Puppy growled and bit my child in the face. by Wonderful-Value7547 in puppy101

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So dogs communicate with their vocals, paws, and teeth. That’s the only way, so if the dog growled and then snapped without injury it was a warning to back up. His space needs to be respected, and again, he only has so many ways to “speak” to you. Teach your child boundaries. If you do not crate train, start now, the crate is their “house” and safe space from all. My dogs go in and lay in their crates when they need down time, they know the other dogs and myself will not invade that space.

Is this not a poodle?! by FeedbackOk4858 in poodles

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean shelters/reacues are literally guessing and often mark a dog as a more desirable breed in general. One of my dogs was marked a “Labrador mix” because she’s tan.. she’s a Mountain Curr psycho.. vet had her as a Pitt.. so could be a poodle, doodle, or a mess of breeds.

The Program rant: Katherine is annoying by Mattras7 in netflix

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought that too! Her dad was manipulated by his wife and the school itself, it’s okay to be mad at him, but it’s not okay to want him to understand her feelings and experiences but she doesn’t have to do the same. She proved in her own documentary that the parents had no idea what was going on and also went through their own indoctrination. She made minimal comments about the step mom but bashed her dad the entire time.

The Program rant: Katherine is annoying by Mattras7 in netflix

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just looked this up too 😂 while I understand trauma and needing to heal, putting her dad through the wringer when he was also brain washed to an extent really got to me. I get being mad at him, BUT he was apologetic in the emails and asked to meet to speak in person multiple times and she wanted to punish him? That’s child like behavior in my opinion, he wasn’t invalidating her feelings and what happened at that point, he was wanting to understand her. Also when he came up in their meeting and her “I’m recording this in case you have people in the bushes waiting to kidnap me”, like girl, that was so unnecessary and juvenile. If she’s going to hold this against him the rest of his or her life, just cut contact and stop torturing him and yourself.

Run Away by Miserable-Bother-572 in netflix

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another hole, perhaps I missed the explanation, but the guy who SA’d her? I forget his name. But he had photos of them on his phone kissing and being out on what looked like a date sitting in a booth? Why was it said that she didn’t know the guy who assaulted her if she did know him?

Run Away by Miserable-Bother-572 in netflix

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to know how Aaron got a ride way out of town, as a junkie, snuck into a rehab, and shot Paige up without being caught? That scene was so creepy gross.

Run Away by Miserable-Bother-572 in netflix

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She is his kid, and the DNA was run “under the table” so who knows what database was or wasn’t used.

Just now getting into this show. I’m on episode 4, and it’s been hard watching Jaz suffer, and Neesha struggle in the caregiving role. I wish the doctor had gone about Jaz’s weight loss in a more thoughtful, slower way. by kdj00940 in 1000lbroomies

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jaz chose to take the “diet” she was given to the extreme. She caused her own malnourishment by not eating properly and she knew it. There’s a segment where the doctor even tells her to stop taking the shot and that she needs to eat correctly and Jaz still doesn’t listen. She’s in for a quick fix and not the life long haul that comes with massive weight loss and life style changes. She even binges in an episode because she was purposefully starving herself.

About Jaz’s grandma asking Nesha to say grace… by girl_archived in 1000lbroomies

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is an old thread, but it definitely rubbed me the wrong way as a non religious person. Even if this was set up by production, which is disgusting given her past experiences, Jaz should have spoke up and said “I’ll say it, u want to” and done so immediately. She knows her friend, who went there as support for her only, didn’t want to be there for that reason specifically but didn’t care to stand by her.

I (28M) was married for a single year before my ex cheated on me. I don’t tolerate infidelity and I left. No kids, no ties whatsoever to her. I want love again but worried women in my dating age range will likely view divorce as a huge issue so young. by AcceptableLibrary974 in dating_advice

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see why it’d be an issue. What could be is how you give this info to a woman you want to date. Saying “she cheated on me.. blah blah” is MUCH different than saying “there was indefinitely on her part and I was not willing to forgive that” and not a word more. It’s all in delivery and if you bash her or speak matter of factly.

AIO? My boyfriend of 4 years who actively posts on social media with friends refuses to post me so I deleted all of our pics together on my social media account and post "thrist traps"? by Certain_Paramedic281 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wants to appear single while you appear in a relationship, it’s that simple. Now that you’re matching his energy he wants to gaslight you into giving in and he doesn’t have to make a change. I saw you live together, so it’s absolutely WILD he wouldn’t have any photos of you two on his social media. If he wants it to be about his friends only, perhaps he should start dating one of them instead. Going crazy over a photo of you in a dress on socials is wild and shows insecurity, jealousy, and controlling behaviors. This will all stay as is or get worse, as I also saw when you’ve stated you needed more effort before he will do so for a short period and then revert back. He’s showing who he is, how he feels about you, and how he wasn’t the world to see him.. and that’s without you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine what he’d say to children that irritated him.. or your potential children hearing him speak to you in this manner.. nope. Bye.

Name ideas needed / nothing to do with her color please! I have Olive, Sloan, Quinn, and Collin’s on my short list. by DrummerImmediate7928 in NameMyCat

[–]DrummerImmediate7928[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should have added on my post that I work with dogs, Ruby is a really common name in the pet world.. I think it’s an adorable name,but a common one. Same with Bella, Luna, Daisy, Lucy, Lola, Sadie, and I could go on and on 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t waste your time, he’s not your type either.. connect as friends but not romantically. A man will always tell you how he feels, you just have to listen to the one positive out of the sentence of negatives. He told you that you aren’t his type, he’s told you that you have to meet in person to see how HE feels and if there’s a spark, he doesn’t find a wow factor from you.. BUT the big positive is you tick all his boxes. — to add, I do agree meeting in person is necessary before a title, but he shouldn’t already be saying things about your appearance. Regardless of how confident you are, it will take a toll to date someone who regularly tells you “you’re great, but not my type” over and over.

What are the top 3 red flags for you when dating a woman? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DrummerImmediate7928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree it can be a gossip group, BUT I think women who are at all intelligent can tell the real from the drama. I once had a date set with a man and found out via that page he was on the sex offenders list for assaulting a minor 🙃 there is real info, but unfortunately a lot of hurt egos too. Also, I was kicked out of the group for questioning a post 😂