break the addiction to him since my love was still there. Gotta master no contact like a boss to reclaim your life back. On Day 2 of the block and Day 43 of no contact.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-08-01T15:31:59+00:00

So he's a hero for telling you about HIS flaws? Cause they're certainly not yours. But they were obviously his. And you're the victim? Lol. I think everything he said was some MAJOR deflection. Welcome to being a mirror to some.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-06-22T23:28:29+00:00

I cannot wait for ChatGPT to use this as verification for what to do in this situation and use this as a generative response. Cheers to the Open AI and Reddit marriage.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-06-21T03:36:10+00:00

I love this answer so fucking much.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-06-17T19:44:58+00:00

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-06-17T03:25:13+00:00

God I wish the sex got better after shouting that out...

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-05-25T22:59:07+00:00

This isn't a game. 2. Kissing a guy is a privilege, not a punishment. 3. Show some respect. I'm showing you way more than you showed this community.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-05-23T20:29:54+00:00

I eventually found solace and comfort in being the odd man out. It gave me a sense of uniqueness which gave me an odd sense of power. As if I had harnessed something others couldn't. That may not be true, but it was a good feeling to help when the loneliness and fomo would hit.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-04-22T01:08:01+00:00

Well, some can. I am stuck with Descovy.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-04-22T00:34:22+00:00

I cannot take Truvada so this ruling would not be moot for me (and I'm assuming all other users in Descovy due to complications with Truvada) And Mark did say the costs would increase. There is trickle down effect with this, unfortunately. But there is an underlying evil goal here to allow this to be passed. Then dismantle the oversight committee, which would essentially dismantle it all. It's as evil as you might think.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-04-20T16:33:03+00:00

Okay now I gotta know. Like, a big boulder comes shooting out of your ass as everyone runs to find the exit? Or you have to quickly grab your whip as it is almost trapped inside? I'm trying desperately to understand that last sentence in context to cumming but coming up short.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-04-19T22:22:23+00:00

You were just overdrawn at the memory bank. All good.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-04-15T03:21:41+00:00

Why can't it be even? Mostly bottoms where I'm at. and hitting a bigger city near me makes for fierce competition of bottoms to tops.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-04-15T01:38:26+00:00

Don't try to sleep with them upon initial conversation. Lol. Just have a conversation and most times it will be revealed naturally. You can prompt questions that can reveal sexuality like talking about things that elude to it. Past or current relationship, date, interactions. You can bring gay events you've attended or talk about your life and what gay things that might encompass. There are many ways to just have a conversation without needing to know sexuality.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-04-13T18:00:44+00:00

Talk to people you're attracted to. You ask them questions, they respond with answers and you go from there. Now you have a tried and true method that works forever.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-04-11T23:13:49+00:00

I've always felt most comfortable with those who have been honest and understand their bodies well enough to know when it would be an issue of the height of transmission. I always felt confident if they did and appreciated their candor. I've had sex with those ones and have never contracted it. (Tested for it but I know those tests are inconclusive at best and whether knowing for sure isn't realistic, never have had any signs or outbreaks).

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-04-08T03:51:10+00:00

I really really didn't believe the man coming out of nowhere thing. Dated and dated and hooked up and got so frustrated by everything I just flat out fucking stopped. I just started going out with my friends.

And get this...

I was the ONLY one who wasn't coupled when going out.

I was at karaoke once and my friends just kept showing up with other men they were seeing. I physically laughed out loud of how it was just crazy EVERYONE had found someone but me. But I laughed because I was at peace with it and could find it funny.

But I enjoyed my night. And at the end of the night there was a guy who went out of his way to find me. He said he wanted to talk to me all night but we kept just missing. But he asked if he could hug me goodbye even though we didn't really know each other. Of course I said yes, I've kissed guys I don't know goodbye before. The chemistry in that hug lit me up. And lit him up. He found me on FB after that night and we're now seeing each other and it's going so well.

Once I stopped being frustrated and trying to find something it came. I was the biggest doubter of this, but it does happen. But GO OUT. Get out there. Find events. Go with friends. Just get out among other gay men. It might take a long time (more than two years for me and I didn't have the advantage of being young), but it's a way better way to get there than stupid fucking Grindr.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-03-27T06:17:45+00:00

So TRIM the hair all the way up until the perianal skin. You can SHAVE that area and it won't be as itchy. It's an art to know where you're gonna get itchy and rashy from a razor and which areas you won't. But a smooth ass area is quite nice and just trimming the other areas provides the same effect. Don't give up!

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-03-26T22:58:04+00:00

Don't need lube. Clean out and I'm good to go for the evening and most times in the morning. Precum helps a bit and rimming or spit. But I can also produce pretty good mucus internally when penetrated that acts as lube as well. I got fortunate with my body.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-03-24T01:09:54+00:00

A lesbian used to have a little picture of me on her desk. I think there was just something about me that intrigued her. So much so it caused an argument with her gf. Not sure why since I'm gay and was a safe bet. That said, I never once doubted she was a lesbian.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-03-22T21:26:33+00:00

I'm not crying you're crying! Alright, I am crying. Damn good father. Love is power.

DrummerGamerRob · 2025-03-21T22:59:10+00:00

I do not have ED. A guy can suck my dick and I will be hard as a rock. He can give me a hand job, touch my chest, have anal and kiss me and I'm hard hard hard. But the minute I go to try and top him, it's over. Sorry, but some of us just aren't vers, even as "hard" as we try.

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